Do Men Look at Porn?

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I have a slightly off-topic question.
Oh, and people are allowed to hurt my feelings if they want to.

How come when guys talk about beating off or striking out/trying/wanting to get laid it’s all good, but when I talk about it it’s being sex starved and needy?

Why can’t I be like the female Louis CK? He talks about masturbation non-stop and it does so in a very self-deprecating manner.

I love Louis CK…

K sorry OP I don’t really have any advice for you, but I think you should be allowed to look at porn. :slight_smile:

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I have a slightly off-topic question.
Oh, and people are allowed to hurt my feelings if they want to.

How come when guys talk about beating off or striking out/trying/wanting to get laid it’s all good, but when I talk about it it’s being sex starved and needy?

Why can’t I be like the female Louis CK? He talks about masturbation non-stop and it does so in a very self-deprecating manner.

I love Louis CK…

K sorry OP I don’t really have any advice for you, but I think you should be allowed to look at porn. :)[/quote]

Is this on TN or irl? I don’t see it on here, although I don’t follow you around from thread to thread.

Really, I don’t.

Really.

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I have a slightly off-topic question.
Oh, and people are allowed to hurt my feelings if they want to.

How come when guys talk about beating off or striking out/trying/wanting to get laid it’s all good, but when I talk about it it’s being sex starved and needy?

Why can’t I be like the female Louis CK? He talks about masturbation non-stop and it does so in a very self-deprecating manner.

I love Louis CK…

K sorry OP I don’t really have any advice for you, but I think you should be allowed to look at porn. :)[/quote]

Because guys want girly girls not masculine women who talk like men.

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I have a slightly off-topic question.
Oh, and people are allowed to hurt my feelings if they want to.

How come when guys talk about beating off or striking out/trying/wanting to get laid it’s all good, but when I talk about it it’s being sex starved and needy?

Why can’t I be like the female Louis CK? He talks about masturbation non-stop and it does so in a very self-deprecating manner.

I love Louis CK…

K sorry OP I don’t really have any advice for you, but I think you should be allowed to look at porn. :)[/quote]
You know why. Double standards. Set by men to keep you down and subservient. It’s not my thing, but there it is. Personally, I think it’s hot to hear stuff like that from a woman.
Are you sharing?

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I have a slightly off-topic question.
Oh, and people are allowed to hurt my feelings if they want to.

How come when guys talk about beating off or striking out/trying/wanting to get laid it’s all good, but when I talk about it it’s being sex starved and needy?

Why can’t I be like the female Louis CK? He talks about masturbation non-stop and it does so in a very self-deprecating manner.

I love Louis CK…

K sorry OP I don’t really have any advice for you, but I think you should be allowed to look at porn. :)[/quote]

Who calls you sex starved and needy?

Everyone needs to get off. Get yourself off. Cum on your hands and sling it at the mailman when he drops off letters…invite him in.

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[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I have a slightly off-topic question.
Oh, and people are allowed to hurt my feelings if they want to.

How come when guys talk about beating off or striking out/trying/wanting to get laid it’s all good, but when I talk about it it’s being sex starved and needy?

Why can’t I be like the female Louis CK? He talks about masturbation non-stop and it does so in a very self-deprecating manner.

I love Louis CK…

K sorry OP I don’t really have any advice for you, but I think you should be allowed to look at porn. :)[/quote]

Is this on TN or irl? I don’t see it on here, although I don’t follow you around from thread to thread.

Really, I don’t.

Really.
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HAHHA, well, I don’t really socalize with humanoids in real life, sooooo, ya on here.
I thought T-Nation would be my safe haven for talking about being horny, etc…
Cause you know, most of ya’ll be dudes and whatnot.

I got in trouble with some facebook friends because they said I’d never meet a nice boy if I keep talking about masturbating so much. I don’t really want to meet a boy that isn’t okay with me talking about masturbating. :confused:

IF I can’t talk about it on facebook and I can’t talk about it here, then…then…
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD WHERE!!!

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I have a slightly off-topic question.
Oh, and people are allowed to hurt my feelings if they want to.

How come when guys talk about beating off or striking out/trying/wanting to get laid it’s all good, but when I talk about it it’s being sex starved and needy?

Why can’t I be like the female Louis CK? He talks about masturbation non-stop and it does so in a very self-deprecating manner.

I love Louis CK…

K sorry OP I don’t really have any advice for you, but I think you should be allowed to look at porn. :)[/quote]

My dear so sweet sweet Spock, we are after all in OESTROGEN cough TESTOSTERONE Nation. A nation filled with ALPHA MALES. It’s all about Bros here, you know? When it comes to banging 100 females a month or jerking off to overinflated mouth, pussies and assholes, it’s all good. Wait for a woman to be as sexual and they’ll tear her down like a pack of wild dogs would a hyena.

But who the fuck cares???! If you want to masturbate and talk about it, if you want to be the female Louis CK, be it. Do WHATEVER the FUCK you wanna do with your pussy and fingers and keyboard, and FUCK the insecure bitches.

Now… tell me, did you masturbate last night? wink, wink

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:

IF I can’t talk about it on facebook and I can’t talk about it here, then…then…
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD WHERE!!![/quote]

HERE! HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEERE!!!

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Spock, you don’t want a nice boy. Or more accurately, you want a nice boy who can listen to you talk about masturbating without clutching his pearls.

They’re (we’re) out there.

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I got in trouble with some facebook friends because they said I’d never meet a nice boy if I keep talking about masturbating so much. I don’t really want to meet a boy that isn’t okay with me talking about masturbating. :confused:
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I’ve known one girl who was really open talking about masturbating and stuff. I thought it was cool and kinda hot.

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[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I have a slightly off-topic question.
Oh, and people are allowed to hurt my feelings if they want to.

How come when guys talk about beating off or striking out/trying/wanting to get laid it’s all good, but when I talk about it it’s being sex starved and needy?

Why can’t I be like the female Louis CK? He talks about masturbation non-stop and it does so in a very self-deprecating manner.

I love Louis CK…

K sorry OP I don’t really have any advice for you, but I think you should be allowed to look at porn. :)[/quote]

My dear so sweet sweet Spock, we are after all in OESTROGEN cough TESTOSTERONE Nation. A nation filled with ALPHA MALES. It’s all about Bros here, you know? When it comes to banging 100 females a month or jerking off to overinflated mouth, pussies and assholes, it’s all good. Wait for a woman to be as sexual and they’ll tear her down like a pack of wild dogs would a hyena.

But who the fuck cares???! If you want to masturbate and talk about it, if you want to be the female Louis CK, be it. Do WHATEVER the FUCK you wanna do with your pussy and fingers and keyboard, and FUCK the insecure bitches.

Now… tell me, did you masturbate last night? wink, wink[/quote]

I love you so much.

If you ever host a seminar on how to be confident and sexy I would save up allll my pennies and fly on down there in a heartbeat!!!

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:

I love you so much.

If you ever host a seminar on how to be confident and sexy I would save up allll my pennies and fly on down there in a heartbeat!!! [/quote]

Aww, dang it, you’re making me soft now…

I love you too Spock :slight_smile: (can’t believe I said that. Not my style…) but yeah, you’re a fantastic, kind hearted and funny woman and I only wish nothing but the best to you in your love life.

XX

Now… erm… can we talk about masturbating now? wink :slight_smile:

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This thread makes my heart sad and my dick soft. If she is THAT controlling over your life you have a seriously shitty life coming up. I’m talking spending your weekends cleaning the gutters just for peace of mind and alone time.

Porn is just a way to make yourself feel better. She’ll ask questions about the girls but she doesn’t get it. I told my gf “Look, there are thousands of women I would have sex with, but only one I talk to and share feelings with.” If she doesn’t get that then you, kind sir, are fucked.

Watch porn beat off=feel better, go have a good day/good night’s sleep.

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Never make a promise you can’t or won’t deliver on.

My wife has brought this issue up in the past, and also tried to make the “it’s the same as cheating” argument.

I just told her it’s something I’ve done for basically my entire life, and I’m not going to stop, ever. I’m not even going to get into the “why it’s not cheating” stuff, because it doesn’t matter. I’m not going to stop even if I can’t win that argument, so why have it in the first place?

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I have a slightly off-topic question.
Oh, and people are allowed to hurt my feelings if they want to.

How come when guys talk about beating off or striking out/trying/wanting to get laid it’s all good, but when I talk about it it’s being sex starved and needy?

Why can’t I be like the female Louis CK? He talks about masturbation non-stop and it does so in a very self-deprecating manner.

I love Louis CK…

K sorry OP I don’t really have any advice for you, but I think you should be allowed to look at porn. :)[/quote]

I knew I forgot something.

What you wrote when you wrote about that you are an expert when it comes to sexual rejection. bascially have heard it all, including examples, I immediately made a list in my mind of how many men had sex with you and then did not pursue it further.

Once you start paying attention to the subcommunication you see it everywhere.

What you were advertising was that you had sex with a handful of guys who first did the deed and then rejected you.

No matter what really happened, that advertises:

1- Easy lay

2- not a keeper, because other men have rejected you

3- not bright or socially aware enough to get that she practically screams it from the rooftops.

If you send that vibe, even in jest, the worst of the worst will zero in on you for a quick pump and dump and I doubt that you want that.

Conclusion: It is not so much what you think you say or mean, its what other people hear that forms their opinion of you and since I actually want you to get your stuff together DO NOT EVER DO THAT IRL!!!

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[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:

I love you so much.

If you ever host a seminar on how to be confident and sexy I would save up allll my pennies and fly on down there in a heartbeat!!! [/quote]

Aww, dang it, you’re making me soft now…

I love you too Spock :slight_smile: (can’t believe I said that. Not my style…) but yeah, you’re a fantastic, kind hearted and funny woman and I only wish nothing but the best to you in your love life.

XX

Now… erm… can we talk about masturbating now? wink :slight_smile:
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I love this post.

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[quote]imhungry wrote:

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:

I love you so much.

If you ever host a seminar on how to be confident and sexy I would save up allll my pennies and fly on down there in a heartbeat!!! [/quote]

Aww, dang it, you’re making me soft now…

I love you too Spock :slight_smile: (can’t believe I said that. Not my style…) but yeah, you’re a fantastic, kind hearted and funny woman and I only wish nothing but the best to you in your love life.

XX

Now… erm… can we talk about masturbating now? wink :slight_smile:
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I love this post. [/quote]
x2

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I used to be married to someone who said, “Looking at porn is the same thing as cheating.” How RIDICULOUS! By that logic, watching a heist movie should get you arrested for grand larceny.

It was an especially damning statement coming from someone who was actually in the mood about 3x per year and was lucky that I was willing to stop at just looking at porn. I vowed to never again make that mistake. I think strongly anti-porn women are all hopelessly repressed anyway.

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I got a folder on my desktop discreetly labelled “PORN”.

Own that shit, stop being a pussy.

I’ve also been happily married for 12 years.

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'mazing the personalities chiming in on this subject -

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