SooOoOOoO, does anyone think I should sign up for E Harmony if I promise not to discuss my sexual urges?
^^^ Asking for advice.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
You know why people think you’re being an asshole, Orion?
You actually addressed Spock on a topic that had nothing to do with the subject at hand. You brought up something that she mentioned on another thread and turned it into some psychological bullshit. She never asked for a sexual rejection help. Her original post was about double standards with regards to male/female sexuality.
What was the point of you writing that shit few posts back? Trying to embarrass her? It’s not like she asked, ‘Hey O, I need some help to get laid and keep a guy. Please help me!!!’
And now you’re backpeddling, saying you originally asked her a question whereas you started the passive aggressive attacks and judgemental drivel.
So yes, you’ve been a fucking asshole. I don’t know what the fuck’s wrong with you these days.[/quote]
Nonsense.
What could I possibly get out of embarassing her?
With all due respect, that is beyond idiotic.
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It’s good question, quit while you’re behind. You’re not exactly the example by which all should live. You are acting like you know things you don’t. You act as if you are certified in something you’re not. You’re just being a ass-lick.
Self deprecation is a public display of humility, that’s all. I don’t see anywhere where she is a lonely, horny, loser with no chance at getting a guy. She’s being humble in her speech, she is showing vulnerability and you chose to cease on it and prey on it. That’s being a jerk. No where in her expressions is she showing any deep emotional lack. Quite the opposite, she’s just hanging out trying to be one of the guys.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
SooOoOOoO, does anyone think I should sign up for E Harmony if I promise not to discuss my sexual urges?
^^^ Asking for advice. [/quote]
Why not? It can’t hurt (too bad). My single friends have told me the more expensive a sight is to join, the less losers/weirdos/pervs are on there.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
SooOoOOoO, does anyone think I should sign up for E Harmony if I promise not to discuss my sexual urges?
^^^ Asking for advice. [/quote]
Uh, that’s up to you. I think it depends on what you want out of it and how high your expectations are. I know somebody who did, and they felt it was kind of disaster. But it could be a way of meeting people, but the old fears about it reign true, everybody is a fucking liar on there, just like anywhere else. That’s what I heard. I am of course married so I don’t have personal experience in the online meat-markets.
DEFINITELY DO NOT DISCUSS YOUR SEXUAL URGES THERE. That will only draw the seediest of creeps. You basically want to discuss those with people who have no agenda to fuck you. People with agendas will fuck you up royally as they are in it for themselves.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
SooOoOOoO, does anyone think I should sign up for E Harmony if I promise not to discuss my sexual urges?
^^^ Asking for advice. [/quote]
Nah. Lack of guile and a strong libido are assets. They may not be something to put out there front and center, but acting like it isn’t part of you is setting up for failure.
[quote]chillain wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
Orion keepin it real
The rest of yall doing that shit from SAMA where a dude would say something obvious and everyone would lose their shit.[/quote]
Definitely.
And besides, don’t those fictional vulcans actually despise the way emotion clouds logical thought?
And maybe they’re actually onto something?
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The world is a terrible place full of people using their hearts instead of their heads.
Orion is the “asshole” in this situation but he hasnt once lashed out at anyone…every reply to his is some form of a cuss out.
Funny as hell really.
[quote]strangemeadow wrote:
Just wanted to help in the saving of this thread…[/quote]
nicely done.
[quote]strangemeadow wrote:
Just wanted to help in the saving of this thread…[/quote]
Dear lord…
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
SooOoOOoO, does anyone think I should sign up for E Harmony if I promise not to discuss my sexual urges?
^^^ Asking for advice. [/quote]
Yes, do that.
That is basically a sellers market which works in your favor.
Your kid, your assumed knowledge of Star Trek trivia and a certain openess should be there, but not front and center.
You will most likely be flooded with messages, let the ones that interest you work for it every bit of the way.
Meaning, email, then number, then coffee or some such.
And, for the love of God, even if you feel like ripping his clothes off, dont do that.
Let him work for that too, so that he can feel the pride of having conquered you.
People are people, we do not value thing that come to us to easily.
That is ancient female game and it is called “playing hard too get”.
Not too hard, just hard.
Weeds out the players.
God, I am going to get shit on for this, not T-Nation style either, but fo realz!
Hey, I know this thread isn’t about my horrible marriage or porn anymore. But I do appreciate the different views and insights.
To clear up a few things, boning is a nearly daily activity. I have received plenty of nude pics of her, as well as she received wang pics. The most recent nude of her I have, she is about 5 months pregnant.
She seems to be pretty open to everything except her husband viewing other women. For example, one of the first times that we had sex, she asked for some moderate choking.
[quote]RynoSmash wrote:
Hey, I know this thread isn’t about my horrible marriage or porn anymore. But I do appreciate the different views and insights.
To clear up a few things, boning is a nearly daily activity. I have received plenty of nude pics of her, as well as she received wang pics. The most recent nude of her I have, she is about 5 months pregnant.
She seems to be pretty open to everything except her husband viewing other women. For example, one of the first times that we had sex, she asked for some moderate choking. [/quote]
I am sosoOSOSOSOSOSOOSO SORRY! I get nervous at the thought of starting my own threads so I sorta just post my own randomness in other people’s…
I hope your porning situation works out ! TAKECARE
I appreciate it. I’m sure you’ll find a mate sooner or later.
[quote]RynoSmash wrote:
Hey fellow T-Nationers, my wife, for some reason, decided to go through my computer’s history and found that I had visited some adult websites. I kind of figured that would be obvious considering my previous history as a dude. But she is telling me that no married man ever looks at porn and it is the same as cheating.
This started like 2 years ago and she has since busted me like 3 more times. Is it that big of a deal for a married dude to be looking at women on the internet? Am I some sort of sexual deviant?
It’s not like I’m taking sexy-time away from her, or looking at it constantly. But, if I’m at home alone, I maychance peruse a few adult oriented sites. [/quote]
Are you married to EmilyQ?
Hilarious.
Orion, lack of tact aside, is giving Spock legitimate advice and the white knights come crashing through the door.
Gotta wonder why.
[quote]RynoSmash wrote:
Hey, I know this thread isn’t about my horrible marriage or porn anymore. But I do appreciate the different views and insights.
To clear up a few things, boning is a nearly daily activity. I have received plenty of nude pics of her, as well as she received wang pics. The most recent nude of her I have, she is about 5 months pregnant.
She seems to be pretty open to everything except her husband viewing other women. For example, one of the first times that we had sex, she asked for some moderate choking. [/quote]
Why don’t you look at your second paragraph down. Then go back and re-read your 1st paragraph
porn just makes her feel inadequate. If she’s pregnant then she’s definitely hormonal and emotional and probably feels like a fat cow.
[quote]Makavali wrote:
Hilarious.
Orion, lack of tact aside, is giving Spock legitimate advice and the white knights come crashing through the door.
Gotta wonder why.[/quote]
Because of the lack of tact dillweed. He was being a fucking tool. I don’t care if he was trying to help or how legitimate you think his perspective is, he shouldn’t have been such a rude piece of shit about it. Can’t believe you weren’t able to figure that out on your own; you seemed like a smart guy.
[quote]csulli wrote:
Because of the lack of tact dillweed. He was being a fucking tool. I don’t care if he was trying to help or how legitimate you think his perspective is, he shouldn’t have been such a rude piece of shit about it. Can’t believe you weren’t able to figure that out on your own; you seemed like a smart guy.[/quote]
Thanks for your subjective judgement/opinion. Why you (and others) feel the need to pass that off as authoritative/factual in any way is, in fact, kind of childish. Believe it or not.
What’s unclear is whether you’re conceding or dismissing the legitimacy/intent of orion’s earlier posts.
What is clear is that all the name-calling is silly; and the result is you don’t seem like a smart guy.
[quote]Makavali wrote:
Hilarious.
Orion, lack of tact aside, is giving Spock legitimate advice and the white knights come crashing through the door.
Gotta wonder why.[/quote]
I would have done it privately, but I cant.
So, since I thought it was important, I did it out in the open.
“Tact” has its time and its place, this was not one of them.
Plus, if Spock has gotten some idea where the problem might be and that it is absolutely manageable my lack of tact has done here more good than that army of white knights in their shining armor.
All I have left to say is that this thread has gotten fucking ridiculous.
And high five to Spock for being an Albertan.