
[quote]Christian Thibaudeau wrote:
[quote]Dont Want None wrote: I’m actually planning on doing something along the same lines with my girlfriend. She is a very random gym goer (i.e. 3 weeks, then none, then 2, etc…). She is in the same idea of not needing to actually loose any weight per se, but for health reasons and for her personal goals she wants some strength and to be a bit “fitter”.
Can’t wait to see the new program, and congrats again to your wife.[/quote]
- My wife has been super lean most of her life. When we met she was 122 on 5’5" with decent abs… and she maintained that physique without any serious training and while not eating that well. So she didn’t see the need to train as she stayed externally “in shape”. Last year she started gaining weight due to several factors.
But the lesson is that just because RIGHT NOW you do not need training to look good, doesn’t mean that it will always be this way. And the later you try to change you habits, the harder it is. So better take the habit of regular training right now.
- My wife, like many women don’t really like strength training because…
a) they find it repetitive and boring
b) they have a mental block about becoming too big
With the first roadblock I find that using a ton of exercise and method variation helps. I also like to start with very short sessions with women… 20-25 minutes but with very little rest. They don’t have time to get bored. And you increase the length of the sessions very gradually.
My wife used to complain about training for 30 minutes, now she’s telling me “is that all?” after a 60 minutes workout.
With the second mental block I find that jumps, low reps/heavy weights, whole body movements like the olympic lifts and GPP stuff helps because they don’t cause a localized pump… many women equate the pump with growing big. So if you remove that feeling they will tend to be more willing to train hard. [/quote]
My sister who is getting married Aug 1 sounds very similar to your wife in terms of training (also not fat). I’ve been trying to get her to strength train, eat better so she looks dramatically different when all our cousins come in a couple months. I even bought her this book written by Lou Schurler, Cassandra Forsythe, and Alwyn Cosgrove, but no dice!
Unfortunately she loves some class called “Body Pump” (you don’t want to know) and Spin classes.