[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
I took him hunting with me cus his exwife never let him have guns around or hunt. [/quote]
I haven’t read this whole thread but we can stop right there. That alone should have told you he was a douche.[/quote]
Why?
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
I took him hunting with me cus his exwife never let him have guns around or hunt. [/quote]
I haven’t read this whole thread but we can stop right there. That alone should have told you he was a douche.[/quote]
Why?[/quote]
I think I may also be missing the undertone there.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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Honestly can’t see why anyone would even get that far with someone they can’t trust and whose personality turned them off.
And you were considering marriage?[/quote]
I wasn’t considering marriage. The who gun thing was fucked up and we never did clear that up.[/quote]
Okay Beth not to be a dick, like Chushin I am old and hard of understanding.
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LOL!
Fuck you, sonny![/quote]
Sorry Dad
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Edgy wrote:
been married over 22 years now, go to work every day while the wife sits at home and eats bon bons.
at least I’m on the right track now, right O?
right?
right 'ol buddy?
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still processing…[/quote]
He is fucking with you
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
[quote]Ronan wrote:
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.[/quote]
WTF?! If you do not derive pleasure from getting your partner off, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.
I am admittedly spoiled rotten with orgasms, but every so often I just won’t get there for one reason or another. And in those times, when he collapses on top of me and the two of us are sweaty and breathing heavy I have NEVER thought, “Man, that was pointless”. Cumming may be the end goal, but the rest of it is a fucking awesome way to pass the time.[/quote]
werent you the lady a few years back struggling with orgasms? I think it was you. now you have them all the time. what changed?[/quote]
I wasn’t struggling alone, but to let go enough with someone else was a different story. After getting out of the bad relationship I was in, I met someone who helped me with some non-traditional therapy. Then I met my boyfriend and we just clicked. The fact that he was patient with me and didn’t take the fact that it took me a while to cum as a personal afront. Once I stopped worrying about that, the pressure was gone and it has been smooth sailing :)[/quote]
Same boat. my ex gf is actually the one who brought me out of it. Then I totally regressed with this last guy. Can I ask what the non traditional therapy was?[/quote]
Back in the good old days of TN I would have been more likely to discuss this, but I am hesitant to expand on it now and invite all sorts of knuckle head comments.
I will say that “old” guys rock
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
[quote]Ronan wrote:
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.[/quote]
WTF?! If you do not derive pleasure from getting your partner off, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.
I am admittedly spoiled rotten with orgasms, but every so often I just won’t get there for one reason or another. And in those times, when he collapses on top of me and the two of us are sweaty and breathing heavy I have NEVER thought, “Man, that was pointless”. Cumming may be the end goal, but the rest of it is a fucking awesome way to pass the time.[/quote]
werent you the lady a few years back struggling with orgasms? I think it was you. now you have them all the time. what changed?[/quote]
I wasn’t struggling alone, but to let go enough with someone else was a different story. After getting out of the bad relationship I was in, I met someone who helped me with some non-traditional therapy. Then I met my boyfriend and we just clicked. The fact that he was patient with me and didn’t take the fact that it took me a while to cum as a personal afront. Once I stopped worrying about that, the pressure was gone and it has been smooth sailing :)[/quote]
Same boat. my ex gf is actually the one who brought me out of it. Then I totally regressed with this last guy. Can I ask what the non traditional therapy was?[/quote]
Back in the good old days of TN I would have been more likely to discuss this, but I am hesitant to expand on it now and invite all sorts of knuckle head comments.
I will say that “old” guys rock :)[/quote]
you mean like that chusin guy? good that you got someone to help you out. non traditional included more then just sex?
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
I took him hunting with me cus his exwife never let him have guns around or hunt. [/quote]
I haven’t read this whole thread but we can stop right there. That alone should have told you he was a douche.[/quote]
Why?[/quote]
Why? If it was up to his ex-wife whether or not he was “allowed” to have guns…what does that make him?[/quote]
A pushover not a douche. From Beth’s description he didn’t sound like a pushover.
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
I took him hunting with me cus his exwife never let him have guns around or hunt. [/quote]
I haven’t read this whole thread but we can stop right there. That alone should have told you he was a douche.[/quote]
Why?[/quote]
Why? If it was up to his ex-wife whether or not he was “allowed” to have guns…what does that make him?[/quote]
A pushover not a douche. From Beth’s description he didn’t sound like a pushover.[/quote]
Appearances (especially from a written description of someone on the internet, lol) does not always equal reality.
In beth’s defense, she likely wouldn’t want to make it sound like she was dating a pushover. I doubt many people would.
[quote]pushharder wrote:
I don’t care what term one wants to use – we could summon a thesaurus and come up with all kinds of adjectives and nouns – to describe a guy who “allows” his wife to “allow” him whether he can shoot, hunt and possess firearms. I know what he is and I know what the wife is. And I would describe both in pejorative terms.
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Yuppies?
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
I don’t care what term one wants to use – we could summon a thesaurus and come up with all kinds of adjectives and nouns – to describe a guy who “allows” his wife to “allow” him whether he can shoot, hunt and possess firearms. I know what he is and I know what the wife is. And I would describe both in pejorative terms.
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Yuppies? [/quote]
This. Hoity toity yuppies. yet another reason he and I were mismatched. I mean, who brings an apple core-er on a winter survival trip? Got the 2400 sq ft home, the two kids, the dog - everything but the picket fence. Including an obsessive compulsion to obliterate every dandelion plant in the yard - by hand - so that it looks better than all the neighbors yards.
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
I don’t care what term one wants to use – we could summon a thesaurus and come up with all kinds of adjectives and nouns – to describe a guy who “allows” his wife to “allow” him whether he can shoot, hunt and possess firearms. I know what he is and I know what the wife is. And I would describe both in pejorative terms.
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Yuppies? [/quote]
This. Hoity toity yuppies. yet another reason he and I were mismatched. I mean, who brings an apple core-er on a winter survival trip? Got the 2400 sq ft home, the two kids, the dog - everything but the picket fence. Including an obsessive compulsion to obliterate every dandelion plant in the yard - by hand - so that it looks better than all the neighbors yards.
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Those are some pretty funny things.
[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
I don’t care what term one wants to use – we could summon a thesaurus and come up with all kinds of adjectives and nouns – to describe a guy who “allows” his wife to “allow” him whether he can shoot, hunt and possess firearms. I know what he is and I know what the wife is. And I would describe both in pejorative terms.
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Yuppies? [/quote]
This. Hoity toity yuppies. yet another reason he and I were mismatched. I mean, who brings an apple core-er on a winter survival trip? Got the 2400 sq ft home, the two kids, the dog - everything but the picket fence. Including an obsessive compulsion to obliterate every dandelion plant in the yard - by hand - so that it looks better than all the neighbors yards.
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Those are some pretty funny things.
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Killing dandelions is never funny Ryan
think of the children man
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
I don’t care what term one wants to use – we could summon a thesaurus and come up with all kinds of adjectives and nouns – to describe a guy who “allows” his wife to “allow” him whether he can shoot, hunt and possess firearms. I know what he is and I know what the wife is. And I would describe both in pejorative terms.
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Yuppies? [/quote]
At first I thought that was kinda harsh, then I read the rest of the page.
Geez Beth!
Anyways, hows being single? Feel like a lad has been lifted off of your chest?
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
I don’t care what term one wants to use – we could summon a thesaurus and come up with all kinds of adjectives and nouns – to describe a guy who “allows” his wife to “allow” him whether he can shoot, hunt and possess firearms. I know what he is and I know what the wife is. And I would describe both in pejorative terms.
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Yuppies? [/quote]
This. Hoity toity yuppies. yet another reason he and I were mismatched. I mean, who brings an apple core-er on a winter survival trip? Got the 2400 sq ft home, the two kids, the dog - everything but the picket fence. Including an obsessive compulsion to obliterate every dandelion plant in the yard - by hand - so that it looks better than all the neighbors yards.
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Those are some pretty funny things.
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Killing dandelions is never funny Ryan
think of the children man
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Sorry I didn’t think it through.
[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
I don’t care what term one wants to use – we could summon a thesaurus and come up with all kinds of adjectives and nouns – to describe a guy who “allows” his wife to “allow” him whether he can shoot, hunt and possess firearms. I know what he is and I know what the wife is. And I would describe both in pejorative terms.
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Yuppies? [/quote]
At first I thought that was kinda harsh, then I read the rest of the page.
Geez Beth!
Anyways, hows being single? Feel like a lad has been lifted off of your chest?
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It feels awesome!!! The black cloud is gone and endless possibilities abound.
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
I don’t care what term one wants to use – we could summon a thesaurus and come up with all kinds of adjectives and nouns – to describe a guy who “allows” his wife to “allow” him whether he can shoot, hunt and possess firearms. I know what he is and I know what the wife is. And I would describe both in pejorative terms.
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Yuppies? [/quote]
At first I thought that was kinda harsh, then I read the rest of the page.
Geez Beth!
Anyways, hows being single? Feel like a lad has been lifted off of your chest?
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It feels awesome!!! The black cloud is gone and endless possibilities abound. [/quote]
[quote]theBeth wrote:
It feels awesome!!! The black cloud is gone and endless possibilities abound. [/quote]
To bad you live in location: That’s just not all that close to me.