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[quote]2busy wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:
I thought the entire point was getting your partner off…[/quote]

Nope

Foreplay is the entire point

and shoes, women love shoes and foreplay[/quote]

Oft times the shoes need to be part of the foreplay.[/quote]
For the love of all that is Holy yes sir[/quote]

I blame being handicapped by being on the iPhone and time constraints on not detailing foreplay and shoes in my original statement. It was assumed as part of getting her off.
[/quote]

Now lets talk about women and boots

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my first wife cheated on me, and had herself convinced that it was my fault, and I pushed her to it.

AND … i bought it. for a little while anyway.

at least she had waited for us to be married for at least 6 mos before she layed this guy. some freind of hers when they were kids.

she was a stupid cunt that I should have passed on anyways - then after we split, she screwed the rest of my freinds. it happens.

i was such a beta.

Orion, where were you when i needed you mostest?

but then i went into a rebound relationship with a woman that had two kids and a full set of furniture. we’re still married, by the way.

again, Orion 'ol buddy, where was ya?

been married over 22 years now, go to work every day while the wife sits at home and eats bon bons.

at least I’m on the right track now, right O?

right?

right 'ol buddy?

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[quote]Ronan wrote:

[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”

“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”

…lolwut?[/quote]

The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.

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I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.[/quote]

WTF?! If you do not derive pleasure from getting your partner off, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.

I am admittedly spoiled rotten with orgasms, but every so often I just won’t get there for one reason or another. And in those times, when he collapses on top of me and the two of us are sweaty and breathing heavy I have NEVER thought, “Man, that was pointless”. Cumming may be the end goal, but the rest of it is a fucking awesome way to pass the time.[/quote]

werent you the lady a few years back struggling with orgasms? I think it was you. now you have them all the time. what changed?[/quote]

I wasn’t struggling alone, but to let go enough with someone else was a different story. After getting out of the bad relationship I was in, I met someone who helped me with some non-traditional therapy. Then I met my boyfriend and we just clicked. The fact that he was patient with me and didn’t take the fact that it took me a while to cum as a personal afront. Once I stopped worrying about that, the pressure was gone and it has been smooth sailing :slight_smile:

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[quote]Edgy wrote:
my first wife cheated on me, and had herself convinced that it was my fault, and I pushed her to it.

AND … i bought it. for a little while anyway.

at least she had waited for us to be married for at least 6 mos before she layed this guy. some freind of hers when they were kids.

she was a stupid cunt that I should have passed on anyways - then after we split, she screwed the rest of my freinds. it happens.

i was such a beta.

Orion, where were you when i needed you mostest?

but then i went into a rebound relationship with a woman that had two kids and a full set of furniture. we’re still married, by the way.

again, Orion 'ol buddy, where was ya?

been married over 22 years now, go to work every day while the wife sits at home and eats bon bons.

at least I’m on the right track now, right O?

right?

right 'ol buddy?

[/quote]

I was an idiot who thought that women needed long, secure, intimate relationships for da sexay time.

Thats where I was.

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[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:

[quote]Ronan wrote:

[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”

“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”

…lolwut?[/quote]

The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.

[/quote]

I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.[/quote]

WTF?! If you do not derive pleasure from getting your partner off, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.

I am admittedly spoiled rotten with orgasms, but every so often I just won’t get there for one reason or another. And in those times, when he collapses on top of me and the two of us are sweaty and breathing heavy I have NEVER thought, “Man, that was pointless”. Cumming may be the end goal, but the rest of it is a fucking awesome way to pass the time.[/quote]

werent you the lady a few years back struggling with orgasms? I think it was you. now you have them all the time. what changed?[/quote]

I wasn’t struggling alone, but to let go enough with someone else was a different story. After getting out of the bad relationship I was in, I met someone who helped me with some non-traditional therapy. Then I met my boyfriend and we just clicked. The fact that he was patient with me and didn’t take the fact that it took me a while to cum as a personal afront. Once I stopped worrying about that, the pressure was gone and it has been smooth sailing :)[/quote]

Same boat. my ex gf is actually the one who brought me out of it. Then I totally regressed with this last guy. Can I ask what the non traditional therapy was?

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[quote]Edgy wrote:

been married over 22 years now, go to work every day while the wife sits at home and eats bon bons.

at least I’m on the right track now, right O?

right?

right 'ol buddy?

[/quote]

…

still processing…

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[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:

[quote]Ronan wrote:

[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”

“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”

…lolwut?[/quote]

The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.

[/quote]

I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.[/quote]

WTF?! If you do not derive pleasure from getting your partner off, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.

I am admittedly spoiled rotten with orgasms, but every so often I just won’t get there for one reason or another. And in those times, when he collapses on top of me and the two of us are sweaty and breathing heavy I have NEVER thought, “Man, that was pointless”. Cumming may be the end goal, but the rest of it is a fucking awesome way to pass the time.[/quote]

werent you the lady a few years back struggling with orgasms? I think it was you. now you have them all the time. what changed?[/quote]

I wasn’t struggling alone, but to let go enough with someone else was a different story. After getting out of the bad relationship I was in, I met someone who helped me with some non-traditional therapy. Then I met my boyfriend and we just clicked. The fact that he was patient with me and didn’t take the fact that it took me a while to cum as a personal afront. Once I stopped worrying about that, the pressure was gone and it has been smooth sailing :)[/quote]

Same boat. my ex gf is actually the one who brought me out of it. Then I totally regressed with this last guy. Can I ask what the non traditional therapy was?[/quote]

Rum, buggery and the lash.

I am increasingly convinced that that works best.

Worked for the British Navy?

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Wait, that would be traditional…

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[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:
I thought the entire point was getting your partner off…[/quote]

Nope

Foreplay is the entire point

and shoes, women love shoes and foreplay[/quote]

Oft times the shoes need to be part of the foreplay.[/quote]
For the love of all that is Holy yes sir[/quote]

I blame being handicapped by being on the iPhone and time constraints on not detailing foreplay and shoes in my original statement. It was assumed as part of getting her off.
[/quote]

Now lets talk about women and boots[/quote]

That works for me!

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Edgy wrote:

been married over 22 years now, go to work every day while the wife sits at home and eats bon bons.

at least I’m on the right track now, right O?

right?

right 'ol buddy?

[/quote]

Having processed it somewhat, this could get expensive?

Cheaper to keep her and whatnot?

…

still processing…[/quote]

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Beth, I’ve got two pieces of advice for you.

  1. You’re way out of this guys league, and he does not deserve your time or attention.
  2. We should take Viagra and go hunting
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[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:
I thought the entire point was getting your partner off…[/quote]

Nope

Foreplay is the entire point

and shoes, women love shoes and foreplay[/quote]

Oft times the shoes need to be part of the foreplay.[/quote]
For the love of all that is Holy yes sir[/quote]

I blame being handicapped by being on the iPhone and time constraints on not detailing foreplay and shoes in my original statement. It was assumed as part of getting her off.
[/quote]

Now lets talk about women and boots[/quote]

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Women can change the dating game for the entire country in just one month.

If every woman in America decided to simultaneously refuse aloof advances alphas, and instead screw men who only took them out to dinner, called them daily, and complimented their appearance, the result would be obvious.

Even if you are the most alpha of alpha in your crew, you would be wining and dining girls like a SIMP to get vagina if that was the only way to score. But thats not what the women want. They want the Skittles man and they want the man who texts like he has a 6th grade education.

And as long as they prefer that, thats all theyll get.

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:
I thought the entire point was getting your partner off…[/quote]

Nope

Foreplay is the entire point

and shoes, women love shoes and foreplay[/quote]

Oft times the shoes need to be part of the foreplay.[/quote]
For the love of all that is Holy yes sir[/quote]

I blame being handicapped by being on the iPhone and time constraints on not detailing foreplay and shoes in my original statement. It was assumed as part of getting her off.
[/quote]

Now lets talk about women and boots[/quote]

[/quote]

I logged on to argue with Orion but I got lazy. So, shoes!

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[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]2busy wrote:
I thought the entire point was getting your partner off…[/quote]

Nope

Foreplay is the entire point

and shoes, women love shoes and foreplay[/quote]

Oft times the shoes need to be part of the foreplay.[/quote]
For the love of all that is Holy yes sir[/quote]

I blame being handicapped by being on the iPhone and time constraints on not detailing foreplay and shoes in my original statement. It was assumed as part of getting her off.
[/quote]

Now lets talk about women and boots[/quote]

[/quote]

I loved that song when I was a kid, and remember watching her perform it on TV.[/quote]

Feminist Super-anthem/10

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Nancy Sinatra reminded me of one of my favorites.

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And also this

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[quote]theBeth wrote:
I took him hunting with me cus his exwife never let him have guns around or hunt. [/quote]

I haven’t read this whole thread but we can stop right there. That alone should have told you he was a douche.