Cheating: How Did You Deal...

[quote]print wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

It feels awesome!!! The black cloud is gone and endless possibilities abound. [/quote]

To bad you live in location: That’s just not all that close to me.[/quote]

Don’t worry about that Print, Beth is willing to move. You just need to worry she’ll figure out how old you are.

[quote]theBeth wrote:
…when you found out someone you had been with for at least a year was cheating on you? Has this happened to anyone? How did you deal with the situation? Did you confront them?[/quote]

I said “okay” and walked out the door. I like to date women (versus girls), so either they used reason to choose to disrespect our relationship or they are not mature enough to date anyone. Either way, I’m not going to convince them to not cheat or I’m not going to put the effort into helping her grow up into a mature adult who has the self-control to not stray…that should have happened before she agreed to go steady.

This is prefaced with the fact that I have never cheated either emotionally, physically, or sexually on any of my girlfriends.

All this being said, it has only happened once and it tore me apart. I wanted to fix the relationship, but I realized I’d made serious mistakes leading up to the situation. I fixed what I could so it wouldn’t happen again.

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:
…when you found out someone you had been with for at least a year was cheating on you? Has this happened to anyone? How did you deal with the situation? Did you confront them?[/quote]

I said “okay” and walked out the door. I like to date women (versus girls), so either they used reason to choose to disrespect our relationship or they are not mature enough to date anyone. Either way, I’m not going to convince them to not cheat or I’m not going to put the effort into helping her grow up into a mature adult who has the self-control to not stray…that should have happened before she agreed to go steady.

This is prefaced with the fact that I have never cheated either emotionally, physically, or sexually on any of my girlfriends.

All this being said, it has only happened once and it tore me apart. I wanted to fix the relationship, but I realized I’d made serious mistakes leading up to the situation. I fixed what I could so it wouldn’t happen again.[/quote]

Well said. I couldn’t agree more. I realize he made some of my own flaws evident in how I handle challenging relationships and that is probably where I learned the most.

[quote]on edge wrote:

[quote]print wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

It feels awesome!!! The black cloud is gone and endless possibilities abound. [/quote]

To bad you live in location: That’s just not all that close to me.[/quote]

Don’t worry about that Print, Beth is willing to move. You just need to worry she’ll figure out how old you are.[/quote]

My range is 30-45. Up to 50 for a brilliant exception. Does that help?

how old are you beth?

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
how old are you beth?[/quote]

I’m 29.

[quote]pushharder wrote:
I don’t care what term one wants to use – we could summon a thesaurus and come up with all kinds of adjectives and nouns – to describe a guy who “allows” his wife to “allow” him whether he can shoot, hunt and possess firearms. I know what he is and I know what the wife is. And I would describe both in pejorative terms.
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If I hadn’t been busy at work I would have said the same.

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
how old are you beth?[/quote]

I’m 29. [/quote]

shit… you’re almost 30…

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]on edge wrote:

[quote]print wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

It feels awesome!!! The black cloud is gone and endless possibilities abound. [/quote]

To bad you live in location: That’s just not all that close to me.[/quote]

Don’t worry about that Print, Beth is willing to move. You just need to worry she’ll figure out how old you are.[/quote]

My range is 30-45. Up to 50 for a brilliant exception. Does that help?[/quote]

If brilliant weren’t part of the requirement, then yes, I would be the exception.

[quote]print wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]on edge wrote:

[quote]print wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

It feels awesome!!! The black cloud is gone and endless possibilities abound. [/quote]

To bad you live in location: That’s just not all that close to me.[/quote]

Don’t worry about that Print, Beth is willing to move. You just need to worry she’ll figure out how old you are.[/quote]

My range is 30-45. Up to 50 for a brilliant exception. Does that help?[/quote]

If brilliant weren’t part of the requirement, then yes, I would be the exception.[/quote]

I’ll vouch for that, our Print is definity and exceptional person doggie

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
how old are you beth?[/quote]

I’m 29. [/quote]

shit… you’re almost 30…[/quote]

That’s like, nearly a third of a century!

[quote]Big Kahuna wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
how old are you beth?[/quote]

I’m 29. [/quote]

shit… you’re almost 30…[/quote]

That’s like, nearly a third of a century![/quote]
I don’t see an issue here.

[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]Big Kahuna wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
how old are you beth?[/quote]

I’m 29. [/quote]

shit… you’re almost 30…[/quote]

That’s like, nearly a third of a century![/quote]
I don’t see an issue here.[/quote]

I am definitely missing the problem.

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]on edge wrote:

[quote]print wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

It feels awesome!!! The black cloud is gone and endless possibilities abound. [/quote]

To bad you live in location: That’s just not all that close to me.[/quote]

Don’t worry about that Print, Beth is willing to move. You just need to worry she’ll figure out how old you are.[/quote]

My range is 30-45. Up to 50 for a brilliant exception. Does that help?[/quote]

I’m only 23.

… she saw my silver spurs and said lets pass some time

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
how old are you beth?[/quote]

I’m 29. [/quote]

shit… you’re almost 30…[/quote]

…well played

you and your canadian socialized medicine jokes