[quote]Chushin wrote:
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Best Post.
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
Yeah when I get in I’m a man on a mission so she better get hers before I get mine.[/quote]
If she grinds while your’re thumping her gspot, she will
[quote]Makavali wrote:
Was having sex last night, 30 seconds of thrusting and she’d finished, leaving me high and dry (for a while, that is).
I don’t even know what to feel anymore.[/quote]
I just keep going lol.
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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Was purely physical, you had an animalistic connection in bed so intimacy was great, sex isn’t great unless your both getting one another off and in close succession.
So, you found him attractive, you really dug that you were satisfying his sexual needs and the intimacy great, even if you couldn’t trust him.
Nothing at all wrong with you, just a dude not ready to get tied up, probably a lot of women dig his looks if he’s getting away with not getting anyone off… You REALLY liked facets about his personality, but he didn’t show it enough and was kind of a dick. He’s just a little player, if he were a big player he’d satisfy you. 
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.[/quote]
WTF?! If you do not derive pleasure from getting your partner off, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.
I am admittedly spoiled rotten with orgasms, but every so often I just won’t get there for one reason or another. And in those times, when he collapses on top of me and the two of us are sweaty and breathing heavy I have NEVER thought, “Man, that was pointless”. Cumming may be the end goal, but the rest of it is a fucking awesome way to pass the time.
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.[/quote]
WTF?! If you do not derive pleasure from getting your partner off, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.
I am admittedly spoiled rotten with orgasms, but every so often I just won’t get there for one reason or another. And in those times, when he collapses on top of me and the two of us are sweaty and breathing heavy I have NEVER thought, “Man, that was pointless”. Cumming may be the end goal, but the rest of it is a fucking awesome way to pass the time.[/quote]
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.[/quote]
WTF?! If you do not derive pleasure from getting your partner off, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.
I am admittedly spoiled rotten with orgasms, but every so often I just won’t get there for one reason or another. And in those times, when he collapses on top of me and the two of us are sweaty and breathing heavy I have NEVER thought, “Man, that was pointless”. Cumming may be the end goal, but the rest of it is a fucking awesome way to pass the time.[/quote]
werent you the lady a few years back struggling with orgasms? I think it was you. now you have them all the time. what changed?
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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Honestly can’t see why anyone would even get that far with someone they can’t trust and whose personality turned them off.
And you were considering marriage?[/quote]
I wasn’t considering marriage. The who gun thing was fucked up and we never did clear that up.
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
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Honestly can’t see why anyone would even get that far with someone they can’t trust and whose personality turned them off.
And you were considering marriage?[/quote]
I wasn’t considering marriage. The who gun thing was fucked up and we never did clear that up.[/quote]
Okay Beth not to be a dick, like Chushin I am old and hard of understanding.
If you did not enjoy life with this guy other than bumping uglies, than why and the fuck did you stay that long?
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
[/quote]
I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.[/quote]
WTF?! If you do not derive pleasure from getting your partner off, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.
I am admittedly spoiled rotten with orgasms, but every so often I just won’t get there for one reason or another. And in those times, when he collapses on top of me and the two of us are sweaty and breathing heavy I have NEVER thought, “Man, that was pointless”. Cumming may be the end goal, but the rest of it is a fucking awesome way to pass the time.[/quote]
Thank you, that’s my point. Yes, sex is a fucking awsome way to pass the time whether orgasm happens or not. It happens all the time with my hand so I’m not too worried about whether or not it happens with a partner. Would it be nice? Of course.
I thought the entire point was getting your partner off…
[quote]2busy wrote:
I thought the entire point was getting your partner off…[/quote]
Nope
Foreplay is the entire point
and shoes, women love shoes and foreplay
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]HeavyTriple wrote:
“everything but the sex sucked”
“I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I actually had an orgasm with him”
…lolwut?[/quote]
The sex was a kinky adrenalin rush. But as far as me getting off, I have to open up to someone for that and frankly, his personality turned me off. It’s a trust thing too. Intuitively I knew I couldn’t trust him. I shouldn’t have let it drag out like it did.
[/quote]
I think I’m going to have a hard time understanding this no matter how much you explain it. In my mind, sex with an orgasm and sex without one aren’t comparable. The latter scenario might be OK, but can’t measure up to the former.[/quote]
In the latter scenario I would rather have just not had sex at all.[/quote]
WTF?! If you do not derive pleasure from getting your partner off, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.
I am admittedly spoiled rotten with orgasms, but every so often I just won’t get there for one reason or another. And in those times, when he collapses on top of me and the two of us are sweaty and breathing heavy I have NEVER thought, “Man, that was pointless”. Cumming may be the end goal, but the rest of it is a fucking awesome way to pass the time.[/quote]
I think my meaning went clear over your head lol.
Have you ever had sex where the man didn’t get off?
Look up orgasm denial and blue balls; lemme know what you think. If you don’t get it then just chalk it up to not being able to understand men.
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]2busy wrote:
I thought the entire point was getting your partner off…[/quote]
Nope
Foreplay is the entire point
and shoes, women love shoes and foreplay[/quote]
Oft times the shoes need to be part of the foreplay.[/quote]
For the love of all that is Holy yes sir
Was cheated on by my highschool sweetheart with at least 1 of my then friends. What was funny was that he was the one who informed me she went up to the bedroom with another guy. I struggled to get over it but once I had found out that he had also slept with her it made leaving that scenario really easy.
In retrospect, I knew she was a whore BEFORE we ever even talked but I liked sex and lots of it.