[quote]tumbeh wrote:
I got bullied when I was a freshman in high school by a senior who was a freak of nature. We were on the hockey team bus and he saw my older sister and in front of everyone asked me what it was like to fuck her. He got a football scholarship and had everything. He got caught cheating on a test his second year and was expelled, moved back to our small town and has been a landscaper ever since.
I graduated high school at 140#s, went to college, discovered powerlifting and kickboxing, ate, got my degree, got an awesome job, ate some more, lifted some more and am 210#s. Went back to my hometown for the holidays one year and ran into him at a deli. I said hello and asked him if he remembered me. He said no and I explained who I was and that thing he said so many years ago. He told me he was very sorry for that and that he was a real loser back then. I said I was thinking about dragging him out of here and kicking his teeth in. He said he probably deserved that.
We ate our sandwiches on a bench out in front of the deli and had an excellent conversation. He’s a very decent guy. My wife and I have had dinner with his family a few times when we’re back there.
Maybe that guy wants to apologize to you. He remembers you. You’re too old for street fights and he doesn’t need an ass whipping from you now to remind him what a coward he was or maybe still is. [/quote]
This was supposed to be some sort of hardcore bullying? Dude, the guy teased you once with a joke made ALL THE TIME about guys with hot sisters. Like you seriously carried a grudge for 12 years because some guy joked that you slept with your sister? That’s nuts man. He doesn’t have problems, you have problems for remembering that.
I’ll probably just settle for blowing her husband at our high school reunion in a fashion from which he’ll never recover, then spitting his load in her hair on my way out. [/quote]
Actually, she doesn’t mind when I come in her hair – but I’ll accept the blowjob anyways.
[quote]a_train08 wrote:
I was bullied by this kid in highschool when i was much smaller. I banged his sister in the ass 2 years after we graduated, which really pissed him off. That’s my bully story.[/quote]
I’ll probably just settle for blowing her husband at our high school reunion in a fashion from which he’ll never recover, then spitting his load in her hair on my way out. [/quote]
I’ll probably just settle for blowing her husband at our high school reunion in a fashion from which he’ll never recover, then spitting his load in her hair on my way out. [/quote]
From now on I’m only dating girls with lots of enemies
I’ll probably just settle for blowing her husband at our high school reunion in a fashion from which he’ll never recover, then spitting his load in her hair on my way out. [/quote]
jesus why didn’t you go to my school!
but seriously if you live on the same street then don’t do anything. if you see him just be really friendly! if he remembers you he get really freaked out.
Thats just part of growing up. Every species on the planet has to show who the alpha male is…think about it…in school it was calling names and being picked on…this never changes but just the way it is expessed. “Oh yeah well I make bla bla. or I drive a bla bla, I lift bla bla”.
Sabrina’s plan is cool. I went to an after reunion party, and a girl came in and said she was engaged to blah blah…well in high school this guy and his best friend had a sandwich with the girl I was seeing. Well I started chatting to her and told her about it…well now she has a little story to tell he fiance about this guy who turned her on to anal…
Don’t give this dude free rent in your head, bro. I guarantee that he isn’t losing sleep over this, so don’t let it ruin your day.
Actually, it sounded to me almost like a sorry, pathetic attempt at working towards an apology.
You won anyway. Take a look at what you’ve become compared to him. Obviously by being on this site, you have enough respect for yourself to take care of your body (or at least work towards it). It sounds like he doesn’t (from the stoner comments you made). You probably have a better job, living conditions, and life than him now, and I bet you get laid more than him (or at least by better quality).
In all actuality, you may owe this terd a little thanks for motivating you to be what you are today.
Take comfort in your victory, my friend. If there is any angst left over, use it on the iron.
[quote]Sabrina wrote:
I’ll probably just settle for blowing her husband at our high school reunion in a fashion from which he’ll never recover, then spitting his load in her hair on my way out. [/quote]
SABRINA!!! I am the husbad of the witch that bullied you!!! The high school reunion is here in New York City in the financial district. Let me know if you need more info.
It seems like a lot of people on this site have been bullied in the past. Any coincidence? I don?t think so. Some of us are here because we were challenged, and being here is the result of having become stronger and more mentally tough.
I was bullied and beat up for years. I was a string bean in high school, and thank God my YOUNGER brother was there to make the beating less frequent. It made me tougher, and it made me work harder for the things that were important in my life. I started working out and it has changed who I am. Without that stimulus, I don?t know where I would be right now.
I saw one of the bullies a few years ago. Pathetic. Don?t throw away all of the hard work that you have done for this guy. Chances are, he realized what a dick he was in high school, and this conversation was just his way of seeing if you remembered. It was a long time ago, and you were both different people.
[quote]oriensus wrote:
Sabrina wrote:
I’ll probably just settle for blowing her husband at our high school reunion in a fashion from which he’ll never recover, then spitting his load in her hair on my way out.
SABRINA!!! I am the husbad of the witch that bullied you!!! The high school reunion is here in New York City in the financial district. Let me know if you need more info.[/quote]
That was funny, Sabrina he is lying I am the husband and the reunion is in Colorado!
[quote]Elkhntr1 wrote:
oriensus wrote:
Sabrina wrote:
I’ll probably just settle for blowing her husband at our high school reunion in a fashion from which he’ll never recover, then spitting his load in her hair on my way out.
SABRINA!!! I am the husbad of the witch that bullied you!!! The high school reunion is here in New York City in the financial district. Let me know if you need more info.
That was funny, Sabrina he is lying I am the husband and the reunion is in Colorado!
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Goddamn it Elk, that divorce had BETTER be finalized by the time I get to Colorado!
To be haunted by your past is to limit your future potential.
This individual no longer holds any power over you, except in your mind. Exacting revenge on someone who is no longer a threat to you is not a sign of strenght, but a sign of weakness.
Be strong, move on. Living well is the best revenge.
Thanks for all the replies much appreciated.
Some of you have said he attempted to make an apology, I think it was more of a way of him trying to tease me.
I’m prepared to forget about it and let it go, but what if I’m walking down the road one day with a friend and he decides to tease/embaress me infront of my friend by bringing it up again.
Or what if he decides to start the same shit again.
Some of you have asked if I was going to do something why I didn’t do it when I saw him - For the last 3 months I haven’t been working out due to professional exams, been literally going to work, college 4 nights a week in a row, and the other days trying to cram in the study while holding a full time job, I’m out of shape and I know if it kicked off then he would have done me some damage. The guy still is bigger than me.
Ontop of that I’ve only really had 1 fight in my entire life which was back in school when I was 14 so not very confident when it comes to physically fighting.
But the thing is I want to make sure the guy doesn’t fuck with me in future, I don’t even want him talking to me, so I’m gonna pack on a few pounds, learn some MMA and launch an unprovoked attack on the fucker telling him if he comes near me again I’ll stab him (obviously I won’t go that far). I’m not going to fuck him up too much, just a couple of slaps should do the trick.
Thaks for all your support
Jay
Well for those of you who have somehow managed to achieve a near constant state of zen, congratulations and bully for you.
The rest of us…actually, I won’t make that cardinal mistake of speaking for anyone but myself.
I have a certain visceral reaction from time to time when I see certain people from my past. Be it a bully, my hag of an ex step mother, or the occasional past lover who has screwed me over.
It doesn’t have anything to do with getting over it, moving on, letting go, living in the present, or any of the rest of this Oprah-esque bullshit. I don’t need a hug, a good cry, or a drum circle in the middle of a quiet forest. It is just an emotional response that lasts for minute before I go get something to eat, buy some new shoes, walk my dog, fuck the shit out of my guy du jour, and go to sleep pretty damn satisfied. I don’t stay up nights thinking about any of this crap.
As for you Iron John, you don’t need to be from Detroit to know what a bully is. Your experience doesn’t negate everyone elses. I am not going to post a bunch of gory details, really who gives a shit, but I could. I personally just prefer a generally lighter or more humorous tone, because the reality is that I am over it, until I read this thread and got a little fired up for five minutes, I can’t even remember the last time I thought about that little psycho.
Fuck that fucker in the ass and call him a homo!!!
LMAO!
I agree with Sabrina. I was just having fun on this thread and you got to see some of my inner thoughts on certain matters. I was picked on or bullied when I was in elementary, middle and high school. I don’t live in the past or even think about those things unless there is an incident similar to the original poster’s. But as Sabrina said, it’s something that you think about for a few moments before your next meal, next workout or when you get back to work or doing what you’re doing.
Still, if it was acceptable to be able to do things to bullies such as I stated earlier, it would be pretty cool. I’ve had pain in my life (as I’m sure everyone has), and there are times when you’d like to make someone else feel that pain or more in some sick and twisted way.
I should have become a professional killer. I could do it without remorse. I’m so emotionally detached at times that something like that would be easy for me. And the excitement…my the excitement of killing someone that deserves to die. How can you beat that?
Okay, okay, I’m not psycho! I was just rambling. I don’t need professional help. Really. I’m completely sane, aren’t I? I mean, we all go a little crazy sometimes, don’t we? Muhahahahah.
Whew, just got back from the lawyers office the paper work is in progress!!! Now, off to the forest to bang a drum and exorcise some bullies outta my head.
jay711, bro sounds like you just need some confidence boosters. Lift take martial arts and gain security and peace of mind that you could take care of yourself if threatened by anyone.
Jay, sounds like you have serious confidence issues man.
You can’t let the past be the past, so you are going to spend months working out and doing MMA just so you can get revenge on some tard from years ago.
Look up the word obsession. Then, don’t ask for advice if you don’t actually want it.
