[quote]Nate Dogg wrote:
You should fuck that fucker up! Call him a fucking fucker and tell him he’s due for an ass whoopin’ from 10 years ago!
He was probably abused as a child or came from a bad home. Maybe you could just make fun of him. Call him a short, fat fuck and tell him that his mommy probably slapped him around when he was a child and now he’s all fucked up because of that. Call him a stoner and a loser and call him a big pussy and don’t forget to call him a fat fuck a few more times.
Make him cry, just like a little girl. Verbally abuse him and if he tries to walk away or start something, just keep pushing him and say, “Do you want a piece of me?” or “Yeah, you got a problem with me?” Don’t let him get away. Just keep talking smack. Pretty soon, he’ll break down like a little baby. Tell him he’s still a fat fuck and that he should go cry to his mommy. And then say, “What? Are you going to squeeze one out (a tear)?” Or “Is that a little water I see coming out of your eyes you short fat fuck?”
LMAO! Torment that stupid fuck! Bullies need to get fucked with for all the fucking they’ve done to others. I don’t care if his daddy used to play with is penis or his mommy used to slap him around or if he came from an alcoholic home or drugs or whatever! Give that bitch a well deserved ass whoopin’ or at the very least some very good verbal abuse.
Or maybe you could just stab that fat fuck and ask him how it feels and if he’ll let you watch him bleed to death. Or shoot the fucker in the knee or something!
Stupid bullies![/quote]
Nate Dogg, that’s some funny stuff. I hope I never piss you off!
Nate-Not Psycho! I have often had the assassin fantasy, I really think I could do it.
Jay-In all seriousness, Elk is right. If you can develop an ability to project a level of confidence and power, you’ll be golden. Really, the bullies of the world are nothing more than weaklings and cowards, they always crumble.
Of course, I still carry pepper spray just in case.
Not sure how I missed this one earlier, page 3 already.
You didn’t really explain his tone when you talked to him recently. From the quotes, it sounds like he might remember you and he may have even been getting ready to apologize. Unless the tone was still assholish (I love making up words), then never mind.
Being strong enough to beat his ass is good enough, no need to actually do it. Then you’re no better than he was.
[quote]The Cardinal wrote:
Nate Dogg, that’s some funny stuff. I hope I never piss you off!
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Awww, you have nothing to worry about. To this day, there is only one person I would truly and honestly kill if I saw him. And he wasn’t a bully, it was someone my mom had married a few years after my parents divorced. I almost killed him one night when he was abusing my mom. But that’s another story!
Everyone goes a little crazy sometimes – which is what makes humans so creative! That’s how we end up with people who jump out of a plane with a giant bedsheet on strings, or decide to become serial killers, or get into a sailing ship and travel for months across an unknown ocean devoid of landmarks, et al.
I was in 7th grade. All boys catholic school. We lock our bikes up to this fence while in class. GOing home the school bully starts throwing wet leaves and mud in everyone’s hair and clothes. He got to me and I hit him with my bike chain and big old padlock. I then proceeded to beat the crap out of him with the chain. The nuns came over and broke it up. I was one of the good kids. The bully told the story and said I hit him with a chain. The nun took a look at the bully and said “vinny you had it coming”. No trouble. Never got bullied again. Got me out of my shell. Vinny didn’t say a word to me for the next 5 yrs.
Treat him like a piece of crap…he’ll get the message.
Personally, as much as I would like to say mess him up, most of the people that were bullies like that were abused themselves. You said yourself this guy was stoned to death. Still living at home? I mean the guy’s life is in a downward spiral as it is. He’s got a sad and messed up life. You would be surprised at how many people are like that in the USA today but never admit it. Its just a bit more obvious with him than others.
Everybody has their own issues man. You have your own with him and he has his own. I don’t say I justify what he did and I do understand how you feel. Yours was a few years and my abuse was for most of my life, but this isnt a soapbox for my life.
Your bully is probably on dope for the same reason he was a bully. He is a miserable self-hating bastard. Get on with your life and drop your resentment. Work on your own stuff. The time to drive that low life to his knees with a right cross was when he was being a bully not now. Drop it. Good luck, jamej
Sabrina, I hear ya. Maybe I’m lucky in that I can only think one one person I truly dislike. But I hate that bitch, and if I saw her I’d probably spit in her face!
[quote]jay711 wrote:
I used to be bullied back in school by a big ugly fucker who lives on my road who was in the year above me.
The guy was shorter than me but much bigger or should I say fatter. He never used to actually hit me, but everytime he walked passed me in the street on the way to school he’d barge me or push and put his face real close to mine and say things like ‘Do you want some/do u want a slap/u fucking with me’ etc etc.
When I used to leave my house in the mornings I’d look out my window to see if he was walking up the road, if he was I’d wait for him to pass then I’d leave my house. If I saw him coming towards me on my way home I’d try to avoid eye contact with him in the hope he wouldn’t give me grief, but I’d always get some shit from him. I had to put up with this between the ages of 12 and 15. I’m 26 now and can’t get that shit out of my head.
The guy still lives on my road and for the last few years I’ve been walking passed him he hasn’t said a word to me, although I’ve been really really tempted to give him a smack.
2 days ago on my way to work he just happened to be walking out of his house at the same time and as I was walking passed him he said 'You used to go X school didn’t you, and I replied ‘yes’, then he says ‘don’t remember me you had a row with me, I used to pick on you and you used to square upto me’ and I said ‘No’ and acted like I didn’t know what he was talking about, then the fucker tried having a conversation with me and says ‘How old are you now anyway’ at which point I just turned around and walked off, the guy was obviously stoned cos he’s eyes were red and he looked a mess.
But for the last 2 days that fucker is all I can think about, I’m bound to walk passed him again at some point over the next few days and I’m so tempted to slap the guy around.
I’d just like to hear some opinions on what others in my position would do bearing in mind he knows where I live and I don’t want any shit coming back to my house putting my family at risk.
Should I just threaten the guy or smack him up properly or slap him just the once and give him some verbal???
Sorry just have to get this shit off my chest it’s doing my fuckin head in
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[quote]Sabrina wrote:
Well for those of you who have somehow managed to achieve a near constant state of zen, congratulations and bully for you.
The rest of us…actually, I won’t make that cardinal mistake of speaking for anyone but myself.
I have a certain visceral reaction from time to time when I see certain people from my past. Be it a bully, my hag of an ex step mother, or the occasional past lover who has screwed me over.
It doesn’t have anything to do with getting over it, moving on, letting go, living in the present, or any of the rest of this Oprah-esque bullshit. I don’t need a hug, a good cry, or a drum circle in the middle of a quiet forest. It is just an emotional response that lasts for minute before I go get something to eat, buy some new shoes, walk my dog, fuck the shit out of my guy du jour, and go to sleep pretty damn satisfied. I don’t stay up nights thinking about any of this crap.
As for you Iron John, you don’t need to be from Detroit to know what a bully is. Your experience doesn’t negate everyone elses. I am not going to post a bunch of gory details, really who gives a shit, but I could. I personally just prefer a generally lighter or more humorous tone, because the reality is that I am over it, until I read this thread and got a little fired up for five minutes, I can’t even remember the last time I thought about that little psycho.
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You are one messed up chick … you should move out to Colorado , as you would truly be normal there , as it seems there are tons of crazy chicks in Colorado like you… who are crazy .
[quote]hedo wrote:
Here’s a funny bully story for you.
I was in 7th grade. All boys catholic school. We lock our bikes up to this fence while in class. GOing home the school bully starts throwing wet leaves and mud in everyone’s hair and clothes. He got to me and I hit him with my bike chain and big old padlock. I then proceeded to beat the crap out of him with the chain. The nuns came over and broke it up. I was one of the good kids. The bully told the story and said I hit him with a chain. The nun took a look at the bully and said “vinny you had it coming”. No trouble. Never got bullied again. Got me out of my shell. Vinny didn’t say a word to me for the next 5 yrs.
Treat him like a piece of crap…he’ll get the message.[/quote]
[quote]Nate Dogg wrote:
You should fuck that fucker up! Call him a fucking fucker and tell him he’s due for an ass whoopin’ from 10 years ago!
He was probably abused as a child or came from a bad home. Maybe you could just make fun of him. Call him a short, fat fuck and tell him that his mommy probably slapped him around when he was a child and now he’s all fucked up because of that. Call him a stoner and a loser and call him a big pussy and don’t forget to call him a fat fuck a few more times.
Make him cry, just like a little girl. Verbally abuse him and if he tries to walk away or start something, just keep pushing him and say, “Do you want a piece of me?” or “Yeah, you got a problem with me?” Don’t let him get away. Just keep talking smack. Pretty soon, he’ll break down like a little baby. Tell him he’s still a fat fuck and that he should go cry to his mommy. And then say, “What? Are you going to squeeze one out (a tear)?” Or “Is that a little water I see coming out of your eyes you short fat fuck?”
LMAO! Torment that stupid fuck! Bullies need to get fucked with for all the fucking they’ve done to others. I don’t care if his daddy used to play with is penis or his mommy used to slap him around or if he came from an alcoholic home or drugs or whatever! Give that bitch a well deserved ass whoopin’ or at the very least some very good verbal abuse.
Or maybe you could just stab that fat fuck and ask him how it feels and if he’ll let you watch him bleed to death. Or shoot the fucker in the knee or something!
Stupid bullies![/quote]
classic…im starting to think that you were abused mate
dude, just let it go, maybe if you were still like 20 or so, then yeah, but now you are older…just ignore the cunt
Like the movie Boondock Saints. Kill motherfuckers who really deserve it. Former bullies dont necessarily need to be killed, but there are some people, some mother fuckers, who do. I wish i could be the one to do it sometiems.
Something needs to be done!! If you cant stop thinking about it, then you must do something. You must confront him face to face. Do not fight him, but be ready for the worst. Just talk down to him. Let him, no make him remember who you are and what had happened. Make him know you are cappable of taking revenge on him, but dont, at least not physically. Because you are doing it mentally. Then after your done talking offer him the first hit and be ready. If he takes it beat his ass so he doesnt see the next day. But if he chooses not to fight you then you will both know he is a coward. Either way you win!!!
Good Luck!!!
