I used to be bullied back in school by a big ugly fucker who lives on my road who was in the year above me.
The guy was shorter than me but much bigger or should I say fatter. He never used to actually hit me, but everytime he walked passed me in the street on the way to school he’d barge me or push and put his face real close to mine and say things like ‘Do you want some/do u want a slap/u fucking with me’ etc etc.
When I used to leave my house in the mornings I’d look out my window to see if he was walking up the road, if he was I’d wait for him to pass then I’d leave my house. If I saw him coming towards me on my way home I’d try to avoid eye contact with him in the hope he wouldn’t give me grief, but I’d always get some shit from him. I had to put up with this between the ages of 12 and 15. I’m 26 now and can’t get that shit out of my head.
The guy still lives on my road and for the last few years I’ve been walking passed him he hasn’t said a word to me, although I’ve been really really tempted to give him a smack.
2 days ago on my way to work he just happened to be walking out of his house at the same time and as I was walking passed him he said 'You used to go X school didn’t you, and I replied ‘yes’, then he says ‘don’t remember me you had a row with me, I used to pick on you and you used to square upto me’ and I said ‘No’ and acted like I didn’t know what he was talking about, then the fucker tried having a conversation with me and says ‘How old are you now anyway’ at which point I just turned around and walked off, the guy was obviously stoned cos he’s eyes were red and he looked a mess.
But for the last 2 days that fucker is all I can think about, I’m bound to walk passed him again at some point over the next few days and I’m so tempted to slap the guy around.
I’d just like to hear some opinions on what others in my position would do bearing in mind he knows where I live and I don’t want any shit coming back to my house putting my family at risk.
Should I just threaten the guy or smack him up properly or slap him just the once and give him some verbal???
Sorry just have to get this shit off my chest it’s doing my fuckin head in
Jay
Let it go dude. You’re 26 now and nothing good will come from hitting him or going down that road again. He barely remembers you so you’d just be wasting a good ass beating on someone who would wonder–WTF!
If you aren’t afraid of him what I would do is the next time you run into him staying very calm engage in converstation with him. As you remain smiling and calm ask him if he remembers back to when he used to subject you to his bullying.
With your attitude only and remaining very calm and controlled you should be able to convey to him what a small pathetic worm he was then and sounds like now.
That’s what I would do if it bothered me to that degree and I was confident that I could now whip his ass.
You should fuck that fucker up! Call him a fucking fucker and tell him he’s due for an ass whoopin’ from 10 years ago!
He was probably abused as a child or came from a bad home. Maybe you could just make fun of him. Call him a short, fat fuck and tell him that his mommy probably slapped him around when he was a child and now he’s all fucked up because of that. Call him a stoner and a loser and call him a big pussy and don’t forget to call him a fat fuck a few more times.
Make him cry, just like a little girl. Verbally abuse him and if he tries to walk away or start something, just keep pushing him and say, “Do you want a piece of me?” or “Yeah, you got a problem with me?” Don’t let him get away. Just keep talking smack. Pretty soon, he’ll break down like a little baby. Tell him he’s still a fat fuck and that he should go cry to his mommy. And then say, “What? Are you going to squeeze one out (a tear)?” Or “Is that a little water I see coming out of your eyes you short fat fuck?”
LMAO! Torment that stupid fuck! Bullies need to get fucked with for all the fucking they’ve done to others. I don’t care if his daddy used to play with is penis or his mommy used to slap him around or if he came from an alcoholic home or drugs or whatever! Give that bitch a well deserved ass whoopin’ or at the very least some very good verbal abuse.
Or maybe you could just stab that fat fuck and ask him how it feels and if he’ll let you watch him bleed to death. Or shoot the fucker in the knee or something!
You won already, bro. You’re doing your thing, getting along in life, and he’s getting stoned sitting on his front porch. He’s not worth the effort.
On a related note, back in junior high, there was the school punk, a real general jackass to everyone. I will always remember the day he pushed me into the lockers, surrounded by his 3 lackies, and shot a spitball at my face. That was probably 11 or 12 years ago.
About 4 years ago, I got word through some friends that he had just gotten into a car accident, and lost his arm. I can’t say I minded hearing the news. That’s a prime example of the Karma Boomerang, and you’ve got to trust in it.
[quote]Nate Dogg wrote:
You should fuck that fucker up! Call him a fucking fucker and tell him he’s due for an ass whoopin’ from 10 years ago!
He was probably abused as a child or came from a bad home. Maybe you could just make fun of him. Call him a short, fat fuck and tell him that his mommy probably slapped him around when he was a child and now he’s all fucked up because of that. Call him a stoner and a loser and call him a big pussy and don’t forget to call him a fat fuck a few more times.
Make him cry, just like a little girl. Verbally abuse him and if he tries to walk away or start something, just keep pushing him and say, “Do you want a piece of me?” or “Yeah, you got a problem with me?” Don’t let him get away. Just keep talking smack. Pretty soon, he’ll break down like a little baby. Tell him he’s still a fat fuck and that he should go cry to his mommy. And then say, “What? Are you going to squeeze one out (a tear)?” Or “Is that a little water I see coming out of your eyes you short fat fuck?”
LMAO! Torment that stupid fuck! Bullies need to get fucked with for all the fucking they’ve done to others. I don’t care if his daddy used to play with is penis or his mommy used to slap him around or if he came from an alcoholic home or drugs or whatever! Give that bitch a well deserved ass whoopin’ or at the very least some very good verbal abuse.
Or maybe you could just stab that fat fuck and ask him how it feels and if he’ll let you watch him bleed to death. Or shoot the fucker in the knee or something!
Part of me says let it go and another part of me agree’s 100% with Nate Dogg and Elkhntr1.
When I was in grade school I was bullied every day by a kid 3 grades ahead of me and I was scared to death to go to school. I saw him a year ago and I’m sure he doesn’t remember me but I remembered him.
And what went through my head was just tormenting the hell out of him and making him sweat the anticipation of a serious ass whooping. I would say he is a whomping 150lbs and 18%bf and I’m 225 and probably 12-13%, along with studying martial arts for the last 21 years, I figured maybe I could make him as scared as he used to make me.
So what’d I do…nothing. I know I’d lose my business and do time if I cut loose on him.
Oh well. Wish I would have read Nate Dogg’s post before that encounter.
LMAO @ Nate Dogg’s “advice.” Looks like you’ve also had some experience with a bully.
You’re 26 dude. Forget that guy and move on. If you can’t forget about it, you should go up to the guy and tell him “I was lying the other day. I am that kid that you bullied many years ago. Why did you fuck with me so much?”
If you were going to do something about it, you would’ve done it when you saw him the other day.
But just in case you get the balls to do somethign about it:
Wait until he least expects it. Watch him for a while. Find out what he does. Then take a baseball bat over his mother fuckin knee caps. That is, if it bothers you that much.
Like another poster said, it sounds like he’s still stuck in adolescence.
He barely even remembers you too, so he’s probably got some brain damage to go along with the psychological problems he most likely already had. Leave him alone man, sounds like he’s already on a downward spiral. I’m sure he’ll suffer plenty without your intervention.
[quote]Minotaur wrote:
You won already, bro. You’re doing your thing, getting along in life, and he’s getting stoned sitting on his front porch. He’s not worth the effort.
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So true.
OTOH, making a point of exactly what kind of an asshole he was to you would really be nice.
I’m all for fighting when someone deserves it. But you’re a 26 year-old man. Do you really need to get revenge on somebody for something they did when you were 12? What would you do do? Beat the shit out of the guy unprovoked for something that happened over 10 years ago. What if the loser decides to press charges. “But officer, he stole my milk money 15 years ago.” I don’t think so.
I remember seeing, back in the day of my college training, a tshirt with a picture of happy viking on a big chair, maybe a tankard of mead in his hand, with his dog at his feet, and a smile on his face, with the inscription;
“Living well is the best revenge”
I wish I could find it today. I think it answers every kind of issue in circumstances like this.
Sadly, I can’t find it.
I’d also like the one my wife got me which said,
“Body by Nautilus. Brains by Mattel”
Now THAT was my favorite, even though I never touched a nautilus machine in my life.
You don’t have to be the better man.
You already are.
Enjoy it, and continue to take your place among so many of us who had to stand up to bullies, put up with their crap for so many years, and now enjoy the love of a beautiful woman, the wonder of our children (as in, “Dad, are you ever gonna grow up?”) and the respect of our peers.
Like somebody already said, “you’ve already won.” That dude is never going to amount to shit. You are already making a better life for yourself and he is still doing stupid shit.
on a personal note, I always used to get picked on in school because I was big and quiet and stuck to myself. Now all of my tormentors are either locked up or working some dead end job. It’s funny how karma works.
Karma doesnt always work dude. Some of these bullies go on to be successful people.
At the very least rattle him a bit.
You dont have to kill the guy, or even hurt him. Just spook him out. Make him think twice, and look both ways before he comes outside of his little rat cave. Get in his head. Torment him.
[quote]oboffill wrote:
LMAO @ Nate Dogg’s “advice.” Looks like you’ve also had some experience with a bully.[/quote]
What makes you think that??? heheheh
Fucking bullies. Poor gasoline on that fucker and light him up!
If he has a car, piss all over it and take a big shit on the hood and windshield!
If he has a bike, wait until he rides by you and shove a stick in the spokes!
Next time you’re walking behind him, kick his foot up in the air or trip that fucker and laugh in his face!
Grab him by the bottom of his shirt, pull it up and over his head and while he can’t see and his arms are flying all over the place, slap him a few times!
And don’t forget to give him plenty of verbal abuse while doing any of the above! Remember, he’s a fat fucking fucker! A family member probably played with his weiner or beat him up as a child! Maybe his parents told him that they don’t love him or that he’s dumb and a loser. Keep reinforcing those things.
Call him a dirty little beast and a faggot too!
You can win this one!!! And feel good about it. Don’t feel bad for this fucking fucker! He deserves hell and then some!!!
Piss on him next time you walk by or put your shit in a paper bag and “sack” him with it!
That fucking fuck fuck fucker head deserves some real pain!
