[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
at some point, they would tell me that if I had sex with other people, they wouldn’t eat me out. Like somehow the thought of my pussy losing access to their amazing tongue was so horrifying that I would willing cut off all dating options just to hold on to the sweet, sweet cunnilingus.
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I think it’s more to do with the idea you are getting a semen chaser more than an ultimatum
Damn didn’t see there was about a million pages pages after the first one.
Carry on.
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
He smokes a lot of pot
Drinks a lot of booze
and fucks a lot of women
THOSE ARE THE FACTS
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Don’t you have a child?
You really wanted to have a relationship with this guy, which means that eventually you would be bringing him around your child. Does that seem like a good choice?
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Well, I was excited by it all at first because he also has a son who is only one year younger than mine so I kinda envisioned us doing happy kid shit together…
However, it seems as though he only sees his kid like once a month so those dreams quickly faded.
OKAY I KNOW HE’S CRAPPY, BUT I HONESTLY WAS SO BLIND TO IT ALL AT FIRST.
AHhhhhhhhh
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Jenn, have you tried your hand at some dating site and looking for normal guy who’s into scrabble, Chili Peppers and ultra shy chicks with bangin bodies? I’ve got no experience with dating sites but my life experience tells me you would have tons of choices and some of them would be pretty good.[/quote]
Yaaa, you know, I am kinda just at a place in my life where I have plenty of good shit going on and I don’t really feel like actively seeking anyone out, it would just be really great if the guys I ended up falling for actually liked me back once in a while.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
I believe you when you say you’re done cheating, and (if you recall) suggested even back then that it might be PTSD or some other thing going on.[/quote]
Well, you were probably correct. Somewhere along the line I took a self-exam for PTSD, and scored like an 91. 50 or above was “possible” and 60 was “probable.” Had everything but depression and anger. Had like 20 on hyper-vigilance.
That said, the Obama Admin has made it very clear that ex-soldiers with PTSD get stripped of 2nd Amendment rights – and if I didn’t hunt something weekly, I really go bat shit. Plus, not having weapons REALLY made me hyper-vigilant. I avoided business trips to CA and NYC because being unarmed made me feel naked. (As it turned out, the hedge fund guys thought I was playing “hard to get” so they upped their price. Little did they know I was just a bit looney.)
Anyway going to any kind of healthcare provider was out of the question, as it is for most vets.
Very happy to have my wife(!) baking some bread in my kitchen today. Smells like home.
So I just sucked it up and it eventually went away over time.
TTR, congratulations on marriage and thank you for your service!
Spock, kick him to the curb. You’re better off being alone.
Ruffian, fantastic news. Congrats and Mazel Tov, to you and your bride.
John
Spock, listen to your gut because no guru will ever see through your eyes. If a situation feels off and you find yourself asking a lot of questions, this may not be healthy for you. Are you merely settling to fill a void in your life? Love is selfless, patient, and compassionate and requires a good deal of maturity, which many lack for quite some time. If it isn’t love, is it not a waste of your precious time?
[quote]Manbearpig wrote:
Spock, listen to your gut because no guru will ever see through your eyes. If a situation feels off and you find yourself asking a lot of questions, this may not be healthy for you. Are you merely settling to fill a void in your life? Love is selfless, patient, and compassionate and requires a good deal of maturity, which many lack for quite some time. If it isn’t love, is it not a waste of your precious time?
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I like you. I don’t even know why…
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Manbearpig wrote:
Spock, listen to your gut because no guru will ever see through your eyes. If a situation feels off and you find yourself asking a lot of questions, this may not be healthy for you. Are you merely settling to fill a void in your life? Love is selfless, patient, and compassionate and requires a good deal of maturity, which many lack for quite some time. If it isn’t love, is it not a waste of your precious time?
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I like you. I don’t even know why…
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He is from Texas, what is not to like
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Manbearpig wrote:
Spock, listen to your gut because no guru will ever see through your eyes. If a situation feels off and you find yourself asking a lot of questions, this may not be healthy for you. Are you merely settling to fill a void in your life? Love is selfless, patient, and compassionate and requires a good deal of maturity, which many lack for quite some time. If it isn’t love, is it not a waste of your precious time?
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I like you. I don’t even know why…
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He is from Texas, what is not to like[/quote]
So is Houston guy
[quote]Testy1 wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Manbearpig wrote:
Spock, listen to your gut because no guru will ever see through your eyes. If a situation feels off and you find yourself asking a lot of questions, this may not be healthy for you. Are you merely settling to fill a void in your life? Love is selfless, patient, and compassionate and requires a good deal of maturity, which many lack for quite some time. If it isn’t love, is it not a waste of your precious time?
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I like you. I don’t even know why…
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He is from Texas, what is not to like[/quote]
So is Houston guy
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kiss my ass Testy
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]Testy1 wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Manbearpig wrote:
Spock, listen to your gut because no guru will ever see through your eyes. If a situation feels off and you find yourself asking a lot of questions, this may not be healthy for you. Are you merely settling to fill a void in your life? Love is selfless, patient, and compassionate and requires a good deal of maturity, which many lack for quite some time. If it isn’t love, is it not a waste of your precious time?
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I like you. I don’t even know why…
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He is from Texas, what is not to like[/quote]
So is Houston guy
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kiss my ass Testy[/quote]
Too soon?
[quote]Testy1 wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Manbearpig wrote:
Spock, listen to your gut because no guru will ever see through your eyes. If a situation feels off and you find yourself asking a lot of questions, this may not be healthy for you. Are you merely settling to fill a void in your life? Love is selfless, patient, and compassionate and requires a good deal of maturity, which many lack for quite some time. If it isn’t love, is it not a waste of your precious time?
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I like you. I don’t even know why…
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He is from Texas, what is not to like[/quote]
So is Houston guy
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And the good professor.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]Testy1 wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Manbearpig wrote:
Spock, listen to your gut because no guru will ever see through your eyes. If a situation feels off and you find yourself asking a lot of questions, this may not be healthy for you. Are you merely settling to fill a void in your life? Love is selfless, patient, and compassionate and requires a good deal of maturity, which many lack for quite some time. If it isn’t love, is it not a waste of your precious time?
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I like you. I don’t even know why…
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He is from Texas, what is not to like[/quote]
So is Houston guy
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And the good professor.
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He’s a doctor, dammit![/quote]
Yeah, yeah, I know. A real one!
Hi friends (and a few of you who clearly dislike me),
I am curious about something.
I am developing a ‘thing’ for the guy who works at the video game store.
He complimented my back to the future shirt and I complimented his Zelda shirt.
…
He maybe acts nervous and flustered around me, or I am making it all up in my head.
One time he handed his co worker my change to give to me instead of giving it to me himself.
THen I thought, oh, maybe he likes me.
Or maybe he doesn’t.
Another time I went in to go stare at games and he asked if I needed help and then decided he needed to tidy up the DS games near me.
Look at this messy shelf, he says, how did this happen so fast??
So then it was awkward because we were both standing there trying to think up something to say.
I started talking about DBZ. He said he never really watched it. I told him it was life changing and he should watch it. THen I said I would come back later to check on him.
I went back today and he ACTUALLY STARTED WATCHING IT.
He said his life hasn’t changed yet, but he could see the potential.
I said I wanted to be more like piccolo because he doesn’t complain about anything.
Judging from what I stated above what %%% chance is there that he likes me
HAHAHA
I think it’s like 72%.
ANd how do I ask out someone while they are at work? Isn’t that harassment??
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Hi friends (and a few of you who clearly dislike me),
I am curious about something.
I am developing a ‘thing’ for the guy who works at the video game store.
He complimented my back to the future shirt and I complimented his Zelda shirt.
…
He maybe acts nervous and flustered around me, or I am making it all up in my head.
One time he handed his co worker my change to give to me instead of giving it to me himself.
THen I thought, oh, maybe he likes me.
Or maybe he doesn’t.
Another time I went in to go stare at games and he asked if I needed help and then decided he needed to tidy up the DS games near me.
Look at this messy shelf, he says, how did this happen so fast??
So then it was awkward because we were both standing there trying to think up something to say.
I started talking about DBZ. He said he never really watched it. I told him it was life changing and he should watch it. THen I said I would come back later to check on him.
I went back today and he ACTUALLY STARTED WATCHING IT.
He said his life hasn’t changed yet, but he could see the potential.
I said I wanted to be more like piccolo because he doesn’t complain about anything.
Judging from what I stated above what %%% chance is there that he likes me
HAHAHA
I think it’s like 72%.
ANd how do I ask out someone while they are at work? Isn’t that harassment??
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There is a 69% chance he likes you.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
… guy who works at the video game store… maybe he likes me.
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Yes, he likes you.
Being a clerk at a video store, he is a complete dork who would like any human female, but since you are a nice, cute, fit, geeky videogame girl (and I mean that in a good way), you are undoubtedly his dream girl.
You would have all the power in this relationship, BTW.
[quote]Jewbacca wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
… guy who works at the video game store… maybe he likes me.
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Yes, he likes you.
Being a clerk at a video store, he is a complete dork who would like any human female, but since you are a nice, cute, fit, geeky videogame girl (and I mean that in a good way), you are undoubtedly his dream girl.
You would have all the power in this relationship, BTW.
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Also, being socially awkward, he will never ask you out, so you have to make the first move.
Oh, it’s not harassment. That’s employee-employee, typically. Customers can pretty much do whatever they want, short of assault. Yes, I am a lawyer.