You Versus Someone Better Looking For A Girl

[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]LoRez wrote:
A quality girl would have payed attention and learned from her experiences. Which, you, now, get to benefit from.[/quote]

LMFUCKINGAO

you have “cuckhold” written all over you[/quote]
*cuckold[/quote]

I have seen that written as “cockhold”.

That what interesting in and of itself.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]LoRez wrote:
A quality girl would have payed attention and learned from her experiences. Which, you, now, get to benefit from.[/quote]

LMFUCKINGAO

you have “cuckhold” written all over you[/quote]
*cuckold[/quote]

I have seen that written as “cockhold”.

That what interesting in and of itself. [/quote]
lol same

You Verses a Pitbull was a much better topic. Don’t let TC try to tell you otherwise either.

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Quasi-Tech wrote:
Waittz, in some ways, Walkway is correct. If you were once a dick to women then you in fact are not giving an equal offering. She has maintained purity her whole life to give that gift to the person she loves. You can offer no such gift in exchange. It has been passed away numerous time. You have a dark past, one to which you’ve obviously cleaned up and changed, but dark nonetheless.

That being said, people can change, and what is most important is that going forward you do that which is needed, being honorable, trustworthy, true, and caring for your wife and family (when the time comes). Money, success, confidence don’t mean jack at that point, what matters is putting family first and making that priority.

The greatest issue with your situation, is people may read it and say, “see I can act like a hound now and then find myself a nice girl later, be fully ‘cleansed’ of my wild prior life and settle down into awesome.” That just plain isn’t fair to the women out there who are being the good girls. It takes a true change of heart/character to make someone absolvable of what they did, and I hope that is something that you’ve done.

Its not about the act that was important, it was and is about the state of mind that led to that act. Women as a tool to get off, being a man in front of your buddies, wanting to get laid. Objectification of women, whether you brought them pleasure or not, is not a fair or mature mindset. And neither is it for women to do to men. Bringing that along to a clean, true relationship is baggage and it needs dropped, removed, deleted, burned, and cleansed and then you (general you not specific) need to step into the shoes of being a man. That’s a lot to do, and if you can’t do it, then you (general not specific again) do not deserve the kind of girl that has brought purity to the relationship.[/quote]

I like this post, good stuff Q. Also, to add something I noticed is that yes Walk is being a huge dick about saying that your girl only wants citizenship. But see how Waitz used him being a virgin as a downfall. That is not fair to him. He might have deserved to be insulted but I feel as if Walk would find a good woman it is going to be harder with him being a virgin because I imagine about 90% of woman do not find that attractive or it would scare him away.

As I mentioned earlier, which is another topic in it self, how much of a potential gf/bf’s sexual past effects how you go forward with that individual?

I find that to be a very hard question to answer especially if you are waiting for the right person and you find them, but they have been with double digit partners…[/quote]

Walkway just says things to bother and insult people, my assumption is that he has very little to be happy about in his life and attacks people anonymously to make himself feel better.

Take the citizenship joke, the only information I gave was she was from another country, and he tries to find a way to cause hurt from words with no reasoning behind it. Now if I had explained that in truth, the 8 months apart were part of a process that took almost a year for me to convince her to leave her home, put her college(one of the best in their country) on hold and give up her current job and means to take over her mothers multi million dollar company to come here, start over and have no means of employment as a visa student for the past 2 years, well that citizenship joke sounds pretty silly doesn’t it?

Go read some more of his shit. It all has the same MO. Just wants to get a rise out of people to get a quick reprieve from the things in life he wants to hide from.

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the irony of your post apparently eluded you… you all claim up and down that I am a “misogynist”… a “woman hater”…etc… all because ive said that I haven’t found a woman that was worth a second thought.

however YOU waittz… you did a stint of objectifying women and using them in a sociopathic way to pleasure your hedonistic desires… something I have NEVER done, and never would do. my conscience just couldn’t bear it.

so tell me… who is the real misogynist? I feel like you people don’t understand the meaning of the words you are using.

and yes, I did say that thing to get a rise out of you… however, you so pompously said that you were “worthy” of such a woman who… through your lifestyle choices, made yourself unworthy of. you see… there again is the truth that im not a misogynist, I hold men and women to the same standards.

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Quasi-Tech wrote:
Waittz, in some ways, Walkway is correct. If you were once a dick to women then you in fact are not giving an equal offering. She has maintained purity her whole life to give that gift to the person she loves. You can offer no such gift in exchange. It has been passed away numerous time. You have a dark past, one to which you’ve obviously cleaned up and changed, but dark nonetheless.

That being said, people can change, and what is most important is that going forward you do that which is needed, being honorable, trustworthy, true, and caring for your wife and family (when the time comes). Money, success, confidence don’t mean jack at that point, what matters is putting family first and making that priority.

The greatest issue with your situation, is people may read it and say, “see I can act like a hound now and then find myself a nice girl later, be fully ‘cleansed’ of my wild prior life and settle down into awesome.” That just plain isn’t fair to the women out there who are being the good girls. It takes a true change of heart/character to make someone absolvable of what they did, and I hope that is something that you’ve done.

Its not about the act that was important, it was and is about the state of mind that led to that act. Women as a tool to get off, being a man in front of your buddies, wanting to get laid. Objectification of women, whether you brought them pleasure or not, is not a fair or mature mindset. And neither is it for women to do to men. Bringing that along to a clean, true relationship is baggage and it needs dropped, removed, deleted, burned, and cleansed and then you (general you not specific) need to step into the shoes of being a man. That’s a lot to do, and if you can’t do it, then you (general not specific again) do not deserve the kind of girl that has brought purity to the relationship.[/quote]

I like this post, good stuff Q. Also, to add something I noticed is that yes Walk is being a huge dick about saying that your girl only wants citizenship. But see how Waitz used him being a virgin as a downfall. That is not fair to him. He might have deserved to be insulted but I feel as if Walk would find a good woman it is going to be harder with him being a virgin because I imagine about 90% of woman do not find that attractive or it would scare him away.

As I mentioned earlier, which is another topic in it self, how much of a potential gf/bf’s sexual past effects how you go forward with that individual?

I find that to be a very hard question to answer especially if you are waiting for the right person and you find them, but they have been with double digit partners…[/quote]

Walkway just says things to bother and insult people, my assumption is that he has very little to be happy about in his life and attacks people anonymously to make himself feel better.

Take the citizenship joke, the only information I gave was she was from another country, and he tries to find a way to cause hurt from words with no reasoning behind it. Now if I had explained that in truth, the 8 months apart were part of a process that took almost a year for me to convince her to leave her home, put her college(one of the best in their country) on hold and give up her current job and means to take over her mothers multi million dollar company to come here, start over and have no means of employment as a visa student for the past 2 years, well that citizenship joke sounds pretty silly doesn’t it?

Go read some more of his shit. It all has the same MO. Just wants to get a rise out of people to get a quick reprieve from the things in life he wants to hide from.

[/quote]

the irony of your post apparently eluded you… you all claim up and down that I am a “misogynist”… a “woman hater”…etc… all because ive said that I haven’t found a woman that was worth a second thought.

however YOU waittz… you did a stint of objectifying women and using them in a sociopathic way to pleasure your hedonistic desires… something I have NEVER done, and never would do. my conscience just couldn’t bear it.

so tell me… who is the real misogynist? I feel like you people don’t understand the meaning of the words you are using.

and yes, I did say that thing to get a rise out of you… however, you so pompously said that you were “worthy” of such a woman who… through your lifestyle choices, made yourself unworthy of. you see… there again is the truth that im not a misogynist, I hold men and women to the same standards.

[/quote]
why do your philosophy or actions matter on this? his are what produced results

in before his wife cheats on him and takes all his money a month after getting married

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Quasi-Tech wrote:
Waittz, in some ways, Walkway is correct. If you were once a dick to women then you in fact are not giving an equal offering. She has maintained purity her whole life to give that gift to the person she loves. You can offer no such gift in exchange. It has been passed away numerous time. You have a dark past, one to which you’ve obviously cleaned up and changed, but dark nonetheless.

That being said, people can change, and what is most important is that going forward you do that which is needed, being honorable, trustworthy, true, and caring for your wife and family (when the time comes). Money, success, confidence don’t mean jack at that point, what matters is putting family first and making that priority.

The greatest issue with your situation, is people may read it and say, “see I can act like a hound now and then find myself a nice girl later, be fully ‘cleansed’ of my wild prior life and settle down into awesome.” That just plain isn’t fair to the women out there who are being the good girls. It takes a true change of heart/character to make someone absolvable of what they did, and I hope that is something that you’ve done.

Its not about the act that was important, it was and is about the state of mind that led to that act. Women as a tool to get off, being a man in front of your buddies, wanting to get laid. Objectification of women, whether you brought them pleasure or not, is not a fair or mature mindset. And neither is it for women to do to men. Bringing that along to a clean, true relationship is baggage and it needs dropped, removed, deleted, burned, and cleansed and then you (general you not specific) need to step into the shoes of being a man. That’s a lot to do, and if you can’t do it, then you (general not specific again) do not deserve the kind of girl that has brought purity to the relationship.[/quote]

I like this post, good stuff Q. Also, to add something I noticed is that yes Walk is being a huge dick about saying that your girl only wants citizenship. But see how Waitz used him being a virgin as a downfall. That is not fair to him. He might have deserved to be insulted but I feel as if Walk would find a good woman it is going to be harder with him being a virgin because I imagine about 90% of woman do not find that attractive or it would scare him away.

As I mentioned earlier, which is another topic in it self, how much of a potential gf/bf’s sexual past effects how you go forward with that individual?

I find that to be a very hard question to answer especially if you are waiting for the right person and you find them, but they have been with double digit partners…[/quote]

Walkway just says things to bother and insult people, my assumption is that he has very little to be happy about in his life and attacks people anonymously to make himself feel better.

Take the citizenship joke, the only information I gave was she was from another country, and he tries to find a way to cause hurt from words with no reasoning behind it. Now if I had explained that in truth, the 8 months apart were part of a process that took almost a year for me to convince her to leave her home, put her college(one of the best in their country) on hold and give up her current job and means to take over her mothers multi million dollar company to come here, start over and have no means of employment as a visa student for the past 2 years, well that citizenship joke sounds pretty silly doesn’t it?

Go read some more of his shit. It all has the same MO. Just wants to get a rise out of people to get a quick reprieve from the things in life he wants to hide from.

[/quote]

the irony of your post apparently eluded you… you all claim up and down that I am a “misogynist”… a “woman hater”…etc… all because ive said that I haven’t found a woman that was worth a second thought.

however YOU waittz… you did a stint of objectifying women and using them in a sociopathic way to pleasure your hedonistic desires… something I have NEVER done, and never would do. my conscience just couldn’t bear it.

so tell me… who is the real misogynist? I feel like you people don’t understand the meaning of the words you are using.

and yes, I did say that thing to get a rise out of you… however, you so pompously said that you were “worthy” of such a woman who… through your lifestyle choices, made yourself unworthy of. you see… there again is the truth that im not a misogynist, I hold men and women to the same standards.

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I didnt claim up and down you were a misogynist. In fact I actually apologized a few pages back for calling you one.

Yes, I have already admitted multiple times to being a misogynist in the past along with other transgretions towards women that I am at fault for. Mainly breaking hearts and not living up to expectations, not objectifying.

If my past has no baring on my woman’s opinion of me other than it made the man I am today, through growth and development, the man she loves, why does your opinion matter?

So, really, my question is, what is your point? My argument with you is that you are a curmudgeon.

[quote]browndisaster wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]stefan128 wrote:

[quote]Quasi-Tech wrote:
Waittz, in some ways, Walkway is correct. If you were once a dick to women then you in fact are not giving an equal offering. She has maintained purity her whole life to give that gift to the person she loves. You can offer no such gift in exchange. It has been passed away numerous time. You have a dark past, one to which you’ve obviously cleaned up and changed, but dark nonetheless.

That being said, people can change, and what is most important is that going forward you do that which is needed, being honorable, trustworthy, true, and caring for your wife and family (when the time comes). Money, success, confidence don’t mean jack at that point, what matters is putting family first and making that priority.

The greatest issue with your situation, is people may read it and say, “see I can act like a hound now and then find myself a nice girl later, be fully ‘cleansed’ of my wild prior life and settle down into awesome.” That just plain isn’t fair to the women out there who are being the good girls. It takes a true change of heart/character to make someone absolvable of what they did, and I hope that is something that you’ve done.

Its not about the act that was important, it was and is about the state of mind that led to that act. Women as a tool to get off, being a man in front of your buddies, wanting to get laid. Objectification of women, whether you brought them pleasure or not, is not a fair or mature mindset. And neither is it for women to do to men. Bringing that along to a clean, true relationship is baggage and it needs dropped, removed, deleted, burned, and cleansed and then you (general you not specific) need to step into the shoes of being a man. That’s a lot to do, and if you can’t do it, then you (general not specific again) do not deserve the kind of girl that has brought purity to the relationship.[/quote]

I like this post, good stuff Q. Also, to add something I noticed is that yes Walk is being a huge dick about saying that your girl only wants citizenship. But see how Waitz used him being a virgin as a downfall. That is not fair to him. He might have deserved to be insulted but I feel as if Walk would find a good woman it is going to be harder with him being a virgin because I imagine about 90% of woman do not find that attractive or it would scare him away.

As I mentioned earlier, which is another topic in it self, how much of a potential gf/bf’s sexual past effects how you go forward with that individual?

I find that to be a very hard question to answer especially if you are waiting for the right person and you find them, but they have been with double digit partners…[/quote]

Walkway just says things to bother and insult people, my assumption is that he has very little to be happy about in his life and attacks people anonymously to make himself feel better.

Take the citizenship joke, the only information I gave was she was from another country, and he tries to find a way to cause hurt from words with no reasoning behind it. Now if I had explained that in truth, the 8 months apart were part of a process that took almost a year for me to convince her to leave her home, put her college(one of the best in their country) on hold and give up her current job and means to take over her mothers multi million dollar company to come here, start over and have no means of employment as a visa student for the past 2 years, well that citizenship joke sounds pretty silly doesn’t it?

Go read some more of his shit. It all has the same MO. Just wants to get a rise out of people to get a quick reprieve from the things in life he wants to hide from.

[/quote]

the irony of your post apparently eluded you… you all claim up and down that I am a “misogynist”… a “woman hater”…etc… all because ive said that I haven’t found a woman that was worth a second thought.

however YOU waittz… you did a stint of objectifying women and using them in a sociopathic way to pleasure your hedonistic desires… something I have NEVER done, and never would do. my conscience just couldn’t bear it.

so tell me… who is the real misogynist? I feel like you people don’t understand the meaning of the words you are using.

and yes, I did say that thing to get a rise out of you… however, you so pompously said that you were “worthy” of such a woman who… through your lifestyle choices, made yourself unworthy of. you see… there again is the truth that im not a misogynist, I hold men and women to the same standards.

[/quote]
why do your philosophy or actions matter on this? his are what produced results

in before his wife cheats on him and takes all his money a month after getting married[/quote]

Dont have to worry about that, she has WAY more money than me. That I am all kinds of sexy.