[quote]Professor X wrote:
mr popular wrote:
Professor X wrote:
Westclock wrote:
Perhaps its different elsewhere in the US, but I live in the deep south, this is Texas, in most areas…if you were to hit a girl in public, or even grab her wrists aggressively, most of the guys in the immediate area would come to her aid more or less immediately.
That is true, but again, that has more to do with there being some initial reaction in any situation that assumes the female is innocent. That is due to the same social problem we are discussing now…the same one that convicts five guys in the public arena before a trial for raping a girl all because she said it happened when it didn’t.
I have been at a bar/restaurant and had a girl with her guy sitting next to her act as if she were going to beat me up…and I was at least 260lbs back then but this “woman” wasn’t exactly tiny and while she flailed her arms around threatening me with her finger on my forehead pushing me at the skull at the same time, her guy that was sitting with her did nothing.
Any guy her size would have been floored in that same situation…yet women KNOW that in society they can get away with things like that so they push the limits. Some even seem to go further out of their way to start something the bigger you are.
What is being said is that so many women use this as some source of empowerment to gain leverage in social situations that no man could ever get away with even with other guys.
We aren’t talking about poor defenseless innocent women who are being beaten by evil men at home but BIG, strong, loud, aggressive women that use the fact that they are female to manipulate dudes.
No offense but you need to stop dating so many black girls.
Us crackers don’t have nearly as many problems with giant domineering out of control women poking our faces and attacking us with frying pans.
That girl was hispanic. Quit assuming shit.[/quote]
Well this wasn’t your girl then. Just some random bitch.
That changes the situation. she was taking advantage of the fact that you couldn’t hit her to just do what she wanted.
The solution is to hit her guy. You cant hurt her by hurting him. He should control his girl, or atleast attempt to, its his responsibility because YOU cant do anything, your hands are tied.
Honestly this situation has never happened to me… there are usually several girls in our group when I go out, and most aren’t big, fat angry girls like you described…but many of them are pretty built for girls, many of them lift or played sports, alot of southern and small town girls around here, not big girls, but they used to fight their brothers…so they can dish it out even if they are little.
Ive been in several situations where the girls will handle the other girls if they get in an argument.
Guys only fight guys, girls only fight girls.
Guys from both groups will usually let their girls go at it if they want to, and only step in if it starts getting out of hand.
As you can imagine girl fights often end in the guys trying to break it up, and in the process one side perceives that the other was too rough or they didnt like how they were talking to their girls, etc, and they digress into simply brawling it out with each other. But either way the girls stop fighting.
Im not sure what would we would do if several manish, fat, woman with no men near-by were to start picking on our girls…
Im not sure how we could appropriately handle that other than simply restraining them, and certainly that would not be all THAT easy if they are running wild.
I suppose the bouncers or the police would be needed in that case.
Self defense or defense of another is a lawful defense as long as the force is not excessive.
Pushing or shoving a girl away from yours would be reasonable in the court’s eyes. Punching usually isn’t.
I hope I dont encounter that…ever.