[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]waldo21212 wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
LOL. Yes, racism exists because blacks believe in something that does not exist.
Dude, when I walk into the room professionally, you would be wrong to believe my race is a non-issue and that I get the same stereotypical mental response as a white professional of the same career and age. I didn’t make that up and I’m not seeing things. It may not matter much, but quit fooling yourself.[/quote]
Serious question - how much of that do you think comes from being black vs. how you look? I know I would not expect a doctor of any skin color to be 250+ lbs with a 56+ inch chest and 20+ inch arms. I would imagine a white guy of similar build would illicit a similar response.
If you looked like Urkel I doubt people would be as shocked that you have a medical degree.[/quote]
Good question…but I have worked with another doc who was my size who was white and yes, there is a difference. Today, I would say it isn’t much aside from very rural areas. I had one guy call me colored once but he was in his 70’s.
Let me know the moment someone calls you “whitey” or your doctor and be dead serious.
Colored is something I had only heard in documentaries until then…and there was no reason for him to exclaim my “color” in the first place.
But I am sure you all can explain that away easily…[/quote]
Yes, it can be explained easily. First, a random white man from a “rural” area of the South is not representative of “White America”. Or did you forget that White America - yes, WHITE AMERICA, elected a black president most recently? He doesn’t get elected without the considerable white vote he received.
So a redneck in Texas refers to you as colored…is that news? He probably thought it was polite, as opposed to “nigger”. But he’s not representative of middle america and he’s certainly not represented in that room you speak of walking in as a professional.
And IF there is truly another white doctor “your size” I’m absolutely positive his reception is different than another white doctor who looks a bit more “typical” of a doctor. We judge people on appearance and it’s not necessarily racism X. [/quote]
WTF? This man wasn’t from a rural area. He was from North Houston. Secondly, I was specifically asked a question and gave a specific response. Why does this upset you that I CAN give an incidence of it that you can’t just explain away?
I also wrote many times that the experiences may be way less and my race my matter much less than it ever has in history in this country. That doesn’t change the fact that it happens and mentioning an instance of it doesn’t mean someone is dwelling on racism.
Why ask a question about what happens and then get mad when someone answers?
The other poster asked and got a response. You may need to ask yourself why it bothers you so much and why you need to imagine this man as being a “redneck” when I never said he was and never said he was from a rural area.
I think it makes it easier for you to think of him that way. I gave you minimal info about him at first other than what he said. It is funny how some of you come up with a whole persona for the man other than what was written.
That was ONE incident and recognizing that one incident doesn’t mean someone dwells on race.
The reaction is typical.[/quote]
X, I’m not angry. I’m not upset about anything you wrote and as to your isolated incident I feel no special urging to explain it away. But I do know the South is a bit different than up here, and I acknowledge that. Whether he was a redneck, from a rural part of the State or a doctor from North Houston matters very little. Heck, you don’t know his family roots either. And I can’t “explain” it other than stupid, ignorant people exist.
My main point was that Whitey is not waiting around every corner (or in that fictional room you speak of) waiting to get you, and it’s likely the chip on your shoulder that people see has more to do with your perception of how others see you. From 2002 onward, two things about you are predictable; you’re making lifting progress, and you are sensitive about race.
And, I’m really not understanding your point about some random man who used the word colored. Is there a discussion to be had here? Is there a point to be made? Do you want to discuss race relations in a respectful way? If so, make a single point, and let’s all discuss it. Discussing some random guy from North Houston and a random personal encounter is not a serious starting point.