lol @ dudes giving wife a “fuck me now OR ELSE!” ultimatum.
Forcing an unwilling woman to have sex with you is SO much better than doing it with one who is eager. Enjoy your rape Lancelot.
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
2nd Google result.
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/03/22/how-common-is-cheating-infidelity-really/
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A couple significant things to note about this study. First, most of this research was conducted nearly two decades ago, so have relationship dynamics (w/r/t fidelity) changed in an age of ever shortening attention spans, the “I’m entitled to it now” mentality, and proliferation of sites like craigslist, Backpage, AshleyMadison.com,and Tinder??? Well if I were a betting man…
Survey questions about morally questionable behavior are notoriously unreliable. People will lie about how many sex partners they have on these types of surveys, so to think significant deception (including self-deception, Ex. “It didn’t really count because it was just the tip”) isn’t occurring when you up the ante with infidelity is just naive.
Further, most of the cheating in these articles refers to extramarital cheating, and so would not take into account cheating on a short or long-term significant other.
In these studies cheating is also defined as sex. Do these surveys count bj’s, handies, making out and groping in “da club”?
Now even given all those shortcomings the study concludes 25% of people will cheat. That’s 1 in 4. If you work in an office of 200 people, 50 of them will cheat at some point.
Also since we are googling…here is a google search that says differently (30-60%)
[quote]Powerpuff wrote:
You have been unfaithful to your wife and have picked up some STDs in the process.
I can’t imagine why she doesn’t want to have sex with you…
Bitches be crazy. [/quote]
I think now its perfect.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
LOL at all the white knights calling “cheating” chicken shit or advising someone to get a divorce (which takes a year or more) BEFORE you get some. LMFAO
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You’re being ridiculously literal. There’s no lock on your dick that comes off once the judge signs a paper. What people are saying is that you make it known that things are over. Start the process, whatever. I know how long it takes, but if you’re fucking married to someone you at least owe it to them to make it known that a divorce is gonna happen and the union is no longer exclusive. Don’t just go behind their back and wait and see if they ask. I mean why? YOU are the one who chose to get married, YOU gotta deal with the consequences.
If you literally can’t afford a divorce then hire a hitman or something I dunno.
Don’t do that though. I feel like hebrewhero is the type of person who actually would. Hebrewhero, don’t tell the cops that csulli from TNation told you to hire a contract killer to assassinate your frigid wife.[/quote]
I actually think that society is far better served by keeping families intact. No fault divorce makes it a moot point about who cheat’s first, so who gives a fuck? Every man should know that he’s going to get fucked six ways from Sunday in a divorce (which isn’t fair) so why should there be a reasonable expectation of fidelity if the woman stops meeting the man’s needs?
I could just as easily confront a woman who isn’t putting out and say, “you’re fucking MARRIED, you at least owe your husband some pussy when he wants it. You KNEW sex was part of being married, so if you didn’t want the dick, you shouldn’t have done it”.
If SHE cuts it off, how is there any reasonable expectation that the relationship continues to be exclusive? That’s a completely unreasonable expectation.[/quote]
Lol the divorce does not always end in the guy ruined my self and almost a dozen of people form my HS have divorced families that ended without financial hemorrhage from either party
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
Its more a emotional penalty on your kids. Im saying why make your kids move, get a new home, live a less better life, and get a new step dad all cuz Mommy is selfish. Get ass elswhere dont get caught everyone wins. Give her a altimatim say hey if you aint givin it up Im getting it elswhere if you catch me cool if not cool. How come the womans feelings always trump the mans?? All the sudden we dont count. [/quote]
Your family life together might be an even bigger emotional burden on your kids. It happens. There ARE cases where kids ended up better off if their parents separated.
Also, is any of this even real or are you just trolling? Your life seems insane. Are you a real person who apparently owns a business, does tons of drugs, and can’t spell “ultimatum”?[/quote]
Im glad my parents divorced. It was obvious they werent happy and it wasnt working out. Best for everyone
AC i am normally in line with your comments but these are heavy narcissistic comments. Damn man what happened.
[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
Its more a emotional penalty on your kids. Im saying why make your kids move, get a new home, live a less better life, and get a new step dad all cuz Mommy is selfish. Get ass elswhere dont get caught everyone wins. Give her a altimatim say hey if you aint givin it up Im getting it elswhere if you catch me cool if not cool. How come the womans feelings always trump the mans?? All the sudden we dont count. [/quote]
Your family life together might be an even bigger emotional burden on your kids. It happens. There ARE cases where kids ended up better off if their parents separated.
Also, is any of this even real or are you just trolling? Your life seems insane. Are you a real person who apparently owns a business, does tons of drugs, and can’t spell “ultimatum”?[/quote]
Im glad my parents divorced. It was obvious they werent happy and it wasnt working out. Best for everyone
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Well, you seem to be 25.
Wait a few years, lets see how unaffected you really are.
[quote]ryanbCXG wrote:
AC i am normally in line with your comments but these are heavy narcissistic comments. Damn man what happened.[/quote]
Reality.
[quote]rores28 wrote:
people are fanning the hate flames way too vigorously for something that it is a rather mundane occurrence. All because sex is inexplicably elevated to some strange spiritual level of significance[/quote]
Not inexplicably at all, but rather evolutionarily. Men more so than women, because obviously women know if a child is theirs or not rofl. Your biological prime directive, like that of all life, is to pass on your genes. So for most men, nature hardwires a pretty strong desire for what we would call fidelity in modern society. There is a primal part of your brain that wants very badly for you to be sure the genes getting passed on are your own. A strong aversion to cheating is the result of this.
[quote]orion wrote:
Well, you seem to be 25.
Wait a few years, lets see how unaffected you really are. [/quote]
He’s 25 dude… He’s fucking fine rofl.
[quote]orion wrote:
Well, you seem to be 25.
Wait a few years, lets see how unaffected you really are. [/quote]
Yeah Ryan watch out, when you hit 32 your parents divorce is going to REALLY start to tear you apart lololol
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
Well, you seem to be 25.
Wait a few years, lets see how unaffected you really are. [/quote]
He’s 25 dude… He’s fucking fine rofl.[/quote]
Because at 25 he is all grown up?
Dude, I am not all grown up.
Admittedly, I am probably not a shining beacon of emotional maturity, but you can have a lot if IEDs buried in the sand which just sit there and wait till the right things roll by.
[quote]Spidey22 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
Well, you seem to be 25.
Wait a few years, lets see how unaffected you really are. [/quote]
Yeah Ryan watch out, when you hit 32 your parents divorce is going to REALLY start to tear you apart lololol[/quote]
Now I know why some men just sighed when I said shit like this in my mid to early twenties…
Some day, you will know too!
Lol. You guys have to be trolling me with the psychobabble.
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol. You guys have to be trolling me with the psychobabble.[/quote]
No.
[quote]Spidey22 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
Well, you seem to be 25.
Wait a few years, lets see how unaffected you really are. [/quote]
Yeah Ryan watch out, when you hit 32 your parents divorce is going to REALLY start to tear you apart lololol[/quote]
lol’d
So, for now, we have a 21,22, 25, and 26 year old loling, if not rofling.
Yeeeeeaaaaahhhhhhh…
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Spidey22 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
Well, you seem to be 25.
Wait a few years, lets see how unaffected you really are. [/quote]
Yeah Ryan watch out, when you hit 32 your parents divorce is going to REALLY start to tear you apart lololol[/quote]
Now I know why some men just sighed when I said shit like this in my mid to early twenties…
Some day, you will know too![/quote]
It’s just that not every marriage/divorce/family is created equal. A divorce can be a blessing for one family and a tragedy to another. Acting like it’s guaranteed to traumatize someone is just such a huge leap.
On top of that, you could have just said ‘hey Ryan I thought that too at 25, but as I got older I found my parents divorce had some lingering effects’ but instead you went for the ‘old wise sage’ style of delivery and it was just LOL worthy