I get what you are saying. This is just what I think of marriage. Perhaps it is tied to your youth. Perhaps you just aren’t a person who wants a companion.
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It seems like you have made your decision and that’s fine. It really isn’t for everyone.
Do you not date at all as well or just don’t want it to end in marriage?
I kinda suspect the decision was made for him.
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I didn’t finalize my decision because I want kids, and I need a companion for that. So basically I’m trying to see other perspectives.
Yep, I don’t date because I don’t want to break each other hearts (or more my heart).
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Lol, you say I’m ugly? Nah, I’m not ugly, at least in my opinion and some others.
How old are you?
That’s probably going to click for you, but 21.
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A good woman is not looking for a “project.” You are young. First thing to strive to do is make yourself financially attractive. While doing that make as many stable friends as possible of both sexes.
…now, just live your life and let nature take its course.
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Exceptional advice.
I married my college sweetheart, which was a mistake. It lasted eleven years and I supported her through medical school. Neither of us knew how to compromise.
Before I got divorced I was in another relationship that was not a good fit, but I was so broken that I just went with it, afraid to be alone. I have been married to her for 23 years but have been separated for the last ten.
I was not prepared emotionally for any kind of relationship, much less marriage. I had no idea who I was and blindly followed what society told me to do. It was a disservice to myself, and certainly for my poor partners.
I have been happily single (separated) now for the last three years (miserable the first seven) and have no desire to find a partner. I would not be opposed if someone came into my life that was a good fit, but feel All That Is has put me in this place and it is where I belong, and I am thankful for that.
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Well if you say so, that makes me confident. Just don’t wanna miss my opportunity/make mistakes. Well, I guess everyone don’t want.
I am alone…find a woman, become her best, marry her and have a family
you will regret it in your later years
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Don’t you want to touch boobs? Boobs are fantastic.
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Dude I don’t need to get married for boobs. Boobs are not hard to get these days
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You will absolutely do this. We all do. My husband was 31 when we got married. You’ve got time.
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Fair point. 
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What makes you say that I’ll regret it?
“Yep, I don’t date because I don’t want to break each other hearts (or more my heart).”
That made it sound like you weren’t interested in touching boobs.
I can easily date for sex, just touching boobs right now is not my main focus lol
Most seniors do