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I’ll start. I can’t imagine this is comfortable for men, but it seems to be a common go-to-sleep position. I myself fall asleep this way more often than not. Most of you are men. Does it suck to be pinned under someone? I can’t imagine how it could be comfortable.
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My favorite way to sleep with a partner. Very comfy, and I don’t breathe in hair all night
I spent my morning like this (until the kids woke up.)
It doesn’t feel like being pinned. It’s like having a weighted blanket, a heating pad, happy memories, an alarm clock, possible early morning cardio, good smells, and knowing you will wake up happy, all at once. It’s actually relaxing.
Her left arm would have to be under the covers and my left arm cupping her ass cheek
then it would be comfy, lol
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Thats definitely the best.
As much as I would enjoy the intimacy, my body is too hot natured for me to get a wink of sleep.
My wife sleeps in pajamas under the covers and I sleep on top of the covers in the nude.
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For me this is good for a few minutes then… not so much. I agree with @RT_Nomad just too hot!
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Agree. Good while she’s dozing off, but I have bad shoulders and can’t keep that thing up there very long. Plus I’m too fat to really sleep on my back any more.
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This is awesome!
He’s said it’s comfortable, but I’ve found it difficult not to be skeptical. Like it had to be a politeness, or something.
Recently he stated that this is the best position from which to assert his dominance, lol.
It does get hot for one or the other of us occasionally, but that’s not usually an issue. It’s mostly cool where I live.
Hopefully he is being sincere. I find it best to be “tenderly” honest about everything related to intimacy. Otherwise, when things get more “routine” a change in behavior might be taken as a loss or lessening of love…
This position is a no go. Five minutes in i start snoring and it’s over.
CPAP goes on and I’m on my side with my wife’s hand on my back usually.
To answer your question though, it’s not really comfortable.
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I love it, but my wife is not comfortable
I’m not really into cuddling, but I’m allowing her to hug me until she falls asleep so she can feel comforted and relaxed
It’s really not bad, but I don’t think I have ever actually slept like this.
I would rather my wife roll over and I can rub her back and grab her ass.
Plus, I use a CPAP so rolling away after she falls asleep is pretty necessary.
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Okay, thank you all. I’ve decided to believe him when he says he likes it, since I like it, too.
That’s very sweet. When I can’t sleep I’ll ask to snuggle my husband’s back (so I’m the big spoon), which he always says yes to. The warmth of him and being able to sync my breathing to his almost always settles me into sleep.
Being the small spoon never works for us in terms of sleeping. Too much booty for him.
Okay, next question!
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I understand his issue…
Burning question:
Why can you ladies never say where you want to eat when asked, but every suggestion I throw out is shot down quicker than a Chinese spy balloon?
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I didn’t know this was common
As the default foodie in my circle, I’m usually the one who chooses, when I don’t, it’s bc I’m happy w/the choice someone else made
Because we’re on a diet.
Kidding, sort of. I’ll often run a suggestion up the flagpole pretty passively, e.g. “We haven’t been to Freddie’s lately,” following which he’ll start calling for non-Freddie’s food. But now I’ve sort of gotten attached to the Freddie’s idea and Italian food sounds too tomatoey.
I suspect he hasn’t really heard me make the suggestion because he’s thinking of Luigi’s and wants me to think of it, too.
A solution I’ve found is to make a bigger splash, e.g. “You know what I would love? Freddie’s. It’s been a long time!” And he’ll agree, as I will if he makes a wish-type suggestion. “I’m craving sushi” gets a better reaction than " what about sushi?"
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