OP fuck the hippies on this site, I think you were right. These are the same people who want to take away guns from law abiding citizens. Protect you and yours.
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
Vicomte, I agree. There’s no justification for expressing regret that you didn’t get to beat the fuck out of a severely compromised young girl.
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Would you have pity on someone who burst through your door in the middle of the night trying to grab your significant other?
One star.
Not sure why you guys are mad at him. If someone came into my house and started attacking my girlfriend, I don’t care what sex they are, how old they are, or how drunk they are, they’re leaving in a fucking ambulance.
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
The problem with trying to help someone as a friend is that you can’t be direct and honest the way a therapist can. “This is strikingly similar to what you told me last week. Do you see a pattern?” is not something a friend can say.
Nor is “Tell me what it was like for you as a child. Did your mom and dad get along when you were little?” There are social rules that get in the way. Also, the power imbalance is impossible in a friendship.
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Hmmm… so how do you retain a power balance and still try and affect the person’s thinking? I would be sure that the other person’s self esteem would have a lot to do with it. With this girl, I’ve been fairly direct with her before, and she’s been very open to my opinions and has come to me for advice in personal situations.
I don’t feel that it has affected our relationship negatively at all. But perhaps it may limit it in the future? I know we’ll never be really great friends, but we do enjoy each other’s company.
[quote]Thomas Gabriel wrote:
Not sure why you guys are mad at him. If someone came into my house and started attacking my girlfriend, I don’t care what sex they are, how old they are, or how drunk they are, they’re leaving in a fucking ambulance. [/quote]
Because this is a ridiculous absolutist attitude.
[quote]Vicomte wrote:
Thomas Gabriel wrote:
Not sure why you guys are mad at him. If someone came into my house and started attacking my girlfriend, I don’t care what sex they are, how old they are, or how drunk they are, they’re leaving in a fucking ambulance.
Because this is a ridiculous absolutist attitude.[/quote]
So you wouldn’t care if someone attacked your girl(boy)friend? Grow a dick and stop whining.
What exactly did he DO? OH YES! He stood in his boxer’s looking like a douche while his girlfriend took care of the situation. Did he protect anyone? No.
Did he protect anything? No. So do you think I’m going to give him respect for being Mr. Hard in retrospect? Fuck off. Everything turned out fine and he wants to beat the shit out of a drunk girl. He’s praying the she’s a MINOR. He’s not going to rape her because of ACNE and STD’S. Do you think this raving ponce is fit for a gun? This is exactly why guns should be taken away from law abiding citizens.
And furthermore, anyone who gets a little scared and then starts talking about trauma is a FAGGOT.
[quote]SouthernGypsy wrote:
Vicomte wrote:
Thomas Gabriel wrote:
Not sure why you guys are mad at him. If someone came into my house and started attacking my girlfriend, I don’t care what sex they are, how old they are, or how drunk they are, they’re leaving in a fucking ambulance.
Because this is a ridiculous absolutist attitude.
So you wouldn’t care if someone attacked your girl(boy)friend? Grow a dick and stop whining.[/quote]
Ha! I never said I wouldn’t care. One must, however, occasionally realize their superiority in any sort of combat situation, then show mercy where violence is unwarranted. Not because the other guy deserves it, but simply because I feel it is the right thing to do.
Of course, it also makes little sense to play the voice of reason in a room full of wannabe tough guys, so I’ll end with that.
[quote]duffyj2 wrote:
OP fuck the hippies on this site, I think you were right. These are the same people who want to take away guns from law abiding citizens. Protect you and yours.
What exactly did he DO? OH YES! He stood in his boxer’s looking like a douche while his girlfriend took care of the situation. Did he protect anyone? No. Did he protect anything? No.
So do you think I’m going to give him respect for being Mr. Hard in retrospect? Fuck off. Everything turned out fine and he wants to beat the shit out of a drunk girl. He’s praying the she’s a MINOR.
He’s not going to rape her because of ACNE and STD’S. Do you think this raving ponce is fit for a gun? This is exactly why guns should be taken away from law abiding citizens.
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Who said anything about respect? All I know is that when shit happens (in real time, not in fantasy land like you hippies think) your only option is to react.
I will not defend the OP beating her ass after the fact or hunting her down days later, but IF during the heat of the moment he punched a fucking female in the face for breaking into his house, I won’t view him as a sexist woman beater who needs to get in touch with his inner Oprah.
I want to know where you mother fuckers live, cuz I can obviously barge into your house without any recourse.
[quote]Vicomte wrote:
Of course, it also makes little sense to play the voice of reason in a room full of wannabe tough guys, so I’ll end with that.[/quote]
I think it’s safe to assume that I’m the only one to spend a year and a half in Iraq, so let’s not start talking about wannabe tough guys.
[quote]SouthernGypsy wrote:
Vicomte wrote:
Of course, it also makes little sense to play the voice of reason in a room full of wannabe tough guys, so I’ll end with that.
I think it’s safe to assume that I’m the only one to spend a year and a half in Iraq, so let’s not start talking about wannabe tough guys.[/quote]
But, do you paint your fingernails?
If you ever need to exert physical force on a woman just hit her with a sack full of oranges. It packs a wallop and doesn’t leave a mark.
[quote]SouthernGypsy wrote:
Vicomte wrote:
Of course, it also makes little sense to play the voice of reason in a room full of wannabe tough guys, so I’ll end with that.
I think it’s safe to assume that I’m the only one to spend a year and a half in Iraq, so let’s not start talking about wannabe tough guys.[/quote]
That has nothing to do with anything. Don’t think you get my respect solely for serving in Iraq, especially considering it has no bearing on the discussion, nor does it justify any viewpoints you may have.
It also doesn’t make you a tough guy. Telling me to grow a dick, and to cease my whining, when in fact we are having a good-natured internet discussion, does actually make you a wannabe tough guy, at least for the moment.
On an unrelated note, I plan to join the military soon. I imagine I may spend some time in Iraq myself.
[quote]Vicomte wrote:
That has nothing to do with anything. Don’t think you get my respect solely for serving in Iraq, especially considering it has no bearing on the discussion, nor does it justify any viewpoints you may have.
It also doesn’t make you a tough guy. Telling me to grow a dick, and to cease my whining, when in fact we are having a good-natured internet discussion, does actually make you a wannabe tough guy, at least for the moment.
On an unrelated note, I plan to join the military soon. I imagine I may spend some time in Iraq myself.[/quote]
Wasn’t looking for your respect. Wouldn’t expect it either.
A “good-natured internet discussion” does not entail you saying you’re the only voice of reason in a room full of wannabe tough guys.
A lot of people plan to do things. Let me know if you ever actually go through with joinging the military. I’ll answer any questions you may have. (I’m not BSing here).
[quote]Vicomte wrote:
skaz05 wrote:
Now I’d never hit a woman, but I’d slap the shit out of a BITCH why you BULLSHITIN’!
Now, I’d never fuck my sister, but I’d cornhole the bejeezus out of my mother’s daughter!
Keepin’ it realz.[/quote]
Nobody likes Sugar Free?
[quote]SouthernGypsy wrote:
A “good-natured internet discussion” does not entail you saying you’re the only voice of reason in a room full of wannabe tough guys.
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He certainly seems to be. Nothing wrong with stating the truth.
[quote]SouthernGypsy wrote:
Vicomte wrote:
That has nothing to do with anything. Don’t think you get my respect solely for serving in Iraq, especially considering it has no bearing on the discussion, nor does it justify any viewpoints you may have.
It also doesn’t make you a tough guy. Telling me to grow a dick, and to cease my whining, when in fact we are having a good-natured internet discussion, does actually make you a wannabe tough guy, at least for the moment.
On an unrelated note, I plan to join the military soon. I imagine I may spend some time in Iraq myself.
Wasn’t looking for your respect. Wouldn’t expect it either.
A “good-natured internet discussion” does not entail you saying you’re the only voice of reason in a room full of wannabe tough guys.
A lot of people plan to do things. Let me know if you ever actually go through with joinging the military. I’ll answer any questions you may have. (I’m not BSing here).[/quote]
I’ll take you up on that. I won’t be signing anything 'til spring at earliest, however. Lots of training to do, still.
[quote]SouthernGypsy wrote:
EmilyQ wrote:
Vicomte, I agree. There’s no justification for expressing regret that you didn’t get to beat the fuck out of a severely compromised young girl.
Would you have pity on someone who burst through your door in the middle of the night trying to grab your significant other?[/quote]
No, but you seem to be confusing the management of a crisis situation with the regretful reflection afterward that it would have been really nice to have had the fun of beating up a drunk girl without having to worry about getting arrested. Even better if she’s under 18, because how often do you have a chance to beat the fuck out of one of those??
One of the things I love about my husband is that I know he would put himself in harm’s way in order to protect me. That’s really sexy to me, and I deeply value that most men will behave that way.
I also really like that my husband is both strong enough and competent enough as a fighter to defend me. If a violent drunk forced her way into my home I would expect him to do whatever was necessary to keep us safe.
But if I easily pushed her down and then my 6’ tall husband followed her to the ground to beat the shit out of her because he just WANTED to? I don’t think I would ever be able to respect him enough to have sex with him again.
SouthernGypsy, would YOU beat up a young girl who was already down?