Weird Night

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[quote]SouthernGypsy wrote:
I guess I’m not the most cultured person, but if someone, male or female, “is trying to grab” my wife after he or she “forced her way in” to my house, I’m protecting my wife, even if that entails hitting a woman.

I hope I’m never in that situation.[/quote]

see the difference is this .
]I agree with you self defense is one thing

but story is a little different when the girl is pushed out the door like she was and then after you say ya I wish I could legally kick her ass

or doing like I said kick her down the stairs and say she fell.
difference being protective and mean. ya know?

[quote]skaz05 wrote:
Now I’d never hit a woman, but I’d slap the shit out of a BITCH why you BULLSHITIN’![/quote]
see god damnit why you get his joke but not mine.

hes just funnier I guess
you fucker :wink:
damn these piain pills are nice btw hehe

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[quote]skaz05 wrote:
Now I’d never hit a woman, but I’d slap the shit out of a BITCH why you BULLSHITIN’![/quote]

Now, I’d never fuck my sister, but I’d cornhole the bejeezus out of my mother’s daughter!

Keepin’ it realz.

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[quote]Vicomte wrote:
You would have loved to ‘beat the fuck’ out of a drunk girl?

Classy.[/quote]

Hey man she assaulted my girlfriend. I’d take the time to examine the situation…the situation was over with in like 5 seconds so go fuck yourself and the high horse you rode in on you white knight wannabe.

Make sure you take all the time in the world when your loved one is getting raped/attacked/murdered because hey she could just really be into the rough violent sex and abuse.

You guys obviously didn’t pick up on the joke about her being a minor guess I need to lay it on thicker for the internet. That being said if she had been a minor and I’d messed her up I wouldn’t feel bad because she has a vagina and is under 18.

Seriously though I want to beat the fuck out of her because she stormed into my house and assaulted my gf. I had to stay up until 4 in the morning watching Tron until my gf finally fell asleep.

I’m not sure what more of an excuse you need to fuck somebody up if you are a man and they are a woman. Dumb cunts get away with too much shit in western society because they have vaginas.

I’m sorry but I believe in equal opportunity so if you break into my place and try to hurt me or my family I’m gonna monkey stomp your brains in if I get half a chance.

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HEY HEY, DO NOT DIS ON THE TRON.
no no no

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[quote]GhorigTheBeefy wrote:
Could of been one of the times I could legally beat a woman…hopefully she would of been a minor too =p. [/quote]

Wait I did put the “=p” tongue sticking out smiley so I guess you all just passed over that. Oh well guess in your haste to bash on me you didn’t get the whole thing. Emily have fun with your hurt stomach.

I guess next time I need to start adding audio so you can get tone and mood. Course then I’d probably need to add video so you’d get facial expressions…course then I’d have to explain in detail that my personality is more dry than the fucking Sahara desert. You guys didn’t even have to read between the lines on this one.

For clarification:
I’d like to have messed her up for breaking into my home.
I’d like to have messed her up for assaulting my gf.
I’d like to have messed her up for the trauma she caused.
I’d like to mess her up for the terror she caused me.
I don’t care that she was a drunk woman when you cross the line it doesn’t matter. Being drunk or a woman is not an excuse.

If you don’t agree that’s fine I’m just giving you my view. It is all fun and games for some of you but then again you weren’t jerked out of bed to the screams of your loved one being assaulted and see some strange person in your home.

Sure after the incident was over I realized my gf probably wasn’t in any danger due to the drunk chick but I didn’t really register that during the act and it doesn’t eliminate our grief/anger.

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next time instead of “messing her up” maybe just stick it in her drunken sloppy pooper?

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[quote]Nich wrote:
HEY HEY, DO NOT DIS ON THE TRON.
no no no[/quote]

Hey I like Tron and I haven’t watched it in over 15 years. So last time I watched I didn’t really have a grasp of computers I was just like “ohhhh pretty pictures”.

I’d rather have been asleep though and not worried about my gf or if the people were going to come back. We’re pretty sure they were guests of somebody in my building so it’s not like retaliation against us is an unforeseeable possibility…I just hope they don’t fuck up my car.

More than likely we’ll never see or hear of them again and they’ll just be thankful the peeled out before the cops showed up. I really wished I had asked if they had used a debit/credit card on the Walmart receipt. I’m assuming they paid cash otherwise the cop would of been like “jackpot”.

Who do you calculate you are?

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[quote]GhorigTheBeefy wrote:
Vicomte wrote:
You would have loved to ‘beat the fuck’ out of a drunk girl?

Classy.

Hey man she assaulted my girlfriend. I’d take the time to examine the situation…the situation was over with in like 5 seconds so go fuck yourself and the high horse you rode in on you white knight wannabe.

Make sure you take all the time in the world when your loved one is getting raped/attacked/murdered because hey she could just really be into the rough violent sex and abuse.

You guys obviously didn’t pick up on the joke about her being a minor guess I need to lay it on thicker for the internet. That being said if she had been a minor and I’d messed her up I wouldn’t feel bad because she has a vagina and is under 18.

Seriously though I want to beat the fuck out of her because she stormed into my house and assaulted my gf. I had to stay up until 4 in the morning watching Tron until my gf finally fell asleep.

I’m not sure what more of an excuse you need to fuck somebody up if you are a man and they are a woman. Dumb cunts get away with too much shit in western society because they have vaginas.

I’m sorry but I believe in equal opportunity so if you break into my place and try to hurt me or my family I’m gonna monkey stomp your brains in if I get half a chance.[/quote]

You said yourself your girlfriend didn’t feel she was in any danger. It’s not about the intruder being a girl, or drunk, its about the fact that this intruder posed no threat due in large part to these conditions.

You were the one who declared your desire to beat the fuck out of her, in this situation the only reason you would is for pleasure and revenge. I’m certainly no white knight, but my high horse is much better transportation through life than your rabid dog, brother.

You seem angry. Perhaps you should look into that.

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[quote]Nich wrote:
SouthernGypsy wrote:
I guess I’m not the most cultured person, but if someone, male or female, “is trying to grab” my wife after he or she “forced her way in” to my house, I’m protecting my wife, even if that entails hitting a woman.

I hope I’m never in that situation.

see the difference is this .
]I agree with you self defense is one thing

but story is a little different when the girl is pushed out the door like she was and then after you say ya I wish I could legally kick her ass

or doing like I said kick her down the stairs and say she fell.
difference being protective and mean. ya know?

[/quote]

Yeah, I see what you’re saying, but I think the OP is writing more out of frustration and his words shouldn’t be taken literally.

Cut the guy some slack, he had a fucked up night.

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[quote]SouthernGypsy wrote:
Nich wrote:
SouthernGypsy wrote:
I guess I’m not the most cultured person, but if someone, male or female, “is trying to grab” my wife after he or she “forced her way in” to my house, I’m protecting my wife, even if that entails hitting a woman.

I hope I’m never in that situation.

see the difference is this .
]I agree with you self defense is one thing

but story is a little different when the girl is pushed out the door like she was and then after you say ya I wish I could legally kick her ass

or doing like I said kick her down the stairs and say she fell.
difference being protective and mean. ya know?

Yeah, I see what you’re saying, but I think the OP is writing more out of frustration and his words shouldn’t be taken literally.

Cut the guy some slack, he had a fucked up night.[/quote]

youare correct and ya thats why I was trying to make light of it by cracking wise.
but SOMEONE had to come on and piss all over the picknic thats alot SOMEONE
you someone pisser of picknics you someone :wink:
wow I think bed time for nich too many of my pain killers and im kinda whoooooooooooooooo

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[quote]SouthernGypsy wrote:
Nich wrote:
SouthernGypsy wrote:
I guess I’m not the most cultured person, but if someone, male or female, “is trying to grab” my wife after he or she “forced her way in” to my house, I’m protecting my wife, even if that entails hitting a woman.

I hope I’m never in that situation.

see the difference is this .
]I agree with you self defense is one thing

but story is a little different when the girl is pushed out the door like she was and then after you say ya I wish I could legally kick her ass

or doing like I said kick her down the stairs and say she fell.
difference being protective and mean. ya know?

Yeah, I see what you’re saying, but I think the OP is writing more out of frustration and his words shouldn’t be taken literally.

Cut the guy some slack, he had a fucked up night.[/quote]

But that’s exactly why it bothers me. Acting in the heat of the moment is one thing, but musing about the destruction of a stupid girl? The day after is supposed to be when people think clearly, and if this is how the OP thinks when clearheaded, I’m not sure his position is defendable.

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[quote]Nich wrote:
SouthernGypsy wrote:
Nich wrote:
SouthernGypsy wrote:
I guess I’m not the most cultured person, but if someone, male or female, “is trying to grab” my wife after he or she “forced her way in” to my house, I’m protecting my wife, even if that entails hitting a woman.

I hope I’m never in that situation.

see the difference is this .
]I agree with you self defense is one thing

but story is a little different when the girl is pushed out the door like she was and then after you say ya I wish I could legally kick her ass

or doing like I said kick her down the stairs and say she fell.
difference being protective and mean. ya know?

Yeah, I see what you’re saying, but I think the OP is writing more out of frustration and his words shouldn’t be taken literally.

Cut the guy some slack, he had a fucked up night.

youare correct and ya thats why I was trying to make light of it by cracking wise.
but SOMEONE had to come on and piss all over the picknic thats alot SOMEONE
you someone pisser of picknics you someone :wink:
wow I think bed time for nich too many of my pain killers and im kinda whoooooooooooooooo

[/quote]

Yeah! I hate people like that…

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Doesn’t matter how violent she is or how much she screams. When I see two girls at the same time I’m thinkin’… threesome potential.

If I was in your situation I’d be thinking… I wonder what I could have done to develop a threesome.

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This OP I agree is not a gentleman. I had a night also filled with ungentlemanly people and for lack of anything better to do I feel like telling the story.

My hubby and I went out and when we came back to our apartment I took the pooch out for a pee while he went to bed. The neighbors invited me down for margaritas, I wasn’t tired, plus there were some other neighbors there I haven’t seen for a bit, so I went down.

The first couple of hours were filled with general semi-drunk fun and some good discussions about politics, but the trouble began when my neighbor’s ex-boyfriend began texting one of the guys present, asking what was going on, etc.

His texts escalate to threats of physical violence. Said “friend” and his girl decide to go confront the ex-BF. Now the ex has been a douche for a while and if you ignore him, he’ll shut up.

I try to reason, but no. They leave, I go wake up hubby and we and the other neigbors finally convince my neighbor and her boyfriend to leave. She packs up, everyone takes off, we and the neighbors retreat, but don’t sleep.

An hour later the boyfriend and his boys showed up, kicked the door in, and trashed the apartment.

I feel terrible because I really want to help this chick get out of the situation she’s in. She makes terrible choices for friends and doesn’t have much sense of personal boundaries. Her dad’s in prison and she doesn’t get along with her mom.

She’s been on her own pretty much her whole life. Yet she continues to make poor decisions and it’s primarily because she has terrible friends. She has no one around her that I can tell who encourages her to think responsibly and rationally about her choices.

She’s not intellectually stupid by any means, but she doesn’t use her head for common-sense decisions.

I also feel rather perplexed because I don’t understand how people can reason so badly as to get themselves in these situations. What the heck is the ex-bf thinking?

Why is it so important to him to act with revenge against her, even with disregard to the safety of his baby son? Why was it so hard to get her to leave her apartment if she knew this could happen?

Why does she hang out with people who are friends with a man who’s made threats against her? I can answer all those questions theoretically with a decent knowledge of human behavior, but it still perplexes me to see it in real life.

The whole situation really bothered me. I wish you could just force people to think straight and see how stupid they’re acting… but you can’t… and it’s damn frustrating. The right decisions seem so obvious when you’re looking at it from the outside.

I’m sorry if this is a hijack but I don’t really care for anything the OP said so… hmm…no, I guess I’m not sorry. Plus I wanted to get my frustrations off my chest.

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[quote]Vicomte wrote:
But that’s exactly why it bothers me. Acting in the heat of the moment is one thing, but musing about the destruction of a stupid girl? The day after is supposed to be when people think clearly, and if this is how the OP thinks when clearheaded, I’m not sure his position is defendable.[/quote]

I’m not saying you’re wrong, but frustration sometimes lingers, and people say things out of that frustration that they don’t mean literally.

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[quote]SouthernGypsy wrote:
Vicomte wrote:
But that’s exactly why it bothers me. Acting in the heat of the moment is one thing, but musing about the destruction of a stupid girl? The day after is supposed to be when people think clearly, and if this is how the OP thinks when clearheaded, I’m not sure his position is defendable.

I’m not saying you’re wrong, but frustration sometimes lingers, and people say things out of that frustration that they don’t mean literally.

[/quote]

Certainly this is true, but I’m not exactly willing to give the benefit of the doubt in this case.

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[quote]sluicy wrote:
This OP I agree is not a gentleman. I had a night also filled with ungentlemanly people and for lack of anything better to do I feel like telling the story.

My hubby and I went out and when we came back to our apartment I took the pooch out for a pee while he went to bed. The neighbors invited me down for margaritas, I wasn’t tired, plus there were some other neighbors there I haven’t seen for a bit, so I went down.

The first couple of hours were filled with general semi-drunk fun and some good discussions about politics, but the trouble began when my neighbor’s ex-boyfriend began texting one of the guys present, asking what was going on, etc.

His texts escalate to threats of physical violence. Said “friend” and his girl decide to go confront the ex-BF. Now the ex has been a douche for a while and if you ignore him, he’ll shut up.

I try to reason, but no. They leave, I go wake up hubby and we and the other neigbors finally convince my neighbor and her boyfriend to leave. She packs up, everyone takes off, we and the neighbors retreat, but don’t sleep.

An hour later the boyfriend and his boys showed up, kicked the door in, and trashed the apartment.

I feel terrible because I really want to help this chick get out of the situation she’s in. She makes terrible choices for friends and doesn’t have much sense of personal boundaries. Her dad’s in prison and she doesn’t get along with her mom.

She’s been on her own pretty much her whole life. Yet she continues to make poor decisions and it’s primarily because she has terrible friends. She has no one around her that I can tell who encourages her to think responsibly and rationally about her choices. She’s not intellectually stupid by any means, but she doesn’t use her head for common-sense decisions.

I also feel rather perplexed because I don’t understand how people can reason so badly as to get themselves in these situations. What the heck is the ex-bf thinking? Why is it so important to him to act with revenge against her, even with disregard to the safety of his baby son?

Why was it so hard to get her to leave her apartment if she knew this could happen? Why does she hang out with people who are friends with a man who’s made threats against her? I can answer all those questions theoretically with a decent knowledge of human behavior, but it still perplexes me to see it in real life.

The whole situation really bothered me. I wish you could just force people to think straight and see how stupid they’re acting… but you can’t… and it’s damn frustrating. The right decisions seem so obvious when you’re looking at it from the outside.

I’m sorry if this is a hijack but I don’t really care for anything the OP said so… hmm…no, I guess I’m not sorry. Plus I wanted to get my frustrations off my chest.[/quote]

Your friend’s parents are messed up people. She probably grew up without guidance and it’s probably too late for her to develop any.

You might be able to get her out of trouble every now and then, but she doesn’t have that inner compass, and will go right back to fucking herself up when you’re not around. Be sure to maintain enough distance so that the shit in her life doesn’t get on you.

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[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
sluicy wrote:

I feel terrible because I really want to help this chick get out of the situation she’s in. She makes terrible choices for friends and doesn’t have much sense of personal boundaries.

Her dad’s in prison and she doesn’t get along with her mom. She’s been on her own pretty much her whole life. Yet she continues to make poor decisions and it’s primarily because she has terrible friends.

She has no one around her that I can tell who encourages her to think responsibly and rationally about her choices. She’s not intellectually stupid by any means, but she doesn’t use her head for common-sense decisions.

I also feel rather perplexed because I don’t understand how people can reason so badly as to get themselves in these situations. What the heck is the ex-bf thinking?

Why is it so important to him to act with revenge against her, even with disregard to the safety of his baby son? Why was it so hard to get her to leave her apartment if she knew this could happen? Why does she hang out with people who are friends with a man who’s made threats against her?

I can answer all those questions theoretically with a decent knowledge of human behavior, but it still perplexes me to see it in real life.

The whole situation really bothered me. I wish you could just force people to think straight and see how stupid they’re acting… but you can’t… and it’s damn frustrating. The right decisions seem so obvious when you’re looking at it from the outside.

I’m sorry if this is a hijack but I don’t really care for anything the OP said so… hmm…no, I guess I’m not sorry. Plus I wanted to get my frustrations off my chest.

Your friend’s parents are messed up people. She probably grew up without guidance and it’s probably too late for her to develop any.

You might be able to get her out of trouble every now and then, but she doesn’t have that inner compass, and will go right back to fucking herself up when you’re not around. Be sure to maintain enough distance so that the shit in her life doesn’t get on you.[/quote]

No, it’s not too late! But I agree that you’ll get sucked under if you let yourself, Sluicy. The best thing you can do is convince her to see a mental health worker. Maybe through your local women’s shelter?

The problem with trying to help someone as a friend is that you can’t be direct and honest the way a therapist can. "This is strikingly similar to what you told me last week.

Do you see a pattern?" is not something a friend can say. Nor is “Tell me what it was like for you as a child. Did your mom and dad get along when you were little?” There are social rules that get in the way. Also, the power imbalance is impossible in a friendship.

Vicomte, I agree. There’s no justification for expressing regret that you didn’t get to beat the fuck out of a severely compromised young girl.

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[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
No, it’s not too late! But I agree that you’ll get sucked under if you let yourself, Sluicy. The best thing you can do is convince her to see a mental health worker. Maybe through your local women’s shelter?

The problem with trying to help someone as a friend is that you can’t be direct and honest the way a therapist can. "This is strikingly similar to what you told me last week.

Do you see a pattern?" is not something a friend can say. Nor is “Tell me what it was like for you as a child. Did your mom and dad get along when you were little?” There are social rules that get in the way. Also, the power imbalance is impossible in a friendship.

[/quote]
Your optimism is so sweet!

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[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

Vicomte, I agree. There’s no justification for expressing regret that you didn’t get to beat the fuck out of a severely compromised young girl.
[/quote]

In the heat of the moment he sure as hell did, maybe not now looking back on it, but when someone breaks into your home I say fuck it.

Being drunk is not an excuse for the “severely compromised young girl.”