I’m a big fan of Stan Efferding and Mark Bell’s idea of a 10 minute walk post meals. At 3 meals a day, that’s 30 minutes of walking a day, and the walk post meal has a TON of metabolic benefits. May be a small way to get some results working.
Good to hear the eating habits have turned in a positive direction!
It sounds trite, but for me, reminding myself “I don’t have to, I get to” really goes a long way. The times it doesn’t… then I eat/ do whatever I wanted in the first place because my why obviously wasn’t real strong anyway!
To that note, and maybe a slightly different use case, I also like the 10 minutes walk lately (or sub any activity: pushups, whatever) before a meal… especially to combat boredom eating. It gives me something to do, reduces my appetite, and, if I eat anyway, at least I wasn’t totally sedentary on the way in.
I’ve always tried to remain unaware in certain areas, because awareness minimizes the amount of things that can bring enjoyment.
For example, I’ve had great bourbon, great steaks and driven rare cars. So not much is impressive. Whereas, I’m tone deaf and have no rhythm, so just about all music can sound good to me.
I chalk a lot of the eating and hunger up to sensory perception and stimulus, very similar to pain. Some people hate being hungry because of what it represents to them. Others just shrug it off like its not even there, because for all intents and purposes, it isn’t.
I don’t know if I believe this is something we develop as much as it is something we’re born with, unless by “develop” we mean “enhance,” as in muscle. Not all people are able to develop this mindset from scratch. It’s like they don’t understand what you’re saying when you speak of feeling delight or other very positive emotions only partially related to external factors. If you’re given a beautiful Ritz Carlton breakfast you of course feel delighted or joyful, but how would you ever feel this about no-fats scrambled eggs and a dry whole wheat english muffin?
How can you feel excited over any sort of weather? Rain or snow or heat or something is bad, and the other thing is good. They wouldn’t understand being happy about any of it.
A nature that leans toward enthusiasm is another of the blessings.
What’s the scope of a treat? Like, say I’m running late, hungry, and eat a Quest Bar and I still stay within my cals and macros–is that a “treat” or is that just me doing the best I can?
Someone I read–Jade Teta, maybe? --suggested planning out one or two meals per week of whatever you want–not a seven hour trip to a buffet, but a burger and fries, pizza with kids… ice cream after dinner. Is this more along the lines of what you mean?
Also, some of us really DO listen: lately, I’ve been eating tons of broccoli.