[quote]trivium wrote:
[quote]SuperVillian wrote:
[quote]trivium wrote:
Hahahaha SV is loving this thread right now…[/quote]
Hahahaha I really am, but seriously don’t ask for help unless you want to get broken down and built back up.
If you were just looking for someone to reaffirm your own delusions of grandeur about yourself and tell you you’re ok and special just the way you are then you’re in the wrong forum.
You can passive-aggressively laugh off my points and advice while seething underneath the surface for the opportunity or information that would undermine my integrity and distract the focus from your obvious need for female approval, but the fact is you’re insecure and most likely co-dependent and needy in relationships and that’s why you’re alone.
There’s a difference between actually caring about people and just relying on them for your own validation. When you learn to actually care about women beyond stroking your pathetic ego maybe you’ll man up and have the balls to approach one, look them in the eye, and say “Hey, you’re really pretty, what’s your name?” and not give a fuck about how creepy or how ‘aggro’ you may come off because you genuinely just want to make them feel good about themselves to whatever extent they will allow or your level of interest defines.
“Coffee is for closers.”[/quote]
I’m not being passive aggressive man. I am just taking in everyone’s comments and trying to be a sport about it. I created this thread for pointers and so that we can all have a good laugh. Some of what I wrote was dramatized, and sarcastic, but if I didn’t want to get flamed, I wouldn’t have gone and made a post in GAL haha.
I am a fan of the break to build mentality. When you want to fix something you gotta tear it down, figure out what is broken, and then reassemble. It is just how things work.
I don’t think I am codependent though. I live alone by myself in the city, and I have for 3 years after I broke up with my last actual GF. I figured that I had a few other issues to fix and that it was never a good idea to jump into another relationship so fast. That wouldn’t be fair to anyone haha. I always thought codependent people needed to have others for validation.
Thanks for posting though man.
While I don’t take everyone’s advice verbatim (if knowing a person’s entire personality was as easy as making one sarcastic post on GAL, psych wouldn’t exist), I do try to get the point that everyone makes and evaluate whether or not it fits my situation.
I guess what I am saying was that I am not offended. Just looking for entertainment, and don’t mind being the subject of a few jokes.[/quote]
Haha all good buddy, I was playing it up for humor as well, but I’ll admit the two things I hate is when people ‘complain’ about their bodies or picking up chicks. I stopped being a personal trainer because I couldn’t take people not committing to the process or listening to my advice.
The solutions are simple and if you aren’t able to do them it’s a mental block, which takes a lot more work to get through, but if you don’t at least do the basics and just try you’ll never reach your goal or work through the bullshit in your head.
My mentality may be effective in getting things done or picking up girls, but I’m an asshole. I have very few friends, I’m very confrontational, brutally honest, women despise me unless I’m fucking them, I have almost zero social tact, I call people out on their bullshit all the time, I’ve been banned from bars, and pretty much I’m just an all around sarcastic arrogant cynical smart-ass which isn’t very endearing when you’re also big and black.
So, if the tone in which I made my posts seemed condescending, I’ll take the chance now to preface those statements with that although my sentiments are effective they are also extremely alienating and borderline anti-social. haha
