[quote]Oleena wrote:
Today I am disenchanted with my last 5 months worth of studying and training. It’s bullshit. I can train people, but I’m not really walking the walk.
Yesterday and the day before I did hit the gym for a total of 4 days last week. That’s my average for the last 3 months.
Okay, I’m going to be honest. My posture is not good. When I’m walking around you would think I’m a dancer from how straight and wide my shoulders look, but functionally one shoulder is higher than the other. That was first pointed out to me by my bestfriend who is a massage therapist, and now I can easily see it every time I do a shoulder press or hang on the roman chair. Today I was feeling my back muscles and my left side is noticeably more muscular than the right.
When I started squatting I had a strong forward lean. That disappeared for the most part after I started using different methods to release my hip flexors. I am now using those same methods on my tight lats, but with much more painful, slow results.
Lastly, my bench press has increased only 10 lbs in the last month and half. It doesn’t improve even half as fast as any of my other lifts. I think the real problem is that my chest muscles are not growing. Honestly, my back and shoulders (especially traps) have “ballooned” in the past month (people have been commenting). But my chest isn’t there.
So fuck it.
I’m going to start a new program, recommended by John Barardi in Scrawny to Brawny. The only thing that I’m going to add to it are a few non-bench press chest exercises. The total program should take me to the end of the summer.
I am also going to go to a few sessions of A.R.T.[/quote]
Your bench may always lag. It depends on how you’re built. I can squat and deadlift like an SOB but my bench hasn’t progressed much at all despite continual attention.
By all means, change training programs. It may kick start it. However, don’t get discouraged if it only improves in small increments. I don’t think most people will see the same type of improvement as they do in squat and DL, particularly women as our strength lies mostly in our hips and legs.
I am continually frustrated by my slow progress in this lift so welcome to the club 