[quote]vroom wrote:
pat36 wrote:
Sometimes I get surprised at how petty people can be. If somebody means to compliment you sincerely and you get offended, then you’re an asshole, period.
If you are looking to get offended the you will be.
I’m going to throw off the sensitivity gloves and put it into context for the criminally retarded, so take the following under that context.
Let’s say many people feel that black people speak in ebonics and so forth, such that a well spoken understandable black person is “surprising” to one Mr. Redneck Crackerboy Honky. So, whenever Mr Honky talks to a black person that can actually speak he is very impressed and gives a nice glowing compliment “Boy, you done speak english real good”.
So, he’s really impressed, and has no idea he’s crossing several racial issues simultaneously, and intends the compliment sincerely.
Your wonderful fucking assumption is that the recipient of this is supposed to smile and be genuinely happy to get a compliment?
Wake the fuck up and join the real world every once in a while you flakes. You are dreaming if you think compliments can’t be insults because of the ignorance and bias that is underlying them.
However, if you’ve never had to deal with such an issue, I can at least understand how you would be blind to it. I’d imagine it’s pretty confusing to receive, is the person an idiot, are they really trying to be friendly and complimentary, are they insulting and trying to make fun of you, just what the fucking hell are they trying to say. You go through this EVERY FUCKING TIME you get that sime compliment, to figure out if it’s genuine, deserved, ignorance or actually a trick insult… as some people are happy to be insulting while acting innocent about it.
Yeah, I’d be happy to spared that type of compliment!
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You got something against red necks? Your point falls short on me, perhaps it is because I rode the short bus. If someone is trying to be nice and the recipiant of that niceness gets insulted then the recipiant is an asshole.
Intimation and inflection are everything, the actualt words spoken mean very little. I can say “Boy, you’re smart!” but depending on how I say it will determine whether it is an insult.
If you cannot take a sincere compliment, even if the words used aren’t exactely right, you’re a dick.