[quote]oracleguru wrote:
Yah it sucks…I love my kids and they would go everywhere with me, home depot, wherever…I took them to all their softball and soccer practices while her lazy ass sat on the couch watching “i didn’t know I was pregnant” on TV…
This is proof positive of what kind of person I put up with for 12 years…
Yep…she’s a bad person…I think without me trying to talk some sense into her all the time…Her true colors came out like gang busters…She will be judged for this…
[quote]SkyNett wrote:
[quote]oracleguru wrote:
I’m currently going through a divorce, I didn’t cheat and my wife has completely turned on me like we never spent 12 years together raising our children…There is just no respect…
I came home from work to a CLEARED house…She took my two kids and didn’t tell me where they were…I finally tracked them down using county recorder address records of her parents properties. She does not like her parents and had not spoken to them in almost 8 years, so I didn’t know where they lived.
I finally found them and they wouldn’t let me see my kids and ordered me off the property and then proceeded to order me off the property, she got a restraining order against me claiming years of physical abuse, in which there was absolutely none…
So I haven’t seen my kids in 5 weeks and i am currently working through the legal system to get the restraining order lifted and clear my name…
So marriage is not good in my opinion…
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That’s fucking awful man. Especially taking your kids - how the fuck could anyone do that?
If I found out my wife was fucking a football team behind my back, I still would never use my daughter against her like that - man, no matter what, you are a real piece of shit if you fuck with your kid’s lives like that. [/quote][/quote]
That sucks, but assuming you really DO smell like a rose after considering the actual circumstances surrounding your divorce, this just ties back in to what Vegita wrote about getting to know your partner before marriage.
If we can say Tiger’s wife is at least partially to blame for all those extramarital booty calls that flew over her head, then YOU definitely shoulder more than your share of responsibility for not recognizing the fact that you were getting married to a nutjob… and YES, she IS a nutjob, because, despite what some closet misogynists on this site may think, psychologically healthy people DO NOT clean house, hide their children from their other parent and later fabricate years of abuse when tracked down… for no reason, whatsoever.
In fact, I just browsed your ‘Wife Annoys Me’ thread and still feel you simply made a crappy decision regarding your partner. After browsing your other thread (the one where you consider/‘hypothetically’ justify cheating on your spouse and admit to getting a happy ending after a massage in Chinatown - but that’s not cheating because you paid for it, right?) I feel she made the same poor choice. The thread you made about trolling strip clubs in Mexico was a goddamn hoot, too (“They’re good for marriages because they DETER cheating… I SWEAR!”.
In fact, now that I’m thinking about it, I’m not so sure how much of a nutjob she REALLY is, after all. I DO know you are most likely a jackass and are certainly a shittier husband than you seem willing to admit… but I guess we are just going to have to take your word on it because the only side of the story we are going to hear is yours.
But then, it’s probably easier to blame the whole institution than it is to recognize and admit to your own douchey, irresponsible behavior when it comes respecting your partner and making considered, intelligent choices about serious legal arrangements.
