[quote]Bauber wrote:
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
[quote]H factor wrote:
Most religious people just pick and choose the parts that they like from the Bible anyways and use it as a tool for hatred/judgment. The fact that this pope might not be doing that is a welcome change from a “church” leader and certainly beats the praying away the gay crowd. [/quote]
Let’s continue to make false generalizations. I’m sure those religious folks you don’t like never do that.[/quote]
From my experience, it is usually not the church leaders, pastors, priests, etc that are judgmental, but the general members of the congregation who are the worst.
I will share a story with you. I have a best friend, since we were very young. He had an older brother and sister who were twins. A good bit older than him by about 13 years. The older brother was a PT and the sister was in medical school at the time 3rd year (drop dead gorgeous too btw). Anyways after a movie one evening, as they always had a twin night just to hang out as brother/ sister, they stumble upon a man beating a woman. Like full out punching and kicking her. He goes to stop the guy. The guy pushes him away and promptly pulls a revolver and shoots him right in the chest. She had to hold her own twin as he passed away in her arms.
One thing led to another and she got hooked on pain killers then eventually cocaine. She ended up in rehab for 6 months. Never really dealing with the grief from her twin’s death. Got straightened out and came back home to get her life on track. Now, her father who was a sheriff and also a deacon at the church. A very large church in Texas with a pastor who I am sure everyone has seen on TV. That particular pastor showed up at their house upon hearing she was back and living there after rehab and demanded her parents not have anything to do with her as she would never amount to anything and was a depraved lost sinner. Due to her drug use… Yeah he is a complete asshole and deserves everything bad that happens to him.
Long story short her father told him to shove his bible up his ass. Quite the church and hasn’t attended one since. OH and btw she is now a practicing OBGYN and one of the kindest least judgmental people you could ever meet. Because shes been through the shit and to the bottom and knows how easy it is to get there no matter where you are in life. I could go on and on with shit like this. Exactly why every organized religion can go fuck itself.
And maybe I am generalizing or making false assumptions, but I have to go on my experience and those around me. And 99% of it is bad when dealing with churches. I like logic, reason, and facts, which most churches shun when it doesn’t fit their religious agenda.[/quote]
That is horrible, and my heart goes out to your friend for that loss. I hope that pastor asks for forgiveness from that family and I hope they forgive him. I would say rot in Hell, but I do not want anyone to go there.
I have my issues with organized religion. Why you ask? It is run by people. People are fallible. We are sinners, and sinners make mistakes. We put our foots in our mouths all the time. We try to take the Bible and use it as sledge hammer. We point one finger at a sinner, and with that one finger 4 are pointed right back at us. We are hypocrites. The difference is we know it, and that is why we need a Savior. Some people just do not know how to love.
I have been burnt by pastors, deacons, elders, and many other people in churches. I forgive them, because that is what a Christian is suppose to do. It is not for the benefit of the person that wronged me, but for myself. I personally am not going to judge the creator by a fallen creation. God created us perfectly, but it is us that corrupted that perfect creation.