[quote]waylanderxx wrote:
Yes red04, she had. This whole thing sparked because she made the comment in another thread that “you cannot be happy or healthy if you are not natural or use drugs.”
Then when I challenged her statement all she has come up with is that one of her friends became addicted to the benefits that steroids provided and “messed up his life”. And so according to her, steroids are evil, even though she has done no research on them and is basing her entire opinion on her friends addiction.
My point was that she hasn’t used them, hasn’t done any research on them, so how can she hope to argue with someone who has done both and hope to prove anything to me?
Her analogy was a blanket statement concerning the use of steroids. That’s like me telling someone who enjoys drinking that it is the equivalent of jumping off a bridge to your death. It’s just a foolish thing to say.
(And before anyone jumps on me about equating alcohol and steroids, go do some research and see which one has more related deaths or even emergency room visits. You will find alcohol is vastly ahead of steroids in that regard.)[/quote]
I actually said was that I am attracted to people who don’t use steroids. I spend most of my time around muay thai and boxing fighters. I just find men attractive that way. I didn’t say I had a problem with roids. I’m just not turned on by the ‘look’ of extensive use of roids.
Enjoying drinking is one thing. But alcoholics are another. And there really isnt any problem with people who might have done a couple cycles to give an edge. But there comes a point, where just like alcohol, a person feels like they cannot be who they want to be without alcohol or another artificial self-esteem booster. Most body builders are smart and keep their look aestheticly pleasing. Everything in moderation is good for you. It’s the moderation part that requires something more.
But really as a man, please dont think that you need to be huge to be attractive… You don’t. Most men on here have amazing bodies as they are, you should be happy with it. Happy enough that you don’t base your self worth on your size.
Where women have anorexia, men have bigorexia.