[quote]sen say wrote:
Is your son any good at soccer?
Reason I ask was I played soccer from ages like 6 to 14 cause my folks didn’t want me playing football at an early age (basically cause practice was every night and soccer was 2 times week tops)…I switched to football when I got to high school and spent a lot of time trying to catch up…I was a high level soccer player, but I knew subconsciously my old man wanted me to play football…
I ended up starting my senior year at outside linebacker and being on a team that won a state championship…but…I was never really ‘good’…5’8" and 165 lbs at best (but I could bench 275 yo!! combined with a squat of 185 and deadlift of ???) and I never had the instincts the other guys had. I have no regrets in life, but I sometimes wonder if I should have stuck with soccer…I actually liked it better than football, but that wanting to please the old man thing is a powerful motivator.
If your son’ss good at soccer…let him know it’s OK to continue…you can play football on the side just you and him or with friends…my 3 sons all play soccer competitively but we spend time playing 2v2 at the park…they know terminology and plays, etc.
I run a soccer league with over 400 kids and a LARGE number of them quit to play football or lacrosse when they are 12-14…something happens physiologically that makes using their feet difficult (I read this somewhere and have anecdotal to support) if they stick with it though they get their foot skills back real quick. If your son likes soccer, is good at it combined with the size you’re talking about he could be an outstanding soccer player rather than just and average football player.
Final point, soccer scholarships are not as bountiful as football scholarships, but the competition for them is also not as big. Lots of the best soccer players don’t have the grades to even play in high school, so if your son is a good student and a good soccer player schoolarships might be a possibility. (I’m making some of this shit up, but it sounds accurate).
I’ve been training my 3 sons for a couple of years now and I stick with what’s been said so far. I do throw in some sledge hammer work and take them out to push the car around a parking lot every now and then. The BIG thing is when you’re training them you get a lot of time with them and can talk about bullshit that might turn into a ‘real’ conversation. Also you can tell them how some asshat will sooner or later call them a pussy for not doing military presses behind their head or because they front squat and explain they should tell these asshats ‘OK Arnold. Thanks.’
Good luck amigo!
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Thanks for the reply, amigo! LOL He currently plays on a “decent” travel team in MD. He’s decent, but he isn’t as “quick” with the ball as some of the other guys on his team. Another issue he’s having is that he is the goal keeper for most of the game, and that’s the position that he has played the best and has the most experience with. He recently told me that in the last several games when it’s a one on one or two on one with the other team charging the goal, he has lost sight of the ball and has had an overwhelming desire to hit the player! And as a result, he has been yellow carded and been scored on… I guess puberty will do that to ya!
To me, that sounds like good football instincts. But I am going to keep him on the team for the duration of the season while working some football skills in where I can, and we’ll see where he is in a month or so. At the end of the day it’s his decision. I’ve fully supported him with his soccer - I hired a soccer coach up here to work with him when I had him on weekends and I pulled strings to get him on the better team. So I don’t think I’m influencing him away, this is all coming from him.
Thanks to you and to the other folks who’ve taken the time to help me out. I’ll update the thread as he progresses. Thanks again for all of the valuable input!