[quote]Anonymas wrote:
I dont post here a lot, but read fairly often, and if I’m being honest, I think you Prof X are sometimes your own worst enemy. Years of being on this forum seem to have left you overly defensive, by that I mean, someone may ask a simple question like “but I read another guy saying this…” just looking for some clarifcation or validation, but it is taken as an attack against what you are saying and results in a defensive post, usually involving “Im big you’re small”, which then results in everyone else getting defensive and then another 10 pages of pointless arguing.
I can’t speak for all the newbies on the forum, but I’m sure some also feel like me, in that it seems we have to tread on egg shells when asking you a question in case it results in a backlash of abuse.
I hope you dont take this the wrong way, Im not critising you, just giving an objective opinion on the whole issue. There are of course the people who do question what you know and just stir up trouble, but try not to assume everyone asking a question is doing this[/quote]
Most of the people you seem to think are being so jumped on are flamed by some here for starting a thread…when the exact same topic is 5 threads below that one.
They are the ones asking about stretch marks…for the billionth time even though there must be a stretch marks question on every page of this forum going back years.
They are the type who write out some ridiculously long and over-analyzed diet scheme that comes out to “EXACTLY 2,800 CALORIES BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT A CALCULATOR TOLD THEM OR A BOOK”…yet when SEVERAL members here focus on caloric intake and make posts of eating more, the beginner goes into a rage because he just wants to know what EXACT WORK OUT PROGRAM he needs to gain muscle because OBVIOUSLY he already eats right because he read it somewhere.
I don’t see anyone being flamed for simply saying, “Hey, I read “author” who said this”. In fact, I NEVER NEVER SEEN THIS HAPPEN. Not ever. Please show me a case of this because I seriously doubt anyone flaming someone for that is anyone who most of us know to actually have built themselves up.
If you are casting every random newb who simply tries to flame people in with every veteran member here you would be mistaken.
I haven’t seen lehwitehurst flame someone simply for mentioning an authors name and asking for clarification or myself. What I see instead is people TELLING US WE’RE WRONG because they read something somewhere.
That is a completely different scenario than what you are describing. If some skinny newwb tells me I’m wrong in my approach…even though I can look in the mirror and SEE that what I did worked, then yes, they likely will get flamed…and for lack of common sense, they deserve every word of it.