[quote]Cortes wrote:
If I found out today that my four year old son had been sired by another man it would not change my love or devotion to him one iota. Not one. [/quote]
You and I see the world differently in so many areas. But I have a lot of respect for you. This type of statement is why.
OP is a poor excuse for a man.
[quote]kpsnap wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
If I found out today that my four year old son had been sired by another man it would not change my love or devotion to him one iota. Not one. [/quote]
You and I see the world differently in so many areas. But I have a lot of respect for you. This type of statement is why.
OP is a poor excuse for a man.[/quote]
Thanks.
And I agree, but only because he’s a liar and a poor writer. I’m no longer buying the story.
[quote]himynameis wrote:
it’s not that I don’t care about her, it’s just that I don’t LOVE her like my own. I’m 30 and I want to revisit the pussy/money/weed lifestyle of my youth before I get too old for it to work anymore. I don’t want to be a dad to an adolescent girl who isn’t even mine. the whole ‘dad’ thing was just because I was married to her mom…i never LOVED for her like i would if she were my own child. i mean I say it to make her feel loved because I do care about her but she ISN’T mine.[/quote]
If your a troll good job!
If your real person I change my previous answer from stay to leave
[quote]Highjumper wrote:
[quote]himynameis wrote:
it’s not that I don’t care about her, it’s just that I don’t LOVE her like my own. I’m 30 and I want to revisit the pussy/money/weed lifestyle of my youth before I get too old for it to work anymore. I don’t want to be a dad to an adolescent girl who isn’t even mine. the whole ‘dad’ thing was just because I was married to her mom…i never LOVED for her like i would if she were my own child. i mean I say it to make her feel loved because I do care about her but she ISN’T mine.[/quote]
If your a troll good job!
If your real person I change my previous answer from stay to leave[/quote]
Im not convinced that him an USAW are not one and the same.
Just allow her to contact you when she wants. That way when she needs help or advice you will be there for her. She is going to, as another member put it, “outgrow you” eventually, meaning she’ll contact you less and less until eventually long periods go by without you guys talking. As this happens you will have more and more freedom, and this way she doesn’t get hurt or feel rejected or abandoned.
The chances of you two sustaining a long-term friendship is extremely low… just be there for her and let it fade away naturally.
[quote]Cortes wrote:
The only thing standing in my way now is that asshole orion…[/quote]
You will never best me sucka, because your misogyny is not based in a general misanthropy.
My roots go deep, you have clay feet.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
The only thing standing in my way now is that asshole orion…[/quote]
You will never best me sucka, because your misogyny is not based in a general misanthropy.
My roots go deep, you have clay feet.
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Oh but you’ve committed a fatal error, orion.
Your hubris has blinded you to the fact that my hatred for Bonnie Raitt surpasses even your hatred of all humanity, and will serve me as a solid marble foundation upon a 10 level underground parking garage filled to the brim with concrete.
I can taste bile just remembering the frozen still of her idiot video from your post the other day. Ugh.
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
[quote]Krinks wrote:
Realistically there is no way a mother who hates you will let you anwhere near her daughter to which you have no legal or otherwise connection. Leave the door open to contact on her end and leave it at that. [/quote]
True and sad that a mother would punish her daughter because of her life
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Mother was divorced twice and Father three times. That is how I know that a child not related to a divorced parent won’ be allowed anywhere near the parent. It is hard enough when they have a legal right to do so. When they don’t forget it.
[quote]himynameis wrote:
it’s not that I don’t care about her, it’s just that I don’t LOVE her like my own. I’m 30 and I want to revisit the pussy/money/weed lifestyle of my youth before I get too old for it to work anymore. I don’t want to be a dad to an adolescent girl who isn’t even mine. the whole ‘dad’ thing was just because I was married to her mom…i never LOVED for her like i would if she were my own child. i mean I say it to make her feel loved because I do care about her but she ISN’T mine.[/quote]
dude you’re 30, she’s not yours, she will expect money when you are older, lesson learned for you no more single moms, only married ones…
[quote]Cortes wrote:
If I found out today that my four year old son had been sired by another man it would not change my love or devotion to him one iota. Not one. [/quote]
This kind of mentality is why you’re my favorite poster on this site. All homo.
[quote]lumbahjack wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
If I found out today that my four year old son had been sired by another man it would not change my love or devotion to him one iota. Not one. [/quote]
This kind of mentality is why you’re my favorite poster on this site. All homo.[/quote]
Yeah, but he is just saying that.
Cause in reality, it would change his perception of the mother quite a bit, which would in turn change his relationship with his son, and so further and so on.
Sounds nice, doubt that one actually can play it that way.
[quote]lumbahjack wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
If I found out today that my four year old son had been sired by another man it would not change my love or devotion to him one iota. Not one. [/quote]
This kind of mentality is why you’re my favorite poster on this site. All homo.[/quote]
Haha, thanks.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]lumbahjack wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
If I found out today that my four year old son had been sired by another man it would not change my love or devotion to him one iota. Not one. [/quote]
This kind of mentality is why you’re my favorite poster on this site. All homo.[/quote]
Yeah, but he is just saying that.
Cause in reality, it would change his perception of the mother quite a bit, which would in turn change his relationship with his son, and so further and so on.
Sounds nice, doubt that one actually can play it that way.
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Says the unmarried, childless, self-identified misanthrope.
[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]lumbahjack wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
If I found out today that my four year old son had been sired by another man it would not change my love or devotion to him one iota. Not one. [/quote]
This kind of mentality is why you’re my favorite poster on this site. All homo.[/quote]
Yeah, but he is just saying that.
Cause in reality, it would change his perception of the mother quite a bit, which would in turn change his relationship with his son, and so further and so on.
Sounds nice, doubt that one actually can play it that way.
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Says the unmarried, childless, self-identified misanthrope.
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Yes.
For he doth not maketh promises that he is not likely to be able to keep.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]lumbahjack wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
If I found out today that my four year old son had been sired by another man it would not change my love or devotion to him one iota. Not one. [/quote]
This kind of mentality is why you’re my favorite poster on this site. All homo.[/quote]
Yeah, but he is just saying that.
Cause in reality, it would change his perception of the mother quite a bit, which would in turn change his relationship with his son, and so further and so on.
Sounds nice, doubt that one actually can play it that way.
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Says the unmarried, childless, self-identified misanthrope.
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Should have thrown “godless” in there, too!
He he.[/quote]
That too.
[quote]SkyNett wrote:
3 posts and this is what you’re asking.
You’re a miserable fucking piece of shit - poor kid, if you’re the closest thing she has to a dad.
Fuck you. [/quote]
x2
[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]therajraj wrote:
The case in the OP is clear cut since he knew EXACTLY what he was getting himself into when he married into the family. Now that issue has been resolved, I ask about another scenario.
If you found out tomorrow you were cuckolded, and the child you had been raising for 8 years was not your own, would your answer change?[/quote]
If I found out today that my four year old son had been sired by another man it would not change my love or devotion to him one iota. Not one.
If I took another child to raise as my own at an age where most of her earliest memories would include me as her father figure, I cannot even imagine the kind of amoral mentality it would require NOT to feel all the love, concern, care, responsibility and devotion that any parent feels for his child.
Thinking about this now, particularly in light of the OP’s third post in this thread, I am 99.999999% convinced this is just shitty and particularly tasteless troll job. I do always leave that tiny percentage for those few vile humans that we can never quite get rid of, like the last stinking bit of dog shit that you can’t get out of the tread of your shoe.
Troll Point #1: First post.
#2: Use the highly emotionally and semantically charged word “abandon” in the title of his post
#3: No one so amorally selfish is going to have a 12 year old girl actively lobbying for his personal time unless he is grooming her sexually or actively abusing her. If it’s actual love, that is reserved for those have at least a little of it to give in return.
#4: The dead giveaway, mentioned earlier, was this half-wit’s response to Chushin at the bottom of the first page. Anyone morally conflicted enough to at least ask about this is not going to suddenly change character completely and begin referring to the daughter in question as if she were a shared pet or piece of furniture.
I pray to God I am right. And if you are for real, I now agree with the other posters who believe you should remove yourself from her life, you steaming, worm infested pile of dog shit. [/quote]
Cortes, I sincerely hope that you are right.
As a guy who became a reticent parent at age 20, I have no sympathy for this shit. I could’ve walked away at any time, but I never even considered it. Now, my son calls me “Daddy”, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Even if I found out he weren’t mine, it might hurt, but it wouldn’t change a thing. If this isn’t a troll job, then this is pathetic. This guy has no understanding of what it means to be a parent.
OP, I’m not sure you should keep in contact with her. Because I wouldn’t ever want a little bitch like you for a “role model” for my kid.
And if you’re trolling, you’re an equally big piece of shit for trolling about something like this. Pick something semi-humourous at least.
You know, it wouldn’t surprise me if this was a targeted character attack at someone on this board for evidence in a child custody case. Trying to get them to say something that would make them appear “unfit to raise a child”.