I don’t give a shit except in this one situation.
This guy was a senior and he asked me out when I was a freshmen, I didn’t even know who the guy was. he was like a super senior my sophomore year and he kept watching me change when changing for swimming, and he kept standing over my lane. The guy was super fucked up and always tries to get with younger straight guys. I hate that guy.
When I lived in SC my training partner was gay (I imagine he still is), he was also black and about 6’6" 340lbs, bald with eyes that pointed in different directions so you couldnt tell if he was checking you out or not.
[quote]totalfit wrote:
When I lived in SC my training partner was gay (I imagine he still is), he was also black and about 6’6" 340lbs, bald with eyes that pointed in different directions so you couldnt tell if he was checking you out or not.[/quote]
WTF?
To be honest when I don’t train at home and go to the gym I don’t really care. First time I went in my friend was like ‘now go in the shower, remove your pants there-’. I just removed my pants, scratched my balls a little and yelled ‘Doode you got a dick like me, be proud of it. Oh shite You caught the ghey?’ Normally everyone is fully naked in the locker room/showers anyway, no big deal.
There are a couple of guys that really look gay tough. I do feel a little uncomfortable when they are in. One stared at my dick and I was like 'nice view eh?, scratched my balls a little and just went to ave a shower.
Sorry for being graphic, but I do like to scratch my balls a little.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
totalfit wrote:
When I lived in SC my training partner was gay (I imagine he still is), he was also black and about 6’6" 340lbs, bald with eyes that pointed in different directions so you couldnt tell if he was checking you out or not.
WTF?[/quote]
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH was gunna say ‘you remind me of a gay version of prof x’ rofl
A friend of mine had an interesting experience at the YMCA. A guy was checking him out in the locker room, serious leering… and after he left my friend saw the same guy on the road and he made the universal blowjob motion to my friend, who waved him over into a nearby parking lot, came up to his car and said, “Hey buddy, what’s your name? My name is Dave, I saw you looking at me change… Don’t do it again.”
[quote]totalfit wrote:
When I lived in SC my training partner was gay (I imagine he still is), he was also black and about 6’6" 340lbs, bald with eyes that pointed in different directions so you couldnt tell if he was checking you out or not.[/quote]
Different directions? Maybe he was beye curious.
Unless some guy would be standing next to me, breathing down my neck, I would have no idea if someone is checking me out in the locker room. I keep my hat pulled down enough that I can barely see anyways, this keeps people from talking to me in the first place. I also don’t shower at the gym, I wait until I get home for that.
However, who gives a sh*t if some dude is checking you out? Unless he physically touches you, just brush it off and go on about your business.
[quote]dre wrote:
Unless some guy would be standing next to me, breathing down my neck, I would have no idea if someone is checking me out in the locker room. I keep my hat pulled down enough that I can barely see anyways, this keeps people from talking to me in the first place. I also don’t shower at the gym, I wait until I get home for that.
However, who gives a sh*t if some dude is checking you out? Unless he physically touches you, just brush it off and go on about your business.[/quote]
Thank you for mentioning the shower issue. I still don’t get why so many people act like they simply MUST shower at the gym. Unless you are going straight to work or going out right afterwards, showering at the gym to DRIVE HOME makes little sense…especially if you are so worried about other people looking at you.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
dre wrote:
Unless some guy would be standing next to me, breathing down my neck, I would have no idea if someone is checking me out in the locker room. I keep my hat pulled down enough that I can barely see anyways, this keeps people from talking to me in the first place. I also don’t shower at the gym, I wait until I get home for that.
However, who gives a sh*t if some dude is checking you out? Unless he physically touches you, just brush it off and go on about your business.
Thank you for mentioning the shower issue. I still don’t get why so many people act like they simply MUST shower at the gym. Unless you are going straight to work or going out right afterwards, showering at the gym to DRIVE HOME makes little sense…especially if you are so worried about other people looking at you.[/quote]
Exactamundo!
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Thank you for mentioning the shower issue. I still don’t get why so many people act like they simply MUST shower at the gym. Unless you are going straight to work or going out right afterwards, showering at the gym to DRIVE HOME makes little sense…especially if you are so worried about other people looking at you.[/quote]
Well, uh for example I have to catch the bus whenever I go to the gym. You know eh, smelling like shit isn’t exactly nice when being around people in a closed environment.
But to be honest I prefer training at home alone. Much cheaper, more peaceful and no random gays to worry about. And I haven’t to worry about the smell of sweat and rusty cast iron plates and groans I make while lifting. Also haven’t to worry about finding someone using the friggin squat rack. God bless home gyms.
[quote]MaddyD wrote:
Renton wrote:
(as long as it’s not using the dryer to waft your balls with one foot on table so they dangle just right).
cant I ever do anything without you bringing it up later?
[/quote]
Maddy I really wouldn’t mind all that much but I draw the line when you keep trying to use straighteners later on then scrape all your pubes into two equal mohicans in various amusing patterns across your overly large testicles.
[quote]Bicep_craze wrote:
Well, uh for example I have to catch the bus whenever I go to the gym. You know eh, smelling like shit isn’t exactly nice when being around people in a closed environment.[/quote]
Who cares? You’re on a bus! Most of the people who ride the bus smell like shit, look like shit or act like shit!
I’m so glad I have a home gym. And when I’m done training, I strip down naked and walk around while drinking my Surge. The wife gets a kick out of it every time.
[quote]ktennies wrote:
Renton wrote:
I’ve been in mixed locker rooms in Sweden
I’ve never hear of these, though I’m not suprised. Do people ever hook up in those situations? If anything, I’d think there would be a lot of creepers hanging around.[/quote]
As far as creepers go, surprisingly there are not many at all.
Sure, people hook up, but not really any more than in the gym or the pool or in a club or anywhere else for that matter.
I must admit to finding it a little strange at first. Alright, a lot strange. I was just going to swim and grab a sauna etc.
I walked into the changing rooms and it took a few seconds to realise I wasn’t in the wrong place. I thought I’d walked into the female changing area - then I saw guys in there too.
There were some amazingly hot Swedish girls, completely naked, and not phased by it at all. There were also some decidedly ugly Swedish girls in the same state. But then there were guys - some with great bodies, some looking like shit.
Then it starts to sink in. It’s a changing room. People are in there to get showered and changed. That’s it. I grabbed a locker (well a cupboard - no lock on it, no need), stripped and put my gear in there, and went through to the sauna.
Now I’m really not bothered about getting my kit off anywhere (ask some of the local bars round here), but the thing that struck me was that it very quickly started to feel far more natural than it would if I did the same thing in the UK.
Sure, people checked other people out, but it wasn’t in a 'Phwoarrr! Look at THAT!" sort of way. Just an admiring glance here and there then carry on to wherever you were going.
I spent about 40 minutes in the Sauna chatting to naked guys & girls and guess what? We talked about anything and everything. Just day to day bullshit like you would anywhere else.
Towards the end of my sauna I was talking to the most beautiful Swedish girl you could imagine. I mean, close your eyes and think Swedish Goddess. Got it? That was her. Naked. We talked about our different countries, where we’d visited, foods we liked, anything really.
We’d both had our fill of the sauna and she asked me, in the most awesome accent, if I wanted to go take a shower then get a coffee. Now if that had happened here in the UK I’d have been plotting my moves and 90 seconds later she’d have been pressed against the shower wall with me firmly implanted inside her.
Over there though, because maybe of the whole relaxed attitude to nudity, I just accepted and we went and showered together. No big deal. I mean yeah I enjoyed the view but that was it.
We went and got changed then went for a coffee.
Now the strangest thing (alright, strange when you’ve never experienced Sweden) - We chatted for a while longer and as we were really enjoying each others company she actually invited me to her house for a meal that night. She made a call (in Swedish) and a little later her husband arrived and off we went.
They cooked an amazing traditional Swedish meal, we drank, talked, drank some more, then the hot tub was mentioned so we had half an hour in that - again, all naked.
At no point was sex implied in any way. I was asked to stay over and as I was enjoying myself so much I accepted. Their guest bedroom was made ready and after more drinks and laughs and talks we all turned in.
That was it. Just a great, friendly night.
The reason I went on so much above was to highlight a point. In many countries we see nudity (especially of the opposite sex) as a sexual thing.
When you are in a country where the general population thinks somewhat differently it becomes easy to fall into their way of thinking and in Sweden I found it an extremely refreshing and nice thing to do.
Her husband told me that his wife actually found me extremely attractive, but I was invited back to theirs because I was friendly and interesting - nothing to do with sex. She was his wife and would never have cheated - but she was open enough with him to tell him how much she liked me.
Even better in some ways, he was man enough to accept it and even tell me with no feeling of threat.
Sort of a hijack from the original topic but may be interesting to some.
[quote]Renton wrote:
MaddyD wrote:
Renton wrote:
(as long as it’s not using the dryer to waft your balls with one foot on table so they dangle just right).
cant I ever do anything without you bringing it up later?
Maddy I really wouldn’t mind all that much but I draw the line when you keep trying to use straighteners later on then scrape all your pubes into two equal mohicans in various amusing patterns across your overly large testicles.[/quote]
You are paying wayyyyy, and I mean waayyyy, to much attention to what other people do with their testicles.
[quote]orion wrote:
Renton wrote:
MaddyD wrote:
Renton wrote:
(as long as it’s not using the dryer to waft your balls with one foot on table so they dangle just right).
cant I ever do anything without you bringing it up later?
Maddy I really wouldn’t mind all that much but I draw the line when you keep trying to use straighteners later on then scrape all your pubes into two equal mohicans in various amusing patterns across your overly large testicles.
You are paying wayyyyy, and I mean waayyyy, to much attention to what other people do with their testicles.
[/quote]
Hey I was just trying to get some styling tips. Honest. No homo.
[quote]Renton wrote:
ktennies wrote:
Renton wrote:
I’ve been in mixed locker rooms in Sweden
I’ve never hear of these, though I’m not suprised. Do people ever hook up in those situations? If anything, I’d think there would be a lot of creepers hanging around.
As far as creepers go, surprisingly there are not many at all.
Sure, people hook up, but not really any more than in the gym or the pool or in a club or anywhere else for that matter.
I must admit to finding it a little strange at first. Alright, a lot strange. I was just going to swim and grab a sauna etc.
I walked into the changing rooms and it took a few seconds to realise I wasn’t in the wrong place. I thought I’d walked into the female changing area - then I saw guys in there too.
There were some amazingly hot Swedish girls, completely naked, and not phased by it at all. There were also some decidedly ugly Swedish girls in the same state. But then there were guys - some with great bodies, some looking like shit.
Then it starts to sink in. It’s a changing room. People are in there to get showered and changed. That’s it. I grabbed a locker (well a cupboard - no lock on it, no need), stripped and put my gear in there, and went through to the sauna.
Now I’m really not bothered about getting my kit off anywhere (ask some of the local bars round here), but the thing that struck me was that it very quickly started to feel far more natural than it would if I did the same thing in the UK.
Sure, people checked other people out, but it wasn’t in a 'Phwoarrr! Look at THAT!" sort of way. Just an admiring glance here and there then carry on to wherever you were going.
I spent about 40 minutes in the Sauna chatting to naked guys & girls and guess what? We talked about anything and everything. Just day to day bullshit like you would anywhere else.
Towards the end of my sauna I was talking to the most beautiful Swedish girl you could imagine. I mean, close your eyes and think Swedish Goddess. Got it? That was her. Naked. We talked about our different countries, where we’d visited, foods we liked, anything really.
We’d both had our fill of the sauna and she asked me, in the most awesome accent, if I wanted to go take a shower then get a coffee. Now if that had happened here in the UK I’d have been plotting my moves and 90 seconds later she’d have been pressed against the shower wall with me firmly implanted inside her.
Over there though, because maybe of the whole relaxed attitude to nudity, I just accepted and we went and showered together. No big deal. I mean yeah I enjoyed the view but that was it.
We went and got changed then went for a coffee.
Now the strangest thing (alright, strange when you’ve never experienced Sweden) - We chatted for a while longer and as we were really enjoying each others company she actually invited me to her house for a meal that night. She made a call (in Swedish) and a little later her husband arrived and off we went.
They cooked an amazing traditional Swedish meal, we drank, talked, drank some more, then the hot tub was mentioned so we had half an hour in that - again, all naked.
At no point was sex implied in any way. I was asked to stay over and as I was enjoying myself so much I accepted. Their guest bedroom was made ready and after more drinks and laughs and talks we all turned in.
That was it. Just a great, friendly night.
The reason I went on so much above was to highlight a point. In many countries we see nudity (especially of the opposite sex) as a sexual thing.
When you are in a country where the general population thinks somewhat differently it becomes easy to fall into their way of thinking and in Sweden I found it an extremely refreshing and nice thing to do.
Her husband told me that his wife actually found me extremely attractive, but I was invited back to theirs because I was friendly and interesting - nothing to do with sex. She was his wife and would never have cheated - but she was open enough with him to tell him how much she liked me.
Even better in some ways, he was man enough to accept it and even tell me with no feeling of threat.
Sort of a hijack from the original topic but may be interesting to some.[/quote]
That, my friend, is quite a story. I need to visit Sweden, apparently. Well done. Post of the day!
Considering the fact that Woman are harassed on a daily basis by guys leering (every guy is guilty) Id say let it go.I read a study recently that woman were so bothered by “cat calls” that many have gone to therapy for it.
[quote]Renton wrote:
ktennies wrote:
Renton wrote:
I’ve been in mixed locker rooms in Sweden
I’ve never hear of these, though I’m not suprised. Do people ever hook up in those situations? If anything, I’d think there would be a lot of creepers hanging around.
As far as creepers go, surprisingly there are not many at all.
Sure, people hook up, but not really any more than in the gym or the pool or in a club or anywhere else for that matter.
I must admit to finding it a little strange at first. Alright, a lot strange. I was just going to swim and grab a sauna etc.
I walked into the changing rooms and it took a few seconds to realise I wasn’t in the wrong place. I thought I’d walked into the female changing area - then I saw guys in there too.
There were some amazingly hot Swedish girls, completely naked, and not phased by it at all. There were also some decidedly ugly Swedish girls in the same state. But then there were guys - some with great bodies, some looking like shit.
Then it starts to sink in. It’s a changing room. People are in there to get showered and changed. That’s it. I grabbed a locker (well a cupboard - no lock on it, no need), stripped and put my gear in there, and went through to the sauna.
Now I’m really not bothered about getting my kit off anywhere (ask some of the local bars round here), but the thing that struck me was that it very quickly started to feel far more natural than it would if I did the same thing in the UK.
Sure, people checked other people out, but it wasn’t in a 'Phwoarrr! Look at THAT!" sort of way. Just an admiring glance here and there then carry on to wherever you were going.
I spent about 40 minutes in the Sauna chatting to naked guys & girls and guess what? We talked about anything and everything. Just day to day bullshit like you would anywhere else.
Towards the end of my sauna I was talking to the most beautiful Swedish girl you could imagine. I mean, close your eyes and think Swedish Goddess. Got it? That was her. Naked. We talked about our different countries, where we’d visited, foods we liked, anything really.
We’d both had our fill of the sauna and she asked me, in the most awesome accent, if I wanted to go take a shower then get a coffee. Now if that had happened here in the UK I’d have been plotting my moves and 90 seconds later she’d have been pressed against the shower wall with me firmly implanted inside her.
Over there though, because maybe of the whole relaxed attitude to nudity, I just accepted and we went and showered together. No big deal. I mean yeah I enjoyed the view but that was it.
We went and got changed then went for a coffee.
Now the strangest thing (alright, strange when you’ve never experienced Sweden) - We chatted for a while longer and as we were really enjoying each others company she actually invited me to her house for a meal that night. She made a call (in Swedish) and a little later her husband arrived and off we went.
They cooked an amazing traditional Swedish meal, we drank, talked, drank some more, then the hot tub was mentioned so we had half an hour in that - again, all naked.
At no point was sex implied in any way. I was asked to stay over and as I was enjoying myself so much I accepted. Their guest bedroom was made ready and after more drinks and laughs and talks we all turned in.
That was it. Just a great, friendly night.
The reason I went on so much above was to highlight a point. In many countries we see nudity (especially of the opposite sex) as a sexual thing.
When you are in a country where the general population thinks somewhat differently it becomes easy to fall into their way of thinking and in Sweden I found it an extremely refreshing and nice thing to do.
Her husband told me that his wife actually found me extremely attractive, but I was invited back to theirs because I was friendly and interesting - nothing to do with sex. She was his wife and would never have cheated - but she was open enough with him to tell him how much she liked me.
Even better in some ways, he was man enough to accept it and even tell me with no feeling of threat.
Sort of a hijack from the original topic but may be interesting to some.[/quote]
There is just no way I could be in any of those situations and not pop wood the whole time.
Hot (even average) naked girl = automatic erection!
[quote]Petermus wrote:
Considering the fact that Woman are harassed on a daily basis by guys leering (every guy is guilty) Id say let it go.I read a study recently that woman were so bothered by “cat calls” that many have gone to therapy for it.[/quote]
LOL
“I…I just can’t take it anymore, Doctor!! One minute my ass if FAT, the next it’s PHAT. I’m dieting one minute and wearing skin tight jeans the next. Why can’t they make up their damned minds!!!”