[quote]The Mighty Stu wrote:
I couldn’t check the video (blocked on my work computer), but I think a lot of people don’t quite understand the flexibility of dieting that seems to be widely adopted these days.
A shredding diet (or even a ‘lose a few lbs’ diet) doesn’t have to consist soley of grilled chicken, steamed broccoli and oatmeal in order to reach your goals. Yes there seems to be a contingent of folks out there who almost relish the suffering, and anything that could be deemed as less than hardcore can’t be optimal, but that doesn’t mean it’s actually the case.
The thing is, as long as you’re addresing what you truly NEED in terms of maximizing your performance (performance in the gym is a key factor in muscle retention), you usually have a certain amount of latitude with the remainder of your daily #s. This however is the point that many IIFYMers can overlook. Sure you can customize your diet with all sorts of food choices and hit your prescribed amounts of prot, carbs and fat, BUT if you’re lagging in the gym, not sleeping well, or just ending up generally unhealthy from your choices, then it’s not really something that I would recommend.
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x2 to all of this (and what the guys above said while I had left the “post message” window open for the last two hours)
I don’t know what it’s like so much for the guys, but the number of women out there that think they have to prep on 800 cals of tilapia and asparagus is disturbing (and by that I mean I’ve heard this more than once). Some of the meal plans I’ve heard about go beyond boring and bland and can be downright dangerous to follow for 10-20 weeks.
It seems like there are a lot of people out there that act like their very rigid clean diets are somehow magical…(lazy) coaches don’t want to make food substitutions and act like it you can’t handle eating some nasty ass fish every 3 hours you “don’t want it bad enough”…dieting turns into a battle against you body and mind and people act like they’re warriors or martyrs or something for suffering through 16 weeks of boiled chicken and broccoli.
I follow a few fitness pages on FB, most of which promote balance and moderation, but even on those pages there has extreme outrage over “unclean food”. A coach shared a “healthy” low fat cookie recipe that was supposed to be great to share with the whole family. It called for a half of a box of yellow cake mix. Many people liked it, but a very vocal minority was pissed that a coach would tell people to eat such unhealthy processed food.
Apparently anyone who eats cookies made with toxic sugar and white flour is going to immediately become fat and ugly and die of cancer. And giving you kid a cookie is child abuse…Some people really take clean eating to an extreme and I think that many from the IIFYM crowd are rebelling against that type of thinking.
People share these crazy IIFYM meals (skinny cows sandwiched slathered with PB and sandwiched between 2 pop-tart all sitting on top of a big bowl of frozen protein sludge and drizzled with WF syrup and marshmallow fluff…seriously, where do people have time to come up with this crap and calculate the macros for it?) and I think they do that for a variety of different reasons–including but not limited to: to challenge the “suffer to be lean” mentality, inspire other IIfYMers with their “recipes”, and to brag–but for the most part, their intentions are good.
The problem arises when that’s the sort of stuff you only ever see in relation to IIFYM. I think that a lot of the people that talk about their poptarts also eat fibrous veggies, healthy fats, and lean grilled meats a majority of the time, but those meals aren’t nearly as fun to post on Instagram so they don’t. As a result, people get this idea that “IIFYM” actually stands for “the junk food diet”. Maybe there are people out there that eat processed crap all of the time on their diet and it works for them, but I don’t think a majority do it that way.
I’ve always logged my food and hit a daily cal/macro target on my “diets”. I never called it IIFYM but that’s pretty much what it is. This allowed me to have variety in my diet and for the most part eat what I wanted (though not necessarily as much as I wanted, or how I wanted it) even while getting stage lean. My diet was mostly “clean” because it was easier to track, it allowed me to eat more, and as much as I love junk food, I feel best when I avoid it. I think most people take a similar approach to IIFYM but a lot of the time they are not giving that whole story.
As far as the video itself, I think Abel makes a good point about the highly palatable meals. I know that it’s harder for me to control portions on the treats than it is on the regular meat and veggie meals. No matter what or how much I ate, I always want another ice cream sandwich. That’s not much of an issue with chicken breast.
You measure it out and you get what you get, but I can see how that could lead to a binge for someone that is already prone to bingeing. And as far as being obsessive about counting, that can certainly happen, but it can also reduce the need to carry Tupperware or baggies of proportioned meals when you’re not home. Or allow you to eat at social events while sticking to your diet. Just like any other decent diet or training program, IIFYM is great for some but it’s not for everyone.