@Frank_C I started putting this in your log, due to the brief IF discussion, but after like, 1 sentence it got too long and personal so I’m putting it in mine. Just tagging you because I feel like you have voiced similar feelings regarding eating.
If left to my own desires, I do IF automatically. I can easily eat breakfast if I feel like it, I just never do feel like it. My mornings are my busiest time and I’m up quite early anyways, so the usual advice of wake up earlier doesn’t always work. I’ve still gained weight though. Super easy to overeat at those remaining meals, especially if you’re actually hungry.
I lost 10lbs in a week a few weeks ago. It was all weight that had no reason being around, hence the quickness. I just wanted to see if I could do it. Ate extremely clean. Haven’t gained it back but I also stopped eating the way I was, because I hated it. I wasn’t hungry at all - in order to get in protein and everything from clean foods, I actually always felt full and never wanted to finish meals. So that was kinda nice - I don’t like feeling hungry (duh).
I know I need to clean up my eating - I don’t care to have a six pack (though I sure wouldn’t mind!), but too much extra fat will make it harder to be strong at certain things and hold back my conditioning goals, and is also just plain unhealthy, but I really like food. It’s like the only thing to do for fun in my town - go have a burger or pizza or something. And with a big family, there’s always a holiday or birthday to celebrate.
I’m considering trying to just eat a preplanned meal all 3 meals, every day, but giving myself the option of 1 breakfast (most likely a weekend) and 2 dinners (most likely Friday and Saturday nights) of whatever I feel. I don’t eat out most weekend nights anyway, so it wouldn’t even happen much, but if my buddies come to town or something I want to be able to have a burger with them, or eat a piece of cake at a birthday dinner.
I value my health, but I also don’t care to be so stringent that I am unable to enjoy certain things. Maybe I shouldn’t get enjoyment from food - some people say that, but I do and I’m fine with that. Just need to find a healthy balance.
Jim Wendler posted this on his website’s blog, in the “Can’t Do Dips?” article. I liked it. Bolded the part that I enjoyed the most.
Question: I am a fat ass and can’t do a proper dip. Just had a quick search but can’t seem to find anything in terms of progression building up to dips. Any ideas?
Answer: There have been good suggestions, the Slingshot being (at least in my experience) probably the best. Only thing that kind of sucks is getting that thing on my forearms; it takes forever to get on sometimes. Maybe I have huge forearms? I don’t know. HOWEVER, don’t get too wrapped up in doing dips just to do dips - meaning there are a ton of great movements out there you can use for assistance work and still be awesome; close grip bench, football bar bench press, any dumbbell pressing movements (flat, incline, standing), triceps pushdowns/extensions, push-ups.
And I know you are being facetious and self-deprecating but be wary about your internal voice i.e calling yourself a fatass. We here, on the Jim Wendler forum, are really only concerned about your putting your best foot forward and kicking ass. And I should point out that your “best foot forward” is not “giving it the old college try”. I believe we all deserve better effort than “working pretty hard” in whatever we are doing. Give more of yourself to less things - things that actually matter.
I have said this numerous times to people but from a dude’s point of view, I’d rather have a “normal” or “chubby” girl that works hard, is smart and funny and trains balls out…and lives and really loves life rather than someone that is so damn caught up in diet, their bodyweight and is all consumed with appearance. Having pride in your appearance is admirable but no one wants to hear about your stupid diet, your meal prep, your workouts or smell your whey protein farts. If you’ve never been out to eat with these mongoloids, here’s what you can look forward to:
“Is there gluten in that?”
“I’d like the Surf and Turf but no lobster. Or steak. Or any of the sides you have available. Just a boiled chicken breast and something green.”
“Is the pubic hair in my soup organic?”
And with women that really matter (the ones that you actually want to spend quality time with) - they think the same way about dudes.
(I’m appying the bolded section to myself, not a girl, though I agree with his opinion.)