[quote]Edgy wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]AliveAgain36 wrote:
^ joking, joking… [/quote]
A good spanking never hurt a girl that was very, very bad…[/quote]
AND… they’re all very, very bad~[/quote]
No.
Some just want to be very, very bad.
Indulge them.
Which is a roundabout way of saying yes I guess…
I dont have an opinion on single parents, or marriage.
However, ill ask the question again… She wants you to give up a hobby which only consumes 2 weekends a month? A hobby which she can attend, bring the kids, and basically spend time as a family watching their father figure enjoy something and be happy?
I cant believe this is serious.
I especially can not believe people support the wife wanting to take away a mundane hobby.
Go for the softball !
[quote]Chushin wrote:
So single moms are bad.
But aren’t you guys the same ones who pretty much think ALL women are bad?[/quote]
I’m pretty sure at one time they established that virgins were acceptable.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
So single moms are bad.
But aren’t you guys the same ones who pretty much think ALL women are bad?[/quote]
Ha!
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
but this ultimatum of softball or wife is the most completely ridiculous thing I’ve ever seen supported on a site supposedly filled with testosterone.
[/quote]
Yup[/quote]
I agree. It’s totally irrational for her to kick him out because he’s gone all day every other saturday. Now he’s gone all the time because she kicked him out, how the hell does that make sense?
Never the less, he made a baby with her and a man needs to live up to his obligation to his family when a kid gets created.
Men put up with jobs they don’t like and bosses they don’t like when they need to support their family. Why? Because it’s the right thing to do. So why shouldn’t a man accept that he made a baby with a control freak and make the best out of the situation? That’s the right thing to do by his kid. Especially if we take him at his word that there isn’t really anything else wrong with the relationship.
This might be a good time to mention that when I hear “dinner out with the girls” and “playing tennis” I’m tempted to start making Key Logger recommendations.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
So single moms are bad.
But aren’t you guys the same ones who pretty much think ALL women are bad?[/quote]
LOL
And yeah, I must have mixed you up w/ Cortez.
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
So single moms are bad.
But aren’t you guys the same ones who pretty much think ALL women are bad?[/quote]
Ha![/quote]
Ha, bullshit, I am bad on my on time.
I dont drag children into this.
I am the master of the rubber, Lord of the condom, Vicount of the verhueterli!
[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]carbiduis wrote:
[quote]Edgy wrote:
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
[quote]therajraj wrote:
OP,
I only read the first post but:
Single moms are damaged goods. You chose poorly to begin with and now you’re getting what you paid for.
[/quote]
Sorry man, this is a big crock of shit. It seems like you read this a number of times on the internet from arm chair experts with no actual experience dating single moms.
At best you’re making this assessment on a sample of n=1. And even that much I doubt. [/quote]
yeah, there are awesome wimmenz with kids who have dickeads for ex’s - it happens…
[/quote]
yes, but what type of girl would #1 get mixed up with a dickhead? and #2 allow herself to get knocked up by one?[/quote]
Yep.
These girls lust after dickhead types. That’s what gets missed over and over.
Some guys have trouble accepting this.
[/quote]
Maybe the OP is a dickhead?
Mind blown
[quote]AliveAgain36 wrote:
This silly post is no reason you should question wanting to decide on marriage with a woman. Based on your posts, you seem like a stand up guy. We’re on a forum post about a guy giving up softball for his family. This is an outlier. Spending your life with a girl whose unquestionably your sole mate, who you love and are proud to love and honor should be your goal. Do that and you’ll jump in on forums like his and hope the same for others.
Peace brother.
[/quote]
I don’t think it is just this silly post, I personally grew up in a broken home. Where my parents continuously fought back and forth, until I was about 12 years old and decided I wanted to live with my father (mostly), from then on I got the brunt of my mothers wrath. She still talks trash to me and to my friends (Tirib can testify that my mother lies out of the side of her neck about me, accusing me of assaulting her and having to call the cops on me every time I came to her house).
Almost every day I still wonder why I would want to possibly be joined together with a narcissist like my mother. My mother had convinced four men that she was a healthy woman “mentally,” and afterwards showed them their ultimate mistake.
Most men that I know still wonder why someone would want to put their entire life’s work in the grasp of a crazy woman who will one day decided to take his kids and fortune because she found another man to go after and steal his cash money.
[quote]MaazerSmiit wrote:
[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]carbiduis wrote:
[quote]Edgy wrote:
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
[quote]therajraj wrote:
OP,
I only read the first post but:
Single moms are damaged goods. You chose poorly to begin with and now you’re getting what you paid for.
[/quote]
Sorry man, this is a big crock of shit. It seems like you read this a number of times on the internet from arm chair experts with no actual experience dating single moms.
At best you’re making this assessment on a sample of n=1. And even that much I doubt. [/quote]
yeah, there are awesome wimmenz with kids who have dickeads for ex’s - it happens…
[/quote]
yes, but what type of girl would #1 get mixed up with a dickhead? and #2 allow herself to get knocked up by one?[/quote]
Yep.
These girls lust after dickhead types. That’s what gets missed over and over.
Some guys have trouble accepting this.
[/quote]
Maybe the OP is a dickhead?
Mind blown[/quote]
No, in the AFBB dynamic, he is the Beta bux.
You know, Alpha fux and Beta bux, this is how we roll…
From the professionel womynz ode…
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
[quote]AliveAgain36 wrote:
This silly post is no reason you should question wanting to decide on marriage with a woman. Based on your posts, you seem like a stand up guy. We’re on a forum post about a guy giving up softball for his family. This is an outlier. Spending your life with a girl whose unquestionably your sole mate, who you love and are proud to love and honor should be your goal. Do that and you’ll jump in on forums like his and hope the same for others.
Peace brother.
[/quote]
I don’t think it is just this silly post, I personally grew up in a broken home. Where my parents continuously fought back and forth, until I was about 12 years old and decided I wanted to live with my father (mostly), from then on I got the brunt of my mothers wrath. She still talks trash to me and to my friends (Tirib can testify that my mother lies out of the side of her neck about me, accusing me of assaulting her and having to call the cops on me every time I came to her house).
Almost every day I still wonder why I would want to possibly be joined together with a narcissist like my mother. My mother had convinced four men that she was a healthy woman “mentally,” and afterwards showed them their ultimate mistake.
Most men that I know still wonder why someone would want to put their entire life’s work in the grasp of a crazy woman who will one day decided to take his kids and fortune because she found another man to go after and steal his cash money.[/quote]
You are throwing me for a loop here because you are supposed to be the light so that I can be the shadow.
If you now state that cluster B women actually try to trick men into relationships where they can suck them dry, where am I supposed to go?
[quote]Edgy wrote:
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
[quote]therajraj wrote:
OP,
I only read the first post but:
Single moms are damaged goods. You chose poorly to begin with and now you’re getting what you paid for.
[/quote]
Sorry man, this is a big crock of shit. It seems like you read this a number of times on the internet from arm chair experts with no actual experience dating single moms.
At best you’re making this assessment on a sample of n=1. And even that much I doubt. [/quote]
yeah, there are awesome wimmenz with kids who have dickeads for ex’s - it happens…
[/quote]
I’ve dated a few and ended up letting them go because they were still attached to the dickheads. But, I can see why mothers first husband, my dad, second husband, and last boyfriend left my mother, complete narcissist with an incredible ability to gaslight everyone around her for her gain.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
But from my experience, both personally and observations within my social circle, single mothers (especially those with multiple kids with different daddy’s) are best left alone. Unless you want a really quick dramatic experience for kicks.
[/quote]
And, a couple of crazy mofos who come knock on your door in the middle of the day/night who are drunk and want to “apologize” to their woman and take her back. Nothing like walking into your house with a dude holding a gun, that you don’t know.
[quote]orion wrote:
You are throwing me for a loop here because you are supposed to be the light so that I can be the shadow.
If you now state that cluster B women actually try to trick men into relationships where they can suck them dry, where am I supposed to go?[/quote]
Haha. I am still the light. I don’t hate women, but I am a realist and know that there are women who are gold diggers. I just happened to be raised by one until she kicked me out of my house.
You can stay.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
[quote]AliveAgain36 wrote:
This silly post is no reason you should question wanting to decide on marriage with a woman. Based on your posts, you seem like a stand up guy. We’re on a forum post about a guy giving up softball for his family. This is an outlier. Spending your life with a girl whose unquestionably your sole mate, who you love and are proud to love and honor should be your goal. Do that and you’ll jump in on forums like his and hope the same for others.
Peace brother.
[/quote]
I don’t think it is just this silly post, I personally grew up in a broken home. Where my parents continuously fought back and forth, until I was about 12 years old and decided I wanted to live with my father (mostly), from then on I got the brunt of my mothers wrath. She still talks trash to me and to my friends (Tirib can testify that my mother lies out of the side of her neck about me, accusing me of assaulting her and having to call the cops on me every time I came to her house).
Almost every day I still wonder why I would want to possibly be joined together with a narcissist like my mother. My mother had convinced four men that she was a healthy woman “mentally,” and afterwards showed them their ultimate mistake.
Most men that I know still wonder why someone would want to put their entire life’s work in the grasp of a crazy woman who will one day decided to take his kids and fortune because she found another man to go after and steal his cash money.[/quote]
You are throwing me for a loop here because you are supposed to be the light so that I can be the shadow.
If you now state that cluster B women actually try to trick men into relationships where they can suck them dry, where am I supposed to go?[/quote]
I’m a little confused myself. The world is tilting on its axis.
[quote]MaazerSmiit wrote:
Maybe the OP is a dickhead?
Mind blown[/quote]
.
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
I’m a little confused myself. The world is tilting on its axis.[/quote]
Why?
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
I’m a little confused myself. The world is tilting on its axis.[/quote]
Why?[/quote]
Because they agree with you on many things and it boggles their little brains that YOUR experience and opinion may actually agree with the “woman haters” such as Orion and myself. (though I have never said I hate women, I don’t lie to or abuse women, nor have I ever hit a woman and I take great effort to ensure that any woman I have a relationship with is better off for having known me - I guess that makes me a woman hater because I don’t settle down with each and ever woman I date)