Rows, pulldowns and horizontal presses all have the exact same effect on the ribcage and shoulder complex, dumping you into a typical caveman posture
The only exercises that truly reverse the effects of horizontal pressing are reaches with a free/unlocked scapula and a totally neutral spine. Landmine Press, as well as push-ups and incline press with your shoulders not pinned back and down are prime. If you have the range of motion to perform without requiring thoracic extension, overhead Press works here as well.
Training your shoulder external rotators is also a very good idea
So, dont worry about matching ratios of pushing to pulling, worry about reaching 0.5-1 time per pres