Pu**y Whipped Guys

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[quote]Rico Suave wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]dudsman wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

Have you seen some of that pussy they get all whipped over?
[/quote]

Pfft means nothing. Good looking pussy whinges & whines just as much as fat ugly pussy, probably even more so.

Nothing worse than guys who surrender their balls to a chick once they are in a relationship. My brother is one of the worst for this, cant do a fucken thing without getting permission off his Mrs. 1st, makes me sick. What makes it worse is he is in denial about it.

Sure you cant be the happy go lucky, do whatever you please guy like when you were single, but you still should be able to catch up with your buddies every now & then for a few beers.[/quote]

True that.

Ive lost a few of my boys to this bullshit.

They arent even the same people anymore…more like some womans butler.

“Hey man. Wanna come play football? All of our senior class is in town and we can get our coaches to run the game”

“Sorry man i cant. Im going to the mall with Tori”

WTF

Its not at all what Sky and Dwarf are thinking…

[/quote]

Yeah. I’m thinking more along the lines of guys growing up a little, developing productive relationships, and maybe having a family versus guy who thinks life is all about hangin out and knockin a few back and all of that bros before hoes bullshit.

[/quote]

Yep.
[/quote]

Seemed pretty obvious that OP didnt mean that.

I swear you slobbering old people are always so quick to drop the “grow up” card on the table.[/quote]

It’s not about ‘bros before hoes’. It’s about KEEPING your bros. For some people, it seems that once you get a girlfriend then your free time is thrown out the window because they are constantly with them. I have a few friends who can balance the two, thank god. I’ve also seen a few of my friends disappear from my life because they get into a relationship. Oh and guess what, those relationships don’t last. So don’t give me some bullshit about them not being “a good friend” because they were and are (when they are around).

On the other hand, friendships do last. The only way to really fuck up a friendship between guys is a) fucking the others girlfriend or b) completely losing touch with the other. I’ve never experienced “a)” before but “b)” seems to happen too often.

I’m all for relationships but just because you’re in one doesn’t mean you can’t keep the one’s that you’ve already established.
[/quote]

Well

Sky Emily and Dwarf all have lectures written up for ya.

PM them to recieve the pdf files.

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[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]Rico Suave wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]dudsman wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

Have you seen some of that pussy they get all whipped over?
[/quote]

Pfft means nothing. Good looking pussy whinges & whines just as much as fat ugly pussy, probably even more so.

Nothing worse than guys who surrender their balls to a chick once they are in a relationship. My brother is one of the worst for this, cant do a fucken thing without getting permission off his Mrs. 1st, makes me sick. What makes it worse is he is in denial about it.

Sure you cant be the happy go lucky, do whatever you please guy like when you were single, but you still should be able to catch up with your buddies every now & then for a few beers.[/quote]

True that.

Ive lost a few of my boys to this bullshit.

They arent even the same people anymore…more like some womans butler.

“Hey man. Wanna come play football? All of our senior class is in town and we can get our coaches to run the game”

“Sorry man i cant. Im going to the mall with Tori”

WTF

Its not at all what Sky and Dwarf are thinking…

[/quote]

Yeah. I’m thinking more along the lines of guys growing up a little, developing productive relationships, and maybe having a family versus guy who thinks life is all about hangin out and knockin a few back and all of that bros before hoes bullshit.

[/quote]

Yep.
[/quote]

Seemed pretty obvious that OP didnt mean that.

I swear you slobbering old people are always so quick to drop the “grow up” card on the table.[/quote]

It’s not about ‘bros before hoes’. It’s about KEEPING your bros. For some people, it seems that once you get a girlfriend then your free time is thrown out the window because they are constantly with them. I have a few friends who can balance the two, thank god. I’ve also seen a few of my friends disappear from my life because they get into a relationship. Oh and guess what, those relationships don’t last. So don’t give me some bullshit about them not being “a good friend” because they were and are (when they are around).

On the other hand, friendships do last. The only way to really fuck up a friendship between guys is a) fucking the others girlfriend or b) completely losing touch with the other. I’ve never experienced “a)” before but “b)” seems to happen too often.

I’m all for relationships but just because you’re in one doesn’t mean you can’t keep the one’s that you’ve already established.
[/quote]

Well

Sky Emily and Dwarf all have lectures written up for ya.

PM them to recieve the pdf files.[/quote]

WTF, I’ve already griped about my disappearing bestie in this thread and said that I want time with my friends and expect the same from men. And then I noted that my ex didn’t seem to care about friends time (so he sat home alone while I was with my girls) and I figure that some people really don’t care about friends time.

I spend the bulk of my time with my guy but need to have friends as well.

In summary, I am FOR friendship and FOR relationships and only AGAINST stupid stuff.

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The guys that this happens to like that it happens, or else they wouldn’t be there.

There’s nothing you can do, or that you should want to do. If the guy would rather hang out with his girlfriend than you all the time, what kind of friend was he?

But don’t judge someone on not going out to get drunk or have beers. I rarely drink anymore and spend way more time in the gym than at the bars… so it’s not that I don’t want to hang out with this friend or that, it’s that I don’t want the hangover the next day from the booze.

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[quote]therajraj wrote:
Why is getting married the only way to “grow up?”

Perhaps I simply don’t want to spend my life working like a dog for a woman who increasingly looks like a dog.

[/quote]

That I could live with if she makes up for it in other ways, but the whining and barking…

… might get to me.

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[quote]infinite_shore wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
Yeah. I’m thinking more along the lines of guys growing up a little, developing productive relationships, and maybe having a family versus guy who thinks life is all about hangin out and knockin a few back and all of that bros before hoes bullshit.
[/quote]

Bullshit. It is ALL about your sexual market value.

You would do well to study the great teachings of master orion. He is wise beyond his years.[/quote]

Its not.

If you are not interested in having your dick sucked there is no reason to care about it one bit.

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[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]dudsman wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

Have you seen some of that pussy they get all whipped over?
[/quote]

Pfft means nothing. Good looking pussy whinges & whines just as much as fat ugly pussy, probably even more so.

Nothing worse than guys who surrender their balls to a chick once they are in a relationship. My brother is one of the worst for this, cant do a fucken thing without getting permission off his Mrs. 1st, makes me sick. What makes it worse is he is in denial about it.

Sure you cant be the happy go lucky, do whatever you please guy like when you were single, but you still should be able to catch up with your buddies every now & then for a few beers.[/quote]

True that.

Ive lost a few of my boys to this bullshit.

They arent even the same people anymore…more like some womans butler.

“Hey man. Wanna come play football? All of our senior class is in town and we can get our coaches to run the game”

“Sorry man i cant. Im going to the mall with Tori”

WTF

Its not at all what Sky and Dwarf are thinking…

[/quote]

Yeah. I’m thinking more along the lines of guys growing up a little, developing productive relationships, and maybe having a family versus guy who thinks life is all about hangin out and knockin a few back and all of that bros before hoes bullshit.

[/quote]

Also, one day they will realize that as their friends get married and have kids, that loyalty to them is going out the window because now their “bros” have people that rely on them now, called a “family.”

“Bros before hoes” was always fucking dumb. It’s truly about maintaining your sense of self and your freedom to be yourself and do things that you want to do while functioning in a relationship - not about giving your wife the finger and going to drink with your “bros” instead.

This is a very early-mid 20s kind of thing to reflect on. When you’re older you just have friends and family, and then acquaintances that you know but don’t really matter to you one way or the other.

And if your friend isn’t talking to you anymore because of a woman… get over it and find a new friend. It would have happened eventually anyway.

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[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
Why is getting married the only way to “grow up?”

Perhaps I simply don’t want to spend my life working like a dog for a woman who increasingly looks like a dog.

[/quote]

Aww shit dude

You done messed up now.

waits for old people to shuffle in with cold cups of coffee and danish stuck in beards[/quote]

Um, that’s not a danish stuck in my old lady beard (though I prefer to call them “chin hairs”).

But you have fun out there wit the boyz!

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[quote]Rocky101 wrote:
Show me a pussy whipped guy and I will show you a guy who will be cheated on in the future.
Man up guys, booty is replaceable and there is no booty like new booty.[/quote]

I learned this lesson the hard way years ago. Putting the pussy on the pedestal is one of the biggest mistake a guy can make.

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[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

So your philosophy is hoes before bros, SkyzykS?[/quote]

I know you’re asking that out of humor, Em.

But guys who refer to their women as hoes, only deserve hoes. Then expect disrespect on both sides.

See my previous post. [1]

Interestingly, no one in this thread used the word “hoes” until Skyzyks did.

  1. /quote ↩︎

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[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:

I rarely drink anymore and spend way more time in the gym than at the bars… [/quote]
Holy shit. I think this is truly the last sign that the world is ending.

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[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]dudsman wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

Have you seen some of that pussy they get all whipped over?
[/quote]

Pfft means nothing. Good looking pussy whinges & whines just as much as fat ugly pussy, probably even more so.

Nothing worse than guys who surrender their balls to a chick once they are in a relationship. My brother is one of the worst for this, cant do a fucken thing without getting permission off his Mrs. 1st, makes me sick. What makes it worse is he is in denial about it.

Sure you cant be the happy go lucky, do whatever you please guy like when you were single, but you still should be able to catch up with your buddies every now & then for a few beers.[/quote]

True that.

Ive lost a few of my boys to this bullshit.

They arent even the same people anymore…more like some womans butler.

“Hey man. Wanna come play football? All of our senior class is in town and we can get our coaches to run the game”

“Sorry man i cant. Im going to the mall with Tori”

WTF

Its not at all what Sky and Dwarf are thinking…

[/quote]

Yeah. I’m thinking more along the lines of guys growing up a little, developing productive relationships, and maybe having a family versus guy who thinks life is all about hangin out and knockin a few back and all of that bros before hoes bullshit.

[/quote]

Also, one day they will realize that as their friends get married and have kids, that loyalty to them is going out the window because now their “bros” have people that rely on them now, called a “family.”

“Bros before hoes” was always fucking dumb. It’s truly about maintaining your sense of self and your freedom to be yourself and do things that you want to do while functioning in a relationship - not about giving your wife the finger and going to drink with your “bros” instead.

This is a very early-mid 20s kind of thing to reflect on. When you’re older you just have friends and family, and then acquaintances that you know but don’t really matter to you one way or the other.

And if your friend isn’t talking to you anymore because of a woman… get over it and find a new friend. It would have happened eventually anyway.
[/quote]
Exactly.

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[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
Why is getting married the only way to “grow up?”

Perhaps I simply don’t want to spend my life working like a dog for a woman who increasingly looks like a dog.

[/quote]

Aww shit dude

You done messed up now.

waits for old people to shuffle in with cold cups of coffee and danish stuck in beards[/quote]

Um, that’s not a danish stuck in my old lady beard (though I prefer to call them “chin hairs”).

But you have fun out there wit the boyz![/quote]

All of my friends are women.

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To tell the truth this kind of happened to me a few years ago but I WAS the guy that stopped seeing his friends. I did what a lot of my friends have done and fell in love with a girl (now my wife) and virtually stopped seeing my friends apart from the occasional get together, birthdays etc.

Me and my friends used to smoke a lot of weed together and when I started seeing this girl I stopped it. Partly because she wanted me to but also I knew I had to sometime and then was a good a time as any.

Shortly after stopping I realised that although these were really close friends I had known for years, the only thing we all really had in common was our love of the ganja and the fact that I had quit just re-inforced my separation from the group and made it harder to bond and connect when we did meet up.

I haven’t seen any of them for about 6 months and some of them for a couple of years now! I have mixed emotions about this; on the one hand I feel like a fucking sell out dick-weed. On the other I feel like if I would have chosen to spend more time with my friends than I did, I wouldn’t have ended up with my now wife and wouldn’t enjoy the happy (and healthier)((physically and mentally)) life that I currently do.

I have made other friends since with interests in common with mine ie. lifting. But I still look back with mixed feelings and even some regrets regarding the way I just ‘dropped’ some of my old mates regardless of our difference in interests.

Just my .02

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[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

So your philosophy is hoes before bros, SkyzykS?[/quote]

Not entirely. I’m probably a lot more like you with balance and spending time with friends. Since there isn’t any room in my life for booze & whatnot, a different strategy had to be employed with friends and family.

Take my brother, for example. He needed a sidewalk torn out from around his house. Knowing that I’ve busted up tons of concrete, he asked me to give him a hand. So we got together and tore it up. In the mean time we were goofing off, catching up, having a few laughs, then graded it with topsoil and planted some grass. Finished up with a steaks on the grill and a good time was had by all.

Skip to my new house. He comes over and notices that the hose bib is leaking. A couple of days later he stops by on his way home from work and replaces it with a new one (he’s a plumber), so now I don’t have to worry about the line bursting in the winter or a big ice patch on the sidewalk. We have a cup of coffee and shoot the shit about what has been happening lately, and a good time is had by all.

It seems like those mutually beneficial activities and relationships are much stronger that the ones based on being Bros and “being there”, what ever the hell that means.

Sounds like a lot of these dudes talking about pussy whipped and what ever are just afraid that their boyfriends won’t be there to hold their hair when they’re lurching their guts out at three in the morning after a long night of friendship.

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[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

Sounds like a lot of these dudes talking about pussy whipped and what ever are just afraid that their boyfriends won’t be there to hold their hair when they’re lurching their guts out at three in the morning after a long night of friendship.

[/quote]

Haha that is a great line.

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[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

So your philosophy is hoes before bros, SkyzykS?[/quote]

Not entirely. I’m probably a lot more like you with balance and spending time with friends. Since there isn’t any room in my life for booze & whatnot, a different strategy had to be employed with friends and family.

Take my brother, for example. He needed a sidewalk torn out from around his house. Knowing that I’ve busted up tons of concrete, he asked me to give him a hand. So we got together and tore it up. In the mean time we were goofing off, catching up, having a few laughs, then graded it with topsoil and planted some grass. Finished up with a steaks on the grill and a good time was had by all.

Skip to my new house. He comes over and notices that the hose bib is leaking. A couple of days later he stops by on his way home from work and replaces it with a new one (he’s a plumber), so now I don’t have to worry about the line bursting in the winter or a big ice patch on the sidewalk. We have a cup of coffee and shoot the shit about what has been happening lately, and a good time is had by all.

It seems like those mutually beneficial activities and relationships are much stronger that the ones based on being Bros and “being there”, what ever the hell that means.

Sounds like a lot of these dudes talking about pussy whipped and what ever are just afraid that their boyfriends won’t be there to hold their hair when they’re lurching their guts out at three in the morning after a long night of friendship.

[/quote]

  1. Pussywhipped dude wouldnt be allowed to help anyone but the woman he is strung out by.

  2. I dont drink and have a shaved head.

Admit you have no point and jumped the gun.

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[quote]lemony2j wrote:
To tell the truth this kind of happened to me a few years ago but I WAS the guy that stopped seeing his friends. I did what a lot of my friends have done and fell in love with a girl (now my wife) and virtually stopped seeing my friends apart from the occasional get together, birthdays etc.

Me and my friends used to smoke a lot of weed together and when I started seeing this girl I stopped it. Partly because she wanted me to but also I knew I had to sometime and then was a good a time as any.

Shortly after stopping I realised that although these were really close friends I had known for years, the only thing we all really had in common was our love of the ganja and the fact that I had quit just re-inforced my separation from the group and made it harder to bond and connect when we did meet up.

I haven’t seen any of them for about 6 months and some of them for a couple of years now! I have mixed emotions about this; on the one hand I feel like a fucking sell out dick-weed. On the other I feel like if I would have chosen to spend more time with my friends than I did, I wouldn’t have ended up with my now wife and wouldn’t enjoy the happy (and healthier)((physically and mentally)) life that I currently do.

I have made other friends since with interests in common with mine ie. lifting. But I still look back with mixed feelings and even some regrets regarding the way I just ‘dropped’ some of my old mates regardless of our difference in interests.

Just my .02[/quote]

You have friends. Greeny lets you see them…right?

That isnt pussywhipped…

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[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]dudsman wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

Have you seen some of that pussy they get all whipped over?
[/quote]

Pfft means nothing. Good looking pussy whinges & whines just as much as fat ugly pussy, probably even more so.

Nothing worse than guys who surrender their balls to a chick once they are in a relationship. My brother is one of the worst for this, cant do a fucken thing without getting permission off his Mrs. 1st, makes me sick. What makes it worse is he is in denial about it.

Sure you cant be the happy go lucky, do whatever you please guy like when you were single, but you still should be able to catch up with your buddies every now & then for a few beers.[/quote]

True that.

Ive lost a few of my boys to this bullshit.

They arent even the same people anymore…more like some womans butler.

“Hey man. Wanna come play football? All of our senior class is in town and we can get our coaches to run the game”

“Sorry man i cant. Im going to the mall with Tori”

WTF

Its not at all what Sky and Dwarf are thinking…

[/quote]

Yeah. I’m thinking more along the lines of guys growing up a little, developing productive relationships, and maybe having a family versus guy who thinks life is all about hangin out and knockin a few back and all of that bros before hoes bullshit.

[/quote]

Also, one day they will realize that as their friends get married and have kids, that loyalty to them is going out the window because now their “bros” have people that rely on them now, called a “family.”

“Bros before hoes” was always fucking dumb. It’s truly about maintaining your sense of self and your freedom to be yourself and do things that you want to do while functioning in a relationship - not about giving your wife the finger and going to drink with your “bros” instead.

This is a very early-mid 20s kind of thing to reflect on. When you’re older you just have friends and family, and then acquaintances that you know but don’t really matter to you one way or the other.

And if your friend isn’t talking to you anymore because of a woman… get over it and find a new friend. It would have happened eventually anyway.
[/quote]

Of course all this is true.

That doesnt mean a guy is just gonna take it without venting a bit over it…and that the only point OP was making. Bros over hoes was mentioned by sky only…no one else.

Lulz

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[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
Bros over hoes was mentioned by sky only…no one else.

[/quote]

I was just putting to words something that everyone else was dancing around. Even they didn’t want to say it because they know how gay it is and therefore they are too.

Yup. I just called all of those dudes Fags.

Not even normal ones either. The really messed up ones that wear glitter and use whole salami for a hoppity-hop.

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[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

So your philosophy is hoes before bros, SkyzykS?[/quote]

Not entirely. I’m probably a lot more like you with balance and spending time with friends. Since there isn’t any room in my life for booze & whatnot, a different strategy had to be employed with friends and family.

Take my brother, for example. He needed a sidewalk torn out from around his house. Knowing that I’ve busted up tons of concrete, he asked me to give him a hand. So we got together and tore it up. In the mean time we were goofing off, catching up, having a few laughs, then graded it with topsoil and planted some grass. Finished up with a steaks on the grill and a good time was had by all.

Skip to my new house. He comes over and notices that the hose bib is leaking. A couple of days later he stops by on his way home from work and replaces it with a new one (he’s a plumber), so now I don’t have to worry about the line bursting in the winter or a big ice patch on the sidewalk. We have a cup of coffee and shoot the shit about what has been happening lately, and a good time is had by all.

It seems like those mutually beneficial activities and relationships are much stronger that the ones based on being Bros and “being there”, what ever the hell that means.

Sounds like a lot of these dudes talking about pussy whipped and what ever are just afraid that their boyfriends won’t be there to hold their hair when they’re lurching their guts out at three in the morning after a long night of friendship.

[/quote]

  1. Pussywhipped dude wouldnt be allowed to help anyone but the woman he is strung out by.

  2. I dont drink and have a shaved head.

Admit you have no point and jumped the gun.

[/quote]

Rock is right here. Sky, Do you truly fail to see that we are all advocating the same thing here (i.e. “balance”, as you yourself have said)? I don’t think anybody here disagrees that a serious partner should come before a friend. The way I’ve always seen it, “bros before hoes” means exactly that, i.e. going for some strange isn’t worth losing a friendship over. A girlfriend/wife does not constitute a “ho”.

Also, read the title of the thread and the first post. The point of the thread isn’t to create a bitchfest about friends that we don’t get to see enough of because of their lifestyle choices. A pussy whipped guy is one who would like the maintain that friendship, but is powerless to do so because his woman won’t LET him. I’m not saying that the woman’s intentions are necessarily wrong: a guy’s buddies aren’t always good influences. Personally, however, I feel that it is wrong in most cases because respecting your partner’s autonomy (within reason, of course) shows a great deal more respect than controlling him/her does.