[quote]skinnygrowboy wrote:
Like I expected, my post was completely misinterpreted. [/quote]
I seriously doubt anyone misinterpreted your point. Like you said, blacks harrassed your wife by grabbing their dicks, they put cars on blocks in their yard (even though I thought that particular negative stereotype was thrown at hispanics), and they kicked your wife out of a place in a college program. What was there to misinterpret? Blacks, bad…you, victim. Got it.
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My point is that in some cases racism can be a conditioned response–experience brings negative (or positive) expectations automatically. (Just like Pavlov and his dogs.) I was explaining the concept from a white person’s perspective,[/quote]
See, now I am really confused because how did you show a conditioned response in anything you wrote? The blacks you wrote about were acting with a conditioned response or you were?
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but I’m sure there could be similar arguments from a black, hispanic, or whatever other racial perspective as well. I talked about this with one of my black friends a few months ago–he understood my point of view, and I understood his.[/quote]
If I were talking to you and you began a rant like what you just wrote, I would tell you whatever it would take to shut you up so I could get on with my life. Don’t take a lack of argument for acceptance.
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In response to some of the flaming posts:
- According to these responses, apparently it’s OK for a person to be selected for or excluded from opportunity based solely on race, as long the target of the discrimination is white. You guys are the racists, not me.[/quote]
No one wrote that. However, what always jumps out to me is how so many claim to know for sure that someone made a worse grade than them or that they just couldn’t measure up to them on an application when they rant that they were kicked out of a position. In your story, how is it your wife knew some others kid’s overall grades in detail? Unless your wife was handed her transcript, it is all “she said he said”. Is it impossible to you that your wife simply didn’t make the grade? If all black women got into that program, was it a minority based program? I would really love to know because to my knowledge, many schools/colleges (like Texas A&M Univ.) are still boasting a very large white population on campus in respect to any other ethnic group. How did your wife end up getting beat for a “college program” when there is that much opportunity available? Again, how does your wife know what anyone else scored?
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2. My GMAT score was in the top 2% in the country so I’ve never had this sort of problem. My wife was not required to take standardized tests for what she was pursuing, but her grades were excellent.[/quote]
What was she pursuing that required NO standardized testing? Had it ever occured to you that maybe she didn’t get in because of an educational background that excluded any standardized testing?
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3. It’s amusing (and typical) that if anyone tells the truth by stating uncomfortable facts, they are instantly labeled as stupid or evil (“Grand Wizard”).[/quote]
That isn’t the case at all. I called you a grand wizard (or whatever that position is called) because your entire post read as if blacks were the scum of the earth and invaded your home, education and marital life. You made no relation to concepts in society as a whole but only focused on race as if you personally were a victim in all cases. How do any of us know that anything you stated is FACT? You didn’t make even one universal relation to racism. You simply told us that you were being chased out of house and home by black people and that your wife can’t even get an education because of “those people”.