X, when you berate a 16yo old kid for not ramping correctly, you show yourself to be an awfully “little” man.
My comments would be self-righteous if I didn’t follow the advice I’m giving you. But since I conduct my life that way, its more of a little thing called being an adult. I was a foul-mouthed self absorbed know-it-all when I was a teen. Real life and real tragedy slapped that taste out of my mouth hard and fast.
You get a bit frustrated with the questions do ya? I was the primary vet on the biggest longest thread on this site (my experience on the Anabolic Diet) and walked the walk on how to be a man instead of a boy with a big mouth. Did I get frustrated? Sure. Did I get asked “stupid” questions? Most would say so. Did I treat people in a demeaning fashion and try to be a cyber-bully? No.
And sometimes you don’t either. But sometimes you’re a real tool. Maybe life hasn’t taught you that yet. Or maybe online is where you can let some of your repressed inferiority out on people who are of lesser accomplishments. Who knows?
But you need to check how you come across to people OR DONT ANSWER THE QUESTIONS, man. Its that simple. Noboody needs anything else from you.
Pitching profanity like a high school kid and stroking your ego by being king in your kingdom is pathetic for a man of your age and profession.
Do you talk to your patients with such contempt and disdain? Doubt it, they’re giving you the bucks AND you actually have to make eye contact.
I like much of what you can contribute when you want to be civil. You’re smart and experienced I can see. Use it to benefit others or don’t contribute at all. Be an asset in life.
What I’m saying is this. Help or DONT. But drop the need to be everybody’s daddy. Answer like a professional or don’t waste your time. These are human beings with lives, families, and are just looking for someone to give a hand up. Either pay if forward on move on.
DH
NOTE: And just for the record, ramping is fine as a techinique. But Im 264 at 5’9" and arms well over 20". I never ramp anything. Its a techinique not the Gospel of Jesus Christ, guys. Don’t sweat it.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
DH wrote:
Good observation, bad conclusion. The issue is often more of a genuine lack of understanding of APPLICATION of basic principles of training. Often not the fault of the poster. When inundated with information, much of which appears conflicting, its easy for well intentioned and intelligent people to be at a loss.
Some here are confusing information with wisdom. Folks here have lots of information but they do not have the understanding to apply it and then interpret the results thereafter. Last I checked that is these are the exact criterion that make them “non-vets”. Lo and behold.
So berating everyone who asks a “stupid” question is a bit nonsensical itself. In a way, it too is “stupid”. Its just as ignorant to not see that the problem is not a lack of information or effort on peoples behalf (most of the time) but rather an experiential understanding of how to put the pieces together.
That’s why there are coaches. They train many smart and capable athletes who need the expertise of how to put all these variables together. And they probably don’t get talked down to with profanity, either.
I would like to think that as “vets”, we are here to add that element to the younger guys. They’re not here to be verbally b**tch slapped by some self-aggrandizing internet pseudo identities.
C_C has done a nice job of being patient and helpful. Well done. Respecting others shows you respect yourself.
DH
These questions are a clear sign of people not lifting but wanting to TALK about it like that makes up for lack of experience.
Please. No one needs your clearly self righteous attempt to explain why so many people lately are getting nowhere near the results that serious lifters got even 10 years ago. The real problem is there is now a HUGE population of people really not that serious yet typing more and more (and talking) to be heard basing their content ONLY on what they read somewhere. If you sit at home and your only source of knowledge is the internet, you WILL fuck up. That has been the message from the beginning…that people need to stop expecting info to jump in their lap. They need to get out, go TO a gym and observe what the really developed people are actually doing.
Another issue that confuses the masses is authors acting like the bigger someone is, the LESS they must know because clearly genetics/drugs are the ONLY reason they made any progress. Let’s not forget that nearly ALL big guys you see don’t know how they got that way…right?
When you teach people to avoid going to the ones who actually saw success, you are setting them up to be loyal little followers…who will doubtfully reach their own full potential.
Another issue is the belief that when we are discussing these issues…that we need to include those who really “don’t want to get too big”. This is a bodybuilding forum. If your goal isn’t big muscles, you are in the wrong forum.
Expecting people to stop majoring in the minors and to just do it isn’t ignorant or stupid. [/quote]