I don’t mean any disrespect, but if you’re involving yourself in violence and ending up in jail, that’s not what I’d call being good at handling violence. I have no doubt you were a good fighter, but getting tied up in the legal system is a really bad outcome for a person who wants to involve himself with violence.
I’ve had at least a dozen incidents where I’ve put hands on another person and dealt with the cops afterwards, all recorded on security footage, never once being on the wrong side of the law. That doesn’t make me some ultimate badass, but it does make me a guy who has come out on top repeatedly and never gone to jail because of it.
Like my jiu jistsu instructor says, you’re usually either starting from a bad position or committing assault. Not to discount your fighting skills and experience, but in today’s world where you can almost count on everything being filmed, you have to act with a level of mindfulness and a measured response if you are interested in staying out of jail or not getting sued.
Of course, if you don’t care about any of those consequences, picking a dude up and slamming him on the ground might meet all sorts of personal goals for the OP. Jail has been known to harden a dude up, and there’s nothing like an incarceration story to liven up an otherwise dull party.
This is a very true statement. I’m almost ready to hang up my bouncing hat. I’m 39 and had to wrestle with a really strong guy in his early 20’s last week. Snowboard instructor who does all kinds of flips and shit, lifts weights, way more athletic than me, drunk as a skunk and coked-up to the gills. I got by on technique, strength, sobriety and good judgement, but not much else. The kid was a handful for sure, all full of rage and irrational behavior. If the whistle had blown and we would have scrapped for real I think I would have come out on top, but it’s entirely likely I would have taken some damage. It’s even possible I would have gotten my ass handed to me, especially since he had a lot of buddies in the bar.
There’s nothing quite like violence to make you feel alive. I think I’m close to my fill point, though. Sex is better.