Karma I absolutely agree. One point though, what if the man had an interest in a particular woman because he thought she was adventurous, had a strong sex drive, and a little nasty/kinky. Everything else aside lets say this was the deciding factor becuase this man loved this woman in every other way, but her sexuality was the final straw? And it ends up being BS? She never really liked being sexually eager or even having sex so often? What then? She faked it cause she wanted him to think she was someone else. Men probably do this to, in fact I’d like to hear your side or any stories about lame little boys who play some sort of game like this. Doesn’t have to be about sex either. Picking the sex expert’s brains…
if she used to like giving head to you and stopped you can bet she wants to still give head but not to you!LOL
Mamann, I don’t think helping around the house is gonna solve the problem. Women aren’t attracted to houseboys; they’re attracted to confident, purposeful MEN.
Just a thought. Would a woman get offended if you called her a cocksucker?
As in “That was amazing honey! You’re a great cocksucker?”
RS: Deception is just one tactic among the many that people will use to get the prize…
Worse, like Denzel Washington said in Training Day: Its not what you know, its what you can prove. Awfully hard to prove deception, not instantly done, costly, the burden of proof is to be done by the doubter, etc…
And, when asked why they finally fess up to say why they did it that way, here`s my favorite answer: Hey, I had to! Talk about concern for the other and genuine love…
Lowlife, yes. True, yes.
(Excuse me will I will go lace my steel-cap toe boots…)
Just another reason not to marry after a long long test period…suckers are not that patient and will find an easier mark somewhere else.
Mariage Insurance: What one Brilliant Gal did.
A very intelligent girl, a couple of weeks before deciding to mary her guy, did a good test. She went to see a high class prostitute (the type that costs in the 4 figures and just looking at her drills a hole in your wallet type), and paid her to see if the Pro could make his husband bend (seduce him, get him physically involved, at worse sleep with him and take discrete picture proof). She was told that there were no holds barred - a potential marriage was at stake here. The guy never did, even under alcohol.
The Brainy babe THEN said yes.
Whats wrong with trust if you have tests that corroborate it? Brilliant girl. When you are considering a good part of a lifetime with a significant other, the small investment for checking references is a small price to pay to have ones head clear before saying yes. Again, Brilliant babe.
Thanks for your input, peter, as I’m pretty sure it’s sincere.
I’m kind of known to run back and forth between serious advice (hey, I give it occasionally!) and being a little off the wall, with occasional, somewhat feeble attempts at being, well, witty. And I also tend to toss in a little sarcasm quite often as well.
Best way to tell when I’m really not that serious is when I put one of those little smiley thingamajigs at the end of a post, you know, like this 
or maybe one that kind of looks like it’s winking, like this 
I definately don’t mind kissing the clam, but then again my sense of smell and taste is almost non-existent thanks to chem lab last semester. Before this “accident” I’d only go down there if she held a gun to my head but just as its already been said, once I started doing the deed, so did she
blondeblue,
“A kiss on my neck as I load the dishwasher and he helps! Sees the laundry basket at the top of the stairs and brings it down for me, without my asking, that type of thing.”
ROFLMAO, I almost fell off my chair reading this. It’s priceless.
Why, you say? Because he brings the laundry basket down FOR YOU, and he HELPS you with what you apparently consider to be your responsibilities. In your head doing these things is doing more than he has to, and so you are grateful. It’s beautiful. I wish more women would know their place like you
“Here honey, I bought this new dishwasher for you”
“Thank you so much dear, my old one wasn’t working so great”
I think that type of shit is hilarious.
/Jacob
Come to think of it, maybe that diminishing range of choices is something normal.
Look at it this way. Lets say there are 100 different positions that two partners can choose from. All of them being different, some will be more fun than others. After a trial of all the positions, it would be expected that the ones who give <i>both</i> partners the best experiences get the most repeated. So, that shrinking down of options could be just another way of using the most good old faithful tried and true` mutually pleasant positions. In no way does it prevent others, though, just that one-sided deals create reciprocation expectations.
Some girls told me they give blow jobs to, first and foremost, please their man, not for their own fun because they don`t feel much of anything when doing it. But like Monica Belucci hinted in Irreversible on more expressive types, the expression of pleasure felt by the partner is a good reward in itself.
Ok,ok 69. Just do it.
mamann, yes I’m actually trying to be helpful. I’ve been in situations where a girlfriend loses interest in blowing me and it’s always cause she’s less attracted to me, always because I started being too accommodating, not saying no enough, letting her have her way too much, etc. I resisted that explanation for awhile but it’s true; the women I know want that “I don’t give a fuck what you think of me” attitude, not the 21st century wussified male most of our gender has become.
PETERNF: It`s almost paradoxical that women who always say yes (the doormats) never captivate the attention or spark as much as the dreamgirl who can still say no. But, for the one nighters, who cares? LOL