Old Girlfriend Got Married

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[quote]TACHICK wrote:

FYI, I put my occupation as ANTMAN517’S ex down as a joke, not b/c I have “serious issues” other than the fact that his mommy and daddy still dictate his every move when he’s almost 33 years old, w/our kid on the way, and him still living in “their” house.

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TACHICK, if he left you after knocking you up, or if he screwed up bad enough for you to leave him after getting knocked up, you have every right to be bent.

As men, when a little one is on the way, we have an obligation to rise above our fears and insecurities and be better men.

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[quote]on edge wrote:
It will seem so petty to you. To bad you live in the now, eh?[/quote]

It will never be petty; the feelings will simply become manageable.

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[quote]DPH wrote:
TACHICK wrote:
FYI, I put my occupation as ANTMAN517’S ex down as a joke, not b/c I have “serious issues” other than the fact that his mommy and daddy still dictate his every move when he’s almost 33 years old, w/our kid on the way, and him still living in “their” house.

My main concern at this point in time is retrieving all of my personal belongings from his parents house and moving them into my apartment, which no one helped me get…that’s all.

how does allowing yourself to get knocked up by such a loser reflect on you?

maybe you should have taken the time to assess the situation BEFORE you allowed yourself to get pregnant…

it seems as though YOU have made some very poor choices and want to blame them all on someone else…

great (sarcasm), another child brought into the world by irresponsible stupid-fucks…[/quote]

Ok, SIT DOWN FOR THIS…I was on BIRTH CONTROL when this unfortunate mishap occurred…and btw, he and I had been there TWICE before when I was on the best BC out there…so, I resent the comment that you said " You made some very poor choices and want to blame them all on someone else…"

Accidents happen every day and things happen to people all the time that maybe should not happen to them. (No disrespect intended.)
Case in point, Life’s a Bitch…

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[quote]Avoids Roids wrote:
I like this TACHICK. Too bad she got hooked up with such a loser. I will never be able to use Super Glue again without thinking of her.[/quote]

XOXO baby! LOL!

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[quote]nephorm wrote:
Blacksnake wrote:
I remember exactly why I left the ex in the first place(and/or why she left me)…

See, if I think about why my exes left me, that just gets me depressed… it works otherwise for you?[/quote]

The other thing is that this tactic won’t work if it was an amicable, regrettable split, which this one sounds like it was. Otherwise, why else would they still be friends?

DB

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[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:
oriensus wrote:
TACHICK wrote:
Yeah you’re damn right I’m an angry bitch and with good reason. It’s men like him that wind up with their dicks superglued to their stomachs when they wake up in the morning.

That’s fucked up, I thought it was just extra sticky cum stain.

Seriously… plus, it seems to me that a woman has more potential for damage when it comes to genitalia and super glue.[/quote]

Well, a little super glue to the twat will prevent unwanted pregnancies…

(I didn’t just say that, did I?)

DB

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[quote]TACHICK wrote:
Avoids Roids wrote:
I like this TACHICK. Too bad she got hooked up with such a loser. I will never be able to use Super Glue again without thinking of her.

XOXO baby! LOL![/quote]

Zap - I would NOT recommend telling your wife about your ex but you should talk to her about the other problems you are having.

Tachick- He is the father of your baby and I am sure you want what is best for the baby. You need to forgive and move on for the little one. He is the child’s father and your anger will not be good for the baby. I wish you the best of luck. I am sure it will be difficult to be a single mom but the baby will bring joy to your life.

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[quote]on edge wrote:
TACHICK wrote:

FYI, I put my occupation as ANTMAN517’S ex down as a joke, not b/c I have “serious issues” other than the fact that his mommy and daddy still dictate his every move when he’s almost 33 years old, w/our kid on the way, and him still living in “their” house.

TACHICK, if he left you after knocking you up, or if he screwed up bad enough for you to leave him after getting knocked up, you have every right to be bent.

As men, when a little one is on the way, we have an obligation to rise above our fears and insecurities and be better men.[/quote]

Well, he screwed me over twice in the past few months (cheating). Once I confirmed it, and got tired of him beating on me I walked out. I swear he was trying to get me to miscarry our baby.

Now apparently, he’s with some skank who’s 36, already has half a litter of kids, and got her pregnant too. It’s all good though b/c I don’t need him or her in my child’s life. The kid will have awesome grandparents and I’m sure the next guy in my life will step up to the plate.

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[quote]cvb wrote:
TACHICK wrote:
Avoids Roids wrote:
I like this TACHICK. Too bad she got hooked up with such a loser. I will never be able to use Super Glue again without thinking of her.

XOXO baby! LOL!

Zap - I would NOT recommend telling your wife about your ex but you should talk to her about the other problems you are having.

Tachick- He is the father of your baby and I am sure you want what is best for the baby. You need to forgive and move on for the little one. He is the child’s father and your anger will not be good for the baby. I wish you the best of luck. I am sure it will be difficult to be a single mom but the baby will bring joy to your life. [/quote]

Yes he is the father of my baby and I DO want what’s best for my baby–so I’ve decided that he will not be in the kid’s life whatsoever except for the monthly child support check he’ll have to write for the next 18 years. I will not subject my child to his new skank whore girlfriend/flavor of the week, his abuse of steroids, and the fact that he is a womanbeater.

He already tried to make me have a miscarriage by throwing me around in our house and knocking me down. And yes you’re right, the anger is not good for the baby, that’s why I am trying my best to remember that the baby is #1 right now. I am so estatic though!

I was extremely scared over Labor Day weekend b/c I went drag racing w/my family, and had a grand mal seizure. My initial thought when I first came out of it was OMG is the baby ok!? Thank God it was, so I’m just enjoying every day of making a new life–just sucks that the daddy is missing out on all of this. But, he has made his choice and I respect that.

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[quote]TACHICK wrote:
Ok, SIT DOWN FOR THIS…I was on BIRTH CONTROL when this unfortunate mishap occurred…and btw, he and I had been there TWICE before when I was on the best BC out there…so, I resent the comment that you said " You made some very poor choices and want to blame them all on someone else…"
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so you’re implying that you’ve already had two abortions with this guy because of failed birth control?

I can’t believe that you saw no signs of his ‘loser’ behavior before you got pregnant…

so why were you having sex with a total loser when you know the birth control method you’re using is not fool-proof?

hell, why were you spending time with a total loser at all, let alone impaling yourself on his dick?

resent it all you want, but again, YOU have made some very poor choices…YOU were playing with fire and got burned…YOU need to accept responsibility for your actions…

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[quote]DPH wrote:
TACHICK wrote:
Ok, SIT DOWN FOR THIS…I was on BIRTH CONTROL when this unfortunate mishap occurred…and btw, he and I had been there TWICE before when I was on the best BC out there…so, I resent the comment that you said " You made some very poor choices and want to blame them all on someone else…"

so you’re implying that you’ve already had two abortions with this guy because of failed birth control?

I can’t believe that you saw no signs of his ‘loser’ behavior before you got pregnant…

so why were you having sex with a total loser when you know the birth control method you’re using is not fool-proof?

hell, why were you spending time with a total loser at all, let alone impaling yourself on his dick?

resent it all you want, but again, YOU have made some very poor choices…YOU were playing with fire and got burned…YOU need to accept responsibility for your actions…
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Well, the times of the accidental pregnancies, I was on different bc each and every time. I also suffer from epilepsy that at the time, I was on a medication that knocked the bc down a bit, and knew there was a chance of getting pregnant.

No, I did not sense any of his loser behavior during the first 2 accidents. He had me totally believing that we were going to be together forever and I never suspected him of any wrongdoing whatsoever.

Now this last time, (again on bc), I did have suspicions about him being unfaithful, which a friend of his confirmed to me b/c my guy was bragging to the guys at the gym about all the head and p*ssy he was getting at the bars on his nights off when I was at home in bed by myself.

Wrong yes, but I DID do something about it and walked out of the relationship. Sure it hurts, and I still love him but I can’t be second best to anyone.

I do take responsibility for my actions, and I will do whatever is necessary to take care of the lil one growing inside me right now-that is my main concern, so no hard feelings and I appreciate your input.

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[quote]TACHICK wrote:
No, I did not sense any of his loser behavior during the first 2 accidents. He had me totally believing that we were going to be together forever and I never suspected him of any wrongdoing whatsoever.
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uh…

you allowed yourself to get pregnant by a 33 year old guy that hangs out in bars, gets drunk all the time, and lives with his parents…

and you didn’t sense any ‘loser’ behavior what-so-ever?

hmmm…I’m guessing you’re one of the tens of millions of women with really low self-esteem and a ‘I’m a helpless victim’ mentality…

I wish your child the best of luck, he/she’s going to need it…

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[quote]DPH wrote:
TACHICK wrote:
No, I did not sense any of his loser behavior during the first 2 accidents. He had me totally believing that we were going to be together forever and I never suspected him of any wrongdoing whatsoever.

uh…

you allowed yourself to get pregnant by a 33 year old guy that hangs out in bars, gets drunk all the time, and lives with his parents…

and you didn’t sense any ‘loser’ behavior what-so-ever?

hmmm…I’m guessing you’re one of the tens of millions of women with really low self-esteem and a ‘I’m a helpless victim’ mentality…

I wish your child the best of luck, he/she’s going to need it…[/quote]

Thats something else I haven’t figured out about women yet. They all claim to want a nice guy and make him date for months, but bang the first loser they meet in a bar.

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[quote]Geography wrote:
DPH wrote:
TACHICK wrote:
No, I did not sense any of his loser behavior during the first 2 accidents. He had me totally believing that we were going to be together forever and I never suspected him of any wrongdoing whatsoever.

uh…

you allowed yourself to get pregnant by a 33 year old guy that hangs out in bars, gets drunk all the time, and lives with his parents…

and you didn’t sense any ‘loser’ behavior what-so-ever?

hmmm…I’m guessing you’re one of the tens of millions of women with really low self-esteem and a ‘I’m a helpless victim’ mentality…

I wish your child the best of luck, he/she’s going to need it…

Thats something else I haven’t figured out about women yet. They all claim to want a nice guy and make him date for months, but bang the first loser they meet in a bar.[/quote]

Hey guys. How many times have you been the loser in that bar?

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[quote]Rockscar wrote:
Geography wrote:
DPH wrote:
TACHICK wrote:
No, I did not sense any of his loser behavior during the first 2 accidents. He had me totally believing that we were going to be together forever and I never suspected him of any wrongdoing whatsoever.

uh…

you allowed yourself to get pregnant by a 33 year old guy that hangs out in bars, gets drunk all the time, and lives with his parents…

and you didn’t sense any ‘loser’ behavior what-so-ever?

hmmm…I’m guessing you’re one of the tens of millions of women with really low self-esteem and a ‘I’m a helpless victim’ mentality…

I wish your child the best of luck, he/she’s going to need it…

Thats something else I haven’t figured out about women yet. They all claim to want a nice guy and make him date for months, but bang the first loser they meet in a bar.

Hey guys. How many times have you been the loser in that bar?[/quote]

I’ll bet they were not complaining then.

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[quote]Rockscar wrote:
Hey guys. How many times have you been the loser in that bar?[/quote]

I always envied that loser, but I was generally too shy to be him.

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[quote]DPH wrote:
TACHICK wrote:
No, I did not sense any of his loser behavior during the first 2 accidents. He had me totally believing that we were going to be together forever and I never suspected him of any wrongdoing whatsoever.

uh…

you allowed yourself to get pregnant by a 33 year old guy that hangs out in bars, gets drunk all the time, and lives with his parents…

and you didn’t sense any ‘loser’ behavior what-so-ever?

hmmm…I’m guessing you’re one of the tens of millions of women with really low self-esteem and a ‘I’m a helpless victim’ mentality…

I wish your child the best of luck, he/she’s going to need it…[/quote]

Well to clarify, and it really doesn’t matter, he lives in mommy and daddy’s house that they still own…they ended up moving to grandparents farm when grandpa died. But they still run his every move from when to shit to what coupons to use at the grocery store. And they are "Holier than thou, wanna-be christians (You know that f*in type) so you know how insane they are as people. For god’s sake, moomy through a caniption fit on Thanksgiving b/c we took a bottle of wine over for dinner. Hello, remember the verse in the Bible, “God turned the water INTO WINE?” Hippocrits of the first degree.

I know I allowed myself to get victimized by him. I’m human after all and shit happens, usually to decent people. And I honestly loved the man with my whole heart and soul and gave up everything to prove that to him so yes, I have learned a valuable lesson, don’t be so trusting next time…

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[quote]Rockscar wrote:
Geography wrote:
DPH wrote:
TACHICK wrote:
No, I did not sense any of his loser behavior during the first 2 accidents. He had me totally believing that we were going to be together forever and I never suspected him of any wrongdoing whatsoever.

uh…

you allowed yourself to get pregnant by a 33 year old guy that hangs out in bars, gets drunk all the time, and lives with his parents…

and you didn’t sense any ‘loser’ behavior what-so-ever?

hmmm…I’m guessing you’re one of the tens of millions of women with really low self-esteem and a ‘I’m a helpless victim’ mentality…

I wish your child the best of luck, he/she’s going to need it…

Thats something else I haven’t figured out about women yet. They all claim to want a nice guy and make him date for months, but bang the first loser they meet in a bar.

Hey guys. How many times have you been the loser in that bar?[/quote]

And in his case, the loser that relies on bars and internet dating sites for new and “strange” p*ssy…which I met him by awkward chance on the internet which is another story in and of itself and will elaborate later when you “true” men bash me some more, which I deserve! :slight_smile:

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[quote]Geography wrote:
Thats something else I haven’t figured out about women yet. They all claim to want a nice guy and make him date for months, but bang the first loser they meet in a bar.[/quote]

why the hell would any guy go out with a women for months without getting any ass? that’s crazy. have you never heard of the third date rule? if you haven’t gotten anything by the third date, you cut your loses and never call them again…

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[quote]DPH wrote:

why the hell would any guy go out with a women for months without getting any ass? that’s crazy. have you never heard of the third date rule? if you haven’t gotten anything by the third date, you cut your loses and never call them again…[/quote]

You have obviously never heard of the fourth date principle:

If a guy doesn’t make it to the fourth date he is a loser and it’s a good riddance whore.