“What worries me the most is that most men are so weak,” she added. “Because of that they act like they don’t care and like machos – because they are too fragile inside. They’re scared of confrontation and afraid of so many things. And because of this they build up their life so they have to deal with their feelings as little as possible.”
To completely throw everything she said in a total tailspin, she also wants a guy who’s able to be in touch with his girlie side: "I find feminine men unbelievably sexy. But most men are completely incapable of getting in touch with their feminine side… What am I supposed to talk about with a man who doesn’t know what it’s like to be a woman.
[note from CMC] Yeah, that makes perfect sense. Girls are weird.
You didn’t get it at all. She apparently is lamenting the fact that so many men have to act macho because they are ego-centered and not self-actualized. She means men act like tough guys 'cuz they are scared little wussies on the inside. She feels women don’t have this problem nearly as much as men.
Never, ever say Salma Hayek has done anything wrong, especially if you don’t understand what she is saying.
I wonder if she thinks not talking a whole lot is macho? And how the fuck are you supposed to know what it is to be a woman if you are a man? She’s talking out of her ass.
MD I agree and Dave how do you know she is talking about everyone of us? I understand there is supposedly a feminine part of the pysche for both women and men. But I think it manifests itself in different ways in men. The idea that men can understand what it is to be a woman is absurd, no one should expect that. Any man or woman who thinks they can get into the opposites sexs mind is stupid. First you are a person, then your sex dictates certain behaviors that make you secondly a man or a woman. Treat people as people and don’t expect them to be some sort of mental transvestite. Being macho and masculine is not bad as long as it is T-Man masculine. Now being a masculine poser is another thing. If that is what she is talking about she needs to clarify that and not rag on men for being men. To enjoy being loud, aggresive, bosterious, strong, proud etc is not a problem and for that matter maybe she needs to get in touch with her mascualine side like the T-Vixens we all wish we had the honor of sleeping with. Why is it that these women ask men to emulate thier behaviors in order to brdige some social gap instead of them trying out a more masculine role and understanding men. I don’t want women to not shave thier legs etc but by the same token men shouldn’t be socially castrated in order to kiss some supposed hotties ass.
salma sounds like a spoiled brat who has men fawning all over her and catering to her every whim. As though it’s our job to understand what it’s like to be a woman LOL
