She doesn’t know about TRT or the pde5s. I’ve been on TRT about 3 years. I have just recently told her my Dr. has suggested TRT, and she seems ok with it. I was just feeling out her reaction.
I see her usually wednesdays and over the weekend, so i’m always full of cialis and viagra.
I play around with preg and dhea. Also buspar. I’m on wellbutrin daily, along with armour.
I haven’t have libido since like mid 20s and i’m 42 now. Not sure what’s going on. Just horrible. Feel defective and almost like an actor with my gf.
Sorry to hear that and I understand
You should be honest maybe w her?
I don’t know
If i can finally land some libido, my goal is to let her know i’m “gonna try trt” to see how i feel.
I just upper my dose from 150mg once a week to 200mg.
So
You can have sex you just don’t “need” to
That desire not there
Sucks I know
Many women are like that Im it’s tougher for men
Not depressed. Just more like bummed about the libido thing.
It’s like i find women attractive, but when i start to fool around, i don’t get that rush like I should. And hence, not much of a boner, unless i use pde5s.
So i don’t know if it’s “libido” per se, or more like an arousal issue.
I think that’s the same thing really?
Interchangeable
Idk
I’m def depressed about it it’s bad
Like you feel like you should want sex but it’s more conscious rather than carnal
Exactly.
How old are you? Have you ever had libido?
37
Had a raging libido
Sex multiple times a day
Took finasteride for years and didn’t notice but my libido slowly sank and then ED
Crashed
Secondary hypogonadism
Impotence
No libido
Suicide all tnat shit
Penile changes
Improved over time but never what it was
Never had a raging libido where
I needed to release
More like did it bc it was nice and enjoyable
Have you tried any of the depression/anxiety drugs that alter dopamine and serotonin levels and receptors?
I’d give buspar a try.
What is buspar?
I have Wellbutrin but took it for a couple days seemed to make boners worse idk
I know it can cause more ED
wellbutrin shouldn’t cause any issues for you. It was likely something else going on.
Buspar is an axiolytic. I have always felt an increase in libido on and off it. Its known to help libido.
It’s cheap too.
Need prescription I think?
yes
I’d def ask dr about it. I’d start at like 7.5mg twice a day. That’s standard. So 15mg total for the day.
After about a week, i start really thinking about sex. Hard to explain. Its known to help with it. I’m experimenting more with it now.
I’ll ask on Tuesday about it
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Agter three years on TRT no point coming off you’d basically crash to nothing
How are your testes after three years?
Eh a little smaller. Doesn’t bother me. Gf actually prefers it to the saggy ball sack look.
And your scrotum? Super tight like mine usually ?
Although it was like that before too
Sounds like your doing ok bc your GF seems fine
Your having sex successfully but you don’t feel like it or need it
Sucks I know
Why do you think you have ED?
Had it for years?
Have you thought about daily cialis?