Wait, OP is over 30? How do you people get so old without ever growing up?! I thought he was like mid 20’s at best.
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
Oh, because he’s in his late 30s, Op should not feel young at heart? [/quote]
If you think what clothes you wear can make you young at heart well then your feelings of youth will be like a delicate bubble floating on a breeze that leads it into a raging T-rex’s mouth right after it finished eating some prehistoric mega-bees.
[quote]roguevampire wrote:
[quote]H factor wrote:
I hardly ever post here, but this is blowing my mind if you aren’t trolling.
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Why do you train? Seriously? What for? You aren’t competing. I’m not competing. I train to get laid and looking great helps you get laid. You aren’t very old. And yet getting laid doesn’t seem to be a high priority. Not trying to be a dick, but this sounds like an actual problem. I’m not trying to say sex is everything, but young men should want sex.
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You sound like the most stressed out person I’ve ever met. You’ve cheated once in 14 months or whatever you said? What the fuck does that mean? How tight is your asshole? You’re one of those guys that stopwatches his meals aren’t you? And you’re not competing so it makes no sense. Do you read this site? How much do you read professionals on this site talk about cutting back on stress. How much do you read about the benefits of cheating? Benefits for your body and mind. If you pulled the stick out of your ass I bet you’d see better results. And you’d be happier which brings me to my last point.
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You don’t seem happy. At all. You have a maybe decent girlfriend (I can’t really tell) who wants you to relax because you are uptight as hell about something you do way less than I do anyways. You only have two friends and they don’t live nearby? Why? Why are you not out meeting people? You sound like you need some hobbies, and I’m not talking about training. Meet some guys, play some fantasy football or Xbox, make some friends. Let’s say you dedicate yourself and have the perfect body…then what? That doesn’t create happiness. I love lifting and I love looking good…but not nearly as much as my friends, family, fiance, job, etc. You should be healthy to enjoy those aspects of your life better. It sounds like you’re killing yourself and miserable as fuck, but won’t relax because this is “what you do.”
I don’t know if that will help out at all, but you inspired me to post and I pretty much never post on here. Just reading this blew my mind. Good luck if you aren’t trolling. And kudos on a good troll if you are. And you look too old to be wearing Hollister, Abercrombie anyways. Just saying. [/quote]
This reminds me of when someone asked me why do I modify my car so much. Why do you need it to go so fast. You can’t go that fast anywhere anyways, so why bother. People who ask that, will never understand, either about cars or bodybuilding.
I simply like knowing i have a superior car compared to you. I like knowing my supercharger cost probably as much as your whole car does. I like knowing at any given time, i can blow you car off the road like its standing still. same with bodybuilding. I like and take great joy in knowing, im physically bigger and stronger than you. That i can crush the life out of you at any time I choose. I like that feeling of being superior. Am i saying i am superior, No. But being bigger and stronger than 99.99% of the people on this planet gives me great joy.[/quote]
Actually I think you’re misreading it. You clearly understand why you train. I clearly understand why I train. I don’t think OP understands why he trains. It doesn’t seem he trains to get laid (because he shuns sex) and it doesn’t seem training makes him happy because he doesn’t seem happy. I was trying to figure out why the fuck he goes through it all. At least if he was competing he could say to pay the bills or something. I don’t buy all the “I train because that’s what I do” bullshit, everyone does it for something. It seems this guys training is causing a lot of stress in his life and I was trying to get behind the reason he trains.
Then again I keep seeing him bring up shit about him being a virgo like it’s some kind of excuse or something. “Oh I was born this month so I act like this.” I have no time for that kind of psycho talk.
I know it’s fun for some of you to ridicule OP. If he wants to dress like a teen, that’s his problem. And I don’t think the girl he’s moaning about got an issue with it. She seems to love the tightness of his shirts.
And what’s the deal with tight shirts anyway? Serious question. Do men wearing small tight shirts give some of you a boner that you feel uncomfortable enough to comment?
What about Thibs with his tight shirts, always pulling them down 'cos they seem too tight. Do you tell him to get a bigger size? Do you get a hard on watching Tight T-Shirts Thibs (TTT)'s videos?
And jeez, Op, stop telling your life story. Stop that shit, man. Change your training and eating habits and dump your girl if you feel she doesn’t really understand your ‘world’.
Tight shirts are only okay if they are size XL and your buff (not fat) enough to make it tight on you.
This thread is worse than that time a raccoon got stuck in the copier.
And the zercher thread.
[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:
This thread is worse than that time a raccoon got stuck in the copier.
My Sickabs call out thread.
And the zercher thread.[/quote]
What are you kidding?
It’s because of that thread that we know Ct. Rock isn’t some skinny white kid.
That thread was gold. lol
is this guy for real?
anywho.
[quote]BlueCollarTr8n wrote:
Finally…a voice of reason. [/quote]
Why bring reason and logic into an internet thread? Please…leave that to the rest of the world, okay?
Have an lolcat.
yeah…I don’t compute the idea that we’re secretly gay because someone thinks the OP’s shirt was too small.
Sorry I like my clothing and the woman seem to as well. I have no problem catching woman. Sorry, I cant please everyone. what can I do…say what you will. Im not changing it to please anyone.
If I look like douche…so be it. If it makes you feel good to bash others good for you.
@DarkNinjaa Thanks for understanding. You’re so divine. yes, I know…stop my pussy whinning.
@BBB always a pleasure to read you comments buddy. I did try to send you a pm and read on another post that you have an issue. If you only knew how much gear I use…I just dont grow because of the addisons/hydrocortisone.
@roguevampire dude…you need a wider lens tot get all of you in your avatar pic. btw, what car and specs?
@Edevus Some very good advice. Thanks for the feedback. Bravo buddy. And yes stop bitching should be priority… Oh btw, Im not in therapy for a few years now but considering to go back…
@Ulty good shit bro. so JFK was doing the Clinton? HAHA!
@TomRocco Gym is very much pleasure, But for me, I see it as going to work and taking care of business. Im not there to socialize. Im fully focused. put my headphones on and the world doesnt exist anymore. me vs the metal. If my shirt isnt soaked then it was a shitty workout. Food is the same. I enjoy eating. Ive worked in gourmet restaurants since 14YO so Im also a chef and I love to eat. I cant wait for the 3 hours to eat. In terms of a relationship, I put all of my energy in my partner. Nothing less than 110%. I really believe in monogomy and never had a one night stand. I just dont believe in shoving my cock in a girl just to be pleased. It has to be more than that.
@Nards HAHA good shit bro.
@PeteTheSkeet Dont like beer. but had some wine yesterday and fillet mignon…and it was after 4 hours of not eating… god im pathetic.
@Samir is it so bad if I dont have many friends? I like my boring life. I get my fill of action/drama when I do my weddings. I am the silent type till I get to know the person. some told me they thought I was a snob because of this and others tell (woman)me that im very charismatic. Im more the kind that observes.
@Grumpig Hunt front squats…HAHA very creative dude…
Besides that we spoke yesterday and we realized we (mostly me) need to compromise if we want to be with each other. Im going to ease up with my food. still im not 100% sure it will last as I dont believe in long distance relationships. 1.5 hours each way takes a toll on me. thanks again to everyone.
[quote]sufiandy wrote:
Tight shirts are only okay if they are size XL and your buff (not fat) enough to make it tight on you.[/quote]
I honestly have to agree. I personally don’t give a shit about his tight shirt…but with the way women tear each other apart based on what they wear, you would think we would get some understanding here.
If you don’t have the muscle, acting like you have the muscle stands out.
The same goes for really fat guys wearing Under Armour tight shirts in the gym. People will look and talk…and not for the right reasons.
As far as this topic, I think people who only train every 4 or 5 days are not really training…regardless of what letters they claim they are following. I personally think their progress will be sHIT.
X- I have muscle…compared to you, Im puny, but bigger than a normal person. I dont live in the US so the guys here arent so tall and not so big. I did the 3-4 times a week of training. I wasnt able to recuperate fast enough. you may not believe in the HIT but I do. I enjoyed reading mikes articles in mags and loved his whole concept of bodybuilding/nutrition. there’s logic in what he says. many people train using the hit training. I do 3-4 sets though not the 1 he says. Besides that I have a friend who trained using his plan and he grew like a monster. he trained the same body part every 21 days.
I dont know your stats but im 6’, which isnt the optimum height for a BB. add to that that I started skinny (70kg) and add to that my daily hydrocortisone med and its harder.
[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:
What are you kidding?
It’s because of that thread that we know Ct. Rock isn’t some skinny white kid.
That thread was gold. lol[/quote]
For the record, I thought that thread had merit. I was only a reader when it started, but I was with you for the most part. I still don’t know what to make of Rock…guess I just don’t get the humor.
You’re not even from the US? Well the tiny t-shirt thing makes so much more sense now.
You didnt even mention your condition in your OP… Those two pieces of info coulda saved a looooooot of posts.
Dude just drop her and find someone else. It’s that simple. Stop letting your emotions control you.
[quote]rocketman122 wrote:
@Edevus Some very good advice. Thanks for the feedback. Bravo buddy. And yes stop bitching should be priority… Oh btw, Im not in therapy for a few years now but considering to go back…
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I recommend you going back then. You can start therapy with yourself first, by doing what I suggested, brutal self-honesty, write down the issues and look for solutions.
Good luck!
Hold on a minute… you train once every 4-5 days, is this correct?
How you can not have a normal life with your girlfriend while training that infrequently is beyond me. I can easily train everyday for 2-3 hours, eat lots of food and candy, have a good social life and plenty of time to bang my girlfriend.
I think the biggest problem is probably the clean meals and not the training. Trust me, nothing aggravates a woman like a man that eats healthily unfortunately. I don’t know why but I see it everytime.
Your best bet is to up your training and eat a little bit more relaxed, or just tell her to fuck off.