Don’t obsess over lifting programs.
The baseline for any new trainee should be technique because without it no program in the world will save you. 1000 shitty squats does not equate to a single good squat.
Improper technique will not only stunt your results, but it will eventually lead to injury or nagging pain that could haunt you for the rest of your lifting days.
And pertaining to exercise order or templates, there is no magical number of reps and sets that will give you expedited results. There are highly recommended protocols, templates to follow, but no one template justifies the order for everyone.
Push yourself, but know your boundaries.
Keep exercise selection to a minimum. There is no need for 18 different exercises to be performed in a given workout. Hence, the push/pull/leg routines have soared in popularity due to its simplicity and effectiveness.
Again, master the movements and you will master your bio mechanics.
Breathe.
Following a successful bodybuilders routine will not work for you. Period. Unless, you are experienced or under proper supervision of a certified coach.
As you may already know, your diet is crucial to your success. Do your research and find a diet that you can actually follow for months, not one week.
If you don’t know what to workout, you can never go wrong with push ups, pull ups, or squats. Weighted, unweighted, explosive, TUT, negatives, static holds, etc
And most of all, enjoy this shit. If you’re not enjoying the feeling of calculated destruction of your sarcoplasm reticulum when you hit that iron, you’re missing the point. Expel your anger and rage with each rep and tell yourself that you will not let this mindless piece of steel tell you that you can’t lift it!