My 21 Y/O Fiancee's Metabolism is Absolutely Horrible and I Don't Know What to Do

The brightest minds are too busy working on CS homework to gather base info from the more “educated” individuals down the street. :joy::joy:

I don’t even know what that means. I’m a CCAC guy.

Not that there’s anything wrong with that… :joy:

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WOW …that screams true love.

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Jävla ja!

That’s your girl? Why the fuck you trippin???

EDIT:

After seeing this guy describe himself as a college fullback / linebacker build, there’s no way that’s really his fiancé.

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Describe, not demonstrate.

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howie, she’s very attractive but neither me nor her are happy with decent. We want her to look perfect

Anyways. I finally found out what’s going on. I watched her eat during her birthday this sunday and she easily ate about 3500 calories. What’s been happening is that she’s doing a good job eating monday through friday and losing significant weight but then she gains it all back Saturday and Sunday… I don’t think she even realizes

I’ve told her this and she said she will try to pay more attention on the weekends

Polar bear she’s 5’10…remember she has to lose a lot of weight to make a significant difference

She’s probably a good 35% body fat. If she got down to 20% body fat, that would be 30 lbs. Healthy weight for her at 5’10 would be about 177

lucasmon, she’s 5’10 207

keep in mind she has a very thick bone structure and she does have a bit of weight in the belly…although it’s not horrible by any means. She also has natural DDs and a huge ass

Jesus christ dude, you need to get yourself some help.

And while you’re at it, can you post a picture of your perfect self?

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flappinit, it’s so funny you guys think this is all me

She routinely sends me pictures of women she wants to look like…who are practically all just like her minus about 30 lbs. She wants the results just as much as, maybe more than I do

Yeah, but she’s the poor girl with an image disorder, and you’re the predator feeding it.

I’m still asking for that perfect picture of you. Even if you produce it, it won’t make you any less horrible of a person, but I’m genuinely curious what someone with that level of manipulation and narcissism looks like as a physical manifestation.

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This.

flappin it, she’s been sending me pics of women she wants to look like for an entire year and they all look like this

I’m a predator for trying to help her reach her goals??

You would be a predator for trying to help her reach your goals. That’s manipulative and predatory.

Can you see how people would reach these conclusions considering:

  • You’ve repeatedly made it clear that you aren’t happy with the way she looks on a public forum
  • You’ve (ostensibly), uploaded pictures of her, presumably without permission, to a public internet forum
  • You’ve ignored every piece of advice telling you that you don’t know what you’re doing and to hire a professional.
  • You’ve admitted she’s hiding her caloric intake from you. This is a pretty clear indication that she feels she’s doing this for you, not for herself.
  • Nearly every post you’ve made on this topic includes what you want first, and what she wants as an afterthought.
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Come on dude it was her birthday

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I easily had 4K on my birthday and I weigh less than half of what your “fiancé “ did

Aldebaran, my point is I think she’s been massively overeating on cheat days without realizing it

Even say you are under 4000 calories in 5 days …you go above maintenance by 3000 on the weekend and now you’re barely losing 1/3 of a lb during the week

I don’t think she’s been sabotaging herself on purpose. She just has a huge appetite and without controlling herself or tracking the calories, she’s been eating way more than she thinks she has been

She’s still lost like 8 lbs in last 10 weeks so it’s some progress. She still needs another 30 lbs though to get to an athletic body fat range and she knows that. She sends me pics of sexy women all the time she wants to look like

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Dude if she has lost 8 lbs in 10 weeks then nothing to worry about and just be patient.

When I lost 70 lbs I took my time, more than a year, for durable progress and sustainable diet

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Then you need to be happy and stfu.

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