Mel Gibson-Thoughts?

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[quote]Grneyes wrote:

[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:

I grew up listening to that shit as well… I was adopted at a young age and was raised by a psychopath and a serious alcoholic, so I’ve seen some pretty intense fighting myself. When I was in bootcamp I used to tell everyone who got upset about all the screaming and yelling, “are you kidding me, this is nothing”.

But because I grew up around that and realized how much I HATED it I changed myself to make sure I was never like that. Now I will not tolerate screaming at all. I may get mad and my tone may change, but I don’t raise my voice and I don’t cuss at females. I’ve even been in a relationship with a girl who always had that type of relationship and tried baiting me into fighting with her. I eventually broke up with her after trying for months to show her I wasn’t playing her games.

Basically what it comes down to, granted I’m just an interweb nobody to you and I know this so you can take my advice or leave it, but if you really do fight with loved ones this way you need to get out of the relationship that you are in. Then while you are single work on YOU, and figure out what you need to do to stop being that way.

I say end the relationship because there is nothing you can do to change the ways of someone else, but you can change who you are and by doing so you change the type of people you attract and in turn provide a healthier environment for yourself, your children, your wife/ gf, and friends and family you expose to this behavior. This is all easier said than done, controlling temper is not the easiest thing to do.

But the goal is not to NEVER get made or lose your temper, the goal is to change how you react when losing your temper. Just my 2 cents. But like I said, I’m nobody to be giving you advice, I don’t even know you. I’m more writing this for whoever may be reading this and doesn’t understand that fighting like that IS NOT normal. If you’ve only been in relationships where you fight like that, then it’s because YOU are like that and therefor attract others like that or CAUSE others to react like that.

Being in a relationship where nobody yells or disrespects one another even after losing their temper is a wonderful thing.
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It’s awesome and a huge sign of inner strength that you broke the cycle instead of keeping it going. To people who grow up in those types of situations that IS normal. It says a lot when someone grows up with that being the norm and saying “NO. This is NOT the norm. I do not want to live this way”. Congrats on you and your girl stopping the cycle.[/quote]

Hes lucky not to have their genetics.

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[quote]roybot wrote:

[quote]WolBarret wrote:

I haven’t watched that movie since 2009. [/quote]

LMAO. Bullshit.

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You might be right. Maybe I haven’t seen it since February.

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One of my movie heroes has failed me. Why so much racism, Mel? Why?

Por Que Mad Max? Por Que?!!

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“What Women Want”

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[quote]WestCoast7 wrote:
“What Women Want”[/quote]

My answer to that: Who gives a shit?

But that was probably the beginning of his mental breakdown.

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[quote]pja wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:
I refuse to argue. If I am with someone who even makes me argue in a heated battle of words, I get rid of her. I am all about “peace” in my life right now and can’t stand drama. Unfortunately, I am not sure where you other people live who never see this, because my experience is that most of the women IZ crazy.

I swear…one day…I will find a NON-crazy woman…And I will do her until she can’t be done no more.[/quote]

No offense but even if you do find this perfect NON-crazy woman, which do exist as I am married
to one, and by chance get married you will end up arguing “in a heated battle of words” But I am sure you knew that already…as long it stays at that a little arguing once in a while is healthy.[/quote]

The Professor’s dreamgirl is Rose Kennedy.

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[quote]WolBarret wrote:

[quote]WestCoast7 wrote:
“What Women Want”[/quote]

My answer to that: Who gives a shit?

But that was probably the beginning of his mental breakdown.[/quote]

No bro, it was a good movie.

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[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:

[quote]skaz05 wrote:
Most people might not think it’s normal, but I grew up listening to that shit all the time between my parents, especially my mom’s second husband. He would get drunk and they would have these EPIC fights that made Mel Gibsons’s rants seem like baby talk. Several times my mom wound up in the hospital, yet she stayed with him for years where they would continue to have these fucking brawls.

I know “internet people” would never disrespect a woman like that, but we all know that people actually DO fight like this, and it’s a pretty common. I don’t see anyone condemning domestic violence, perceived or otherwise, anywhere else unless it involves celebrities or professional athletes - which pretty much sums up where American priorities lie in terms of culture. [/quote]

I grew up listening to that shit as well… I was adopted at a young age and was raised by a psychopath and a serious alcoholic, so I’ve seen some pretty intense fighting myself. When I was in bootcamp I used to tell everyone who got upset about all the screaming and yelling, “are you kidding me, this is nothing”.

But because I grew up around that and realized how much I HATED it I changed myself to make sure I was never like that. Now I will not tolerate screaming at all. I may get mad and my tone may change, but I don’t raise my voice and I don’t cuss at females. I’ve even been in a relationship with a girl who always had that type of relationship and tried baiting me into fighting with her. I eventually broke up with her after trying for months to show her I wasn’t playing her games.

Basically what it comes down to, granted I’m just an interweb nobody to you and I know this so you can take my advice or leave it, but if you really do fight with loved ones this way you need to get out of the relationship that you are in. Then while you are single work on YOU, and figure out what you need to do to stop being that way.

I say end the relationship because there is nothing you can do to change the ways of someone else, but you can change who you are and by doing so you change the type of people you attract and in turn provide a healthier environment for yourself, your children, your wife/ gf, and friends and family you expose to this behavior. This is all easier said than done, controlling temper is not the easiest thing to do.

But the goal is not to NEVER get made or lose your temper, the goal is to change how you react when losing your temper. Just my 2 cents. But like I said, I’m nobody to be giving you advice, I don’t even know you. I’m more writing this for whoever may be reading this and doesn’t understand that fighting like that IS NOT normal. If you’ve only been in relationships where you fight like that, then it’s because YOU are like that and therefor attract others like that or CAUSE others to react like that.

Being in a relationship where nobody yells or disrespects one another even after losing their temper is a wonderful thing.
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great post.

i didn’t even click the link and only knew a little about the message he left from t.v.; but it was not a surprise. he is an alcoholic and rageaholic. i thought that after the last episode. the racist remarks then were messed up. after the way he talked to the female officer, this does not surprise me. his wife says it was a mistake the tape got leaked. i think she made a mistake linking her life up with him.

i guess he wasn’t really digging deep as an actor when he would fix his dislocated shoulder in the lethal weapon movies. i loved apocalypto. oh well.

insane.

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He’s gone too far.

But, I’m sure there is more to the story than this woman is making out to be. She did record and release this after all.

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[quote]skaz05 wrote:

[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:
It was actually my sister who caused me to decide to break the cycle. I used to have a really bad temper and was always getting in fights, I actually loved feeling like a baddass. Til one day my sister confessed that she was afraid of me and didn’t want to go out with me anymore, because she was afraid I’d start problems with the wrong person and get us both killed.[/quote]

This is funny because my sister had a tremendously nasty temper up until her late twenties. The littlest things would set her off and once she got going everyone would just get the hell out of the way. She would start fights with complete strangers over the dumbest shit ever. I HATED going out in public with her because 90% of the time she would start some shit, then expect ME to jump in and join along with her.

One afternoon, we were in our teens, we were waiting at a bus stop and this veterano was waiting there with us. He was just standing there, didn’t even look over at us. My sister just flipped out on him for NO FUCKING REASON! She got in his face, screaming at him then she started pushing him daring him to hit her. It was fucking humiliating. The dude just stood there and took it, didn’t really even say anything, I think he don’t spoke English though. I had to grab her and drag her away and take her to the next bus stop.

Turns out this guy was a member of one of the local HB gangs, we didn’t see him for almost a month when he spotted us walking home from school. He was with two other guys. I had never been so scared in my life. They surrounded us while we were walking across the baseball field, one of them pulled a gun on me, one of those small silver ones. I totally thought I was going to get shot because of what my sister had done almost a month earlier. Shit was fucking crazy. Then, like a fucking miracle, one of those bulldozer things, the one with the crane on them, drove up out of nowhere and started screaming. They took off, we both looked at him and started gushing at this guy thanking him, it was like straight out of a movie - I’ll never forget it. Scariest walk home from school ever.

Anyways, that didn’t stop her temper. She was always getting in fights with people. My sister is fucking nuts. She made one of her boyfriends cry in front of everyone while we were at a bar. She was always getting into physical fights with her boyfriends, it was almost like a role reversal, where my sister had the biggest balls of every guy in her life.

She pretty much calmed down after having her second kid. She’s still crazy though.

Sorry for derailing, I just thought it was funny how our stories are kinda similar only your sister calmed you down, and my sister is the crazy one.[/quote]

LMAO @ starting shit with a veterano. I’m surprised at the outcome, that guy despite being a veterano sounds like a b****. He didn’t do anything or say anything when your sis was getting in his face, but decided to get backup and a gun to confront you?

See thats why I only hang out in SSG, atleast the gangsters there prefer to handle the situation at hand and not wait a month to confront you. Looks like your sis has more balls then the HB cholos too.

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[quote]pja wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:
I refuse to argue. If I am with someone who even makes me argue in a heated battle of words, I get rid of her. I am all about “peace” in my life right now and can’t stand drama. Unfortunately, I am not sure where you other people live who never see this, because my experience is that most of the women IZ crazy.

I swear…one day…I will find a NON-crazy woman…And I will do her until she can’t be done no more.[/quote]

No offense but even if you do find this perfect NON-crazy woman, which do exist as I am married
to one, and by chance get married you will end up arguing “in a heated battle of words” But I am sure you knew that already…as long it stays at that a little arguing once in a while is healthy.[/quote]

And the make up sex can be awesome…

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[quote]bond james bond wrote:

Piss tank man starts to pull bills out of his pocket, spits on the bills, crumples them up and throws them at my friends and stumbles away down the street. Well they start to shit themselves when they start to pick up these hundreds, can’t remember how much total but I think it was around $500. True story.

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Happy to get the scraps from Longshanks’ table. I’ll bet you’d still pick them up if he had wiped his ass with them first too. Hint: His point there was to show what piss-ants YOU really are in the world, and how much your opinion means to him. Did you spend his spit soaked bills all in one place?

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GOLD DIGGER. Does no one else see this?

She obviously baited him. Listen to how calm her voice is.

She did something to piss him off severely, taped it, and then ‘leaked’ it.

$$$$ show me the money!!! That’s all that bitch is doin.

I bet he ain’t really that crazy.

Every news station blows this thing up, the women anchors are all like “OH MY GOD!!! WHAT A LUNATIC”

Of course they side with the woman…lets hear Mel’s side, oh wait we never will. That bitch is taking him to court, he’ll settle for however many million she wants and that will be the end of it.

GOLD DIGGIN HOE.

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[quote]fraggle wrote:

[quote]skaz05 wrote:

[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:

[quote]skaz05 wrote:

I read that this is a sign of a relationship that is in trouble. I don’t remember where, probably in psyche class or something.
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What is a sign that a relationship is in trouble?? If nobody screams or disrespects eachother?? [/quote]

Yeah, something like that. It has something to do with the two not having enough passion in their relationship, or not caring enough about each other, or some other types of shit that I don’t remember. At the time it sounded like it made sense.[/quote]

I do remember hearing something along those lines, but if I remember correctly, it was when there was no arguing in a relationship, and not screaming.

No arguing makes sense in that it would be a sign that they have emotionally checked out of the relationship, no longer caring what the other person does or thinks.

However, people can argue without screaming, insulting, or passive aggressive behaviour.

Aside from that though, the debate over yelling/not yelling is not the same as what is being reported about him.

I have never heard of anyone (normal) screaming “I’ll put you in a fucking rose garden, you cunt” to a girlfriend.

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Who the fuck are these people saying this, emotionally checked out my ass. These relationship experts and psycologists are scam artists let me geuss it’s healthy to have a few arguments then to talk them out together with someone else with you for just 200 dollars a session.

Everyone is different hell if I’m in a relationship with no arguing and enjoying what I am I gonna break up with her cuz dr.virgin says I have no passion?

Great posts by andrew, my family are aholes all drama and screaming, except mom she is dramitic but not evil, I hate yelling and have nothing to do with it and have no contact with my crazy screaming hateful family members. To me there are friends and enemies freinds=freinds, girls i bang date etc. Never yell at any of them and don’t really get in arguments at least involving anger. yelling,hitting,insulting is for enemies not friends.

On topic of mel gibson. Braveheart is the best movie ever. And he sounds completly crazy both of them sound like they are acting.

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[quote]i work out wrote:
GOLD DIGGER. Does no one else see this?

She obviously baited him. Listen to how calm her voice is.

She did something to piss him off severely, taped it, and then ‘leaked’ it.

$$$$ show me the money!!! That’s all that bitch is doin.

I bet he ain’t really that crazy.

Every news station blows this thing up, the women anchors are all like “OH MY GOD!!! WHAT A LUNATIC”

Of course they side with the woman…lets hear Mel’s side, oh wait we never will. That bitch is taking him to court, he’ll settle for however many million she wants and that will be the end of it.

GOLD DIGGIN HOE.[/quote]

I love braveheart as much as anyone but cmon.
…

â??You go out in public and itâ??s a fcking embarrassment to me. You look like a fcking bitch in heat. And if you get raped by a pack of ni**ers it will be your fault. Alright? Because you provoked it. You are provocatively dressed all the time with your fake boobs that you feel you have to show off. I donâ??t like it. I donâ??t want that woman. I donâ??t want you. I donâ??t trust you. I donâ??t love you.â??

and he knocked her teeth out

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He really doesn’t sound that riled up to me. I mean he’s not even yelling if you listen to the audio. Probably just trying to take some digs at her and get a reaction, but it doesn’t work since she flipped tables on him in first place.

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I lol twice:

Once when he fake laughed to make fun of her and second when he was close to hyper-ventilating.

Meltdown gold.

Seriously thought she was over acting/reading from a script.

Entire situation seemed staged on her part but so wheels off. Damn she can push his bottons…

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[quote]i work out wrote:
GOLD DIGGER. Does no one else see this?

She obviously baited him. Listen to how calm her voice is.

She did something to piss him off severely, taped it, and then ‘leaked’ it.

$$$$ show me the money!!! That’s all that bitch is doin.

I bet he ain’t really that crazy.

Every news station blows this thing up, the women anchors are all like “OH MY GOD!!! WHAT A LUNATIC”

Of course they side with the woman…lets hear Mel’s side, oh wait we never will. That bitch is taking him to court, he’ll settle for however many million she wants and that will be the end of it.

GOLD DIGGIN HOE.[/quote]

Your post and your avatar say a lot about the type of “man” you are.

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I am now worried about being raped by a “pack of ni@@ers”. Help me. What should I look out for? How should I dress to avoid “pack O ni@@er” rape?

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[quote]Professor X wrote:
I am now worried about being raped by a “pack of ni@@ers”. Help me. What should I look out for? How should I dress to avoid “pack O ni@@er” rape?[/quote]

Don’t leave the house.

I hear “those people” are everywhere.