[quote]MassiveGuns wrote:
[quote]Smashingweights wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]Smashingweights wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]Smashingweights wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Everyone shouldn’t feel welcome
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Thank you for finally answering a question. [/quote]
Oh, I see you accidentally missed the rest.
Here, let me add that for you. Must have been a mistake.
Everyone shouldn’t feel welcome to speak on the same level if they do not even train regularly…which does happen here often. We have seen it before where some don’t even train at all but love posting what they read as if they do.
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I did not miss the rest. You feel that less developed (pure size of only a few muscles right?
should not be allowed to speak about bodybuilding and should not feel welcome here
Which = not everyone should feel welcome here.
It is quite simple.[/quote]
Let’s play.
If you were focused in the gym…how much time would you waste talking to the guy who isn’t even dressed to train but comes in everyday to sit on the leg extension machine and drink coffee?
Would he feel “welcome” speaking to you while you trained?
I don’t know about you, but my guess is, someone like that would not feel “welcome” around me while I was focused on the gym.
It would be different if simply walking past someone on the street.[/quote]
I have no interest in playing with you Professor.
I have never seen anyone come into the gym with a cup of coffe and drink it while leg pressing the entire time.
In general I do not talk with anyone at the gym.
I am not there to socialize and my time is precious. I get in, lift and get on with my real life.
I have been approached in the gym by serious lifters bigger than you or I, the old guy who drys his balls with the hair dryer and many a young scrawny noob who does curls in front of the mirror and cable cross overs only.
I treat them all the same and show the same respect.
I am kind, courteous and answer any questions or help in any way I can.
We are all in the gym to better ourselves and whether their goal is to step onstage at the O, get a biceps pump to impress the girls at school or burn out their quads while enjoying a cup of joe.
I am just glad that more people are getting up off the sofa and throwing some weight around.
Everyone is welcome in my book.
But again, that I just the opinion is someone who probably doesn’t belong in your opinion.[/quote]
You have the patience of a saint.
What about people who give unsolicited advice whilst your doing heavy high rep squats? I agree you should try and be respectful as possible in a social sense, but what about if it interferes with your focus? I don’t mind helping anyone out and happily share my experiences and opinions on lifting if asked in the right circumstances but when I lift I just want to focus. Having people around you with a similar mindset is much more beneficial.
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Lol I try 
The unsolicited advice thing is another issue entirely I think.
If I am a huge guy and a skinny 17year old kid comes to tell me what to do then I probably thank them for their advice and discard it immediately if it wasn’t legit.
If I was rounding my back during deadlifts or butt winking (lol) during squats and he kindly gave me a heads up about it then I would by thankful.
Good advice is good advice, regardless of the source.