[quote]mapwhap wrote:
Truthfully…don’t we all need to find what works for us as individuals? There is no such thing as an “ultimate” martial art. The vast majority have their good points and bad points, and you have to find one that works for you.
For example…I envy boxers. Much like the OP, I know I have slow reflexes, I’m a horrible counter-puncher, and frankly, I’m somewhat flat-footed. I admire the punching power and footwork that boxers develop, as well as the excellent sense of timing and shot placement they develop. It’s just never worked for me, because of my perceived shortcomings.
So, over the years, I learned to use my size to my advantage. I like to crowd people…force them into knee and elbow range, where speed and reflexes don’t count for as much…but striking power does. I believe people used to refer to this as “trapping range”, but I hear it more referred to as “pummeling range” now, and I think that more accurately describes it. I’ve actually tried a couple different arts that worked in that range…Muay Thai, JKD, some Krav Maga, even some Keysi Fighting Method…a lot of arts spend some time in that range and I’ve tried to learn different options for getting there and different tools to apply once I’m in. (For the record, I don’t favor one over the other…KFM is VERY unorthodox, though.)
Once I found that I was pretty good at that range, I also learned some of the more “explosive” throws and takedowns one finds in wrestling. Since I like to power clean and deadlift still, I found that they suited me. Then I just started to learn submission wrestling, and went from there. I have found that I really enjoy the submission wrestling stuff, but that is more useful for my line of work. For a street fight, I’ll stick to the knees and elbows…maybe a few of the more violent wrestling throws, which are obviously going to be made worse for my opponent by landing on concrete.
So…I would say finding the “right” art is all about a little experimentation and self-discovery. What works for me obviously won’t work for the 110 pound woman being assaulted. But…teach that woman a blade oriented art, and she’ll probably do very well. Actually, with any woman that was serious about self-defense, that’s probably exactly where I’d start…some form of art that emphasized the blade. I have found that even women who are very skittish about guns seem to have no problem working with blades.
Anyway…I’m rambling. But, I would tell the OP to try different stuff til he finds one that “fits”. You’ll know it when you do it.[/quote]
Very good post and important points.
Also, even within any given art individuals will have to likely appropriate the skills they learn to themselves through trial and error/experience. For instance had Mike Tyson tried to fight like Vitali Klitschko he never would have been world champ, and vice versa. So I actually don’t necessarily agree with you guys that “boxing” requires one to be Roy Jones or Floyd Mayweather in the speed and reflexes department. Yes, trying to fit into a mold that does not suit your individual strengths and weaknesses will likely not produce the desired results, but I don’t think you can really pidgeon hole systems based on one/a few examples.
Let’s take wrestling as another example, even at the elite level you’ve got someone like Karelin who was just physically superior to everyone he ever wrestled, a true athletic freak, and thus his style was all about just physically overwhelming/over powering guys. Sure he was also very technically sound (you really don’t go practically untouched in International competition for decades without technique), but it’s undeniable that his style was made possible by his superior athleticism and that a lesser athlete would not have been nearly as successful trying to emulate his wrestling style. On the other hand you’ve got someone like Ben Askrin or Gene Mills who would actually sometimes let themselves get taken down so they could create a scramble and wind up reversing their opponent and ultimately winning. Had Karelin tried to emulate such a style then he too would not have been the wrestler that he was.
You can find other such examples in pretty much any other Combat sport/Martial Art (judo, BJJ, Kickboxing/Muay Thai, Sambo, MMA, etc…).
I guess the point of my rant is that the OP shouldn’t shy away from doing an art that he may be interested in trying simply because a few example practitioners of that art don’t fit into the same “archetype” as him. If you have a good coach who understands how to appropriate the skills to different individuals and doesn’t just try to jam every peg into the same square hole, and assuming that the system actually provides for some opportunity to “pressure test” the skills to make sure that they work, then he should be able to gain some valuable skills.