[quote]ScrawnySavant wrote:
By any chance, anyone here can tell me which style is better in Martial Arts to kick someone’s ass good?..I have seen 7 gyms, they have Kenpo-Karate, Savate, Wing Chun, Hapkido, Taekwondo, Kickboxing and Krav Maga, and I need something that teaches mostly to block/parry any punch, that emphasizes being “untouchable” and which is fast to learn and can be used easy.[/quote]
First, I’d agree with others who stated that you should not be looking to get into fights. Avoiding or averting (using speech, body posture, body language to attempt to convince your opponent to decide not to fight you) are the best methods of self defense. As the great Morihei Ueshiba (the founder of Aikido) once said (and I’m paraphrasing), “if you have have to resort to blows, you’ve already lost.”
Also, I’m sorry to burst your bubble, but there is no art out there, none, that is going to make you “untouchable”. If you get into a fight expect to get hit. The more realistic systems will teach you this reality and in many cases you will be getting hit while learning them.
Finally, I don’t really want to get into a “which system is best” discussion (been in too many of those already), so I’m not going to tell you which system to learn. What I will do is try to point out some important points to consider when choosing a place to train (with actual combat/self defense in mind).
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Resistance. If the school doesn’t ever have it’s students actually “pressure test” their techniques against other fully resisting opponents then you’re not going to be able to do the movements in real time when it counts.
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Practicality. Are the techniques/situations that the school trains for practical? In other words are they practice defending against reverse punches, using and defending against ancient weapons that one will almost definitely never encounter in an actual fight? Or do then address the realities of different types of terrains, multiple opponents, modern weaponry and more contemporary/common attacking methods which the students are much more likely to encounter?
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Focus. Now I’m not saying that a system that focuses on sport combat won’t work for self defense, they will. But, schools that only focus on combat with rules and never address things like ambush attacks, verbal or postural self defense, weapons, multiple opponents, terrain etc… are going to leave the student with some definite holes in their game.
Of course many sport combat guys are extremely tough, so once again I’m not saying that they’d get tooled on just because they aren’t in a ring. But, if you have a choice then finding a system that not only makes you a good fighter but also prepares you for realistic situations is the best way to go.
- Instruction. Regardless of the system, it’s the teacher that determines what gets taught at the school and how well the students understand the material. Even if it’s the “best” system in the world, if the teacher can’t get the material across to his/her students, then the students will never reach their full potential.
In contrast, an excellent teacher can make even a “less than ideal” system work for their students. Of course once again the ideal is a teacher who is extremely accomplished both as a practitioner and as an instructor, but those are admittedly not all that easy to find.
Finally, as to your last comment “that is fast to learn and used easily”, once again, sorry but as far as physical techniques this just doesn’t happen. Really the only things that I would say would truly be fast to learn and applied easily would be cerebral/verbal/postural self defense tactics. All physical tactics are going to take considerable time, effort and consistency to be able to use in a real situation.