Let's Process Our Feelings

[orion]

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

BUT - If something happened to him, I’d probably go with a golden retriever and a vibrator. I’ve told that joke here before, after that DAMN Orion told me that my sexual market value is dropping like a stone with every passing year.

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The-Solomon-Group.pdf

Proverb 28[/quote]

I had time to read more of this today. I am horror-struck. The poor writing alone is enough to upset me, but the message? My God. Do these men not realize that they are nasty, conniving sluts, too? “Brooklyn,” in Proverb 28 - am I understanding that he is married and still staggering hookups with his naked-texting sluts?

UGH. Orion, you’re killing me.[/quote]

x2, except the part about the old man who still loves his wife.

Ridiculous. And repellent. And I think he’s serious, which makes it a little bit funny. Wow, if you want to know the secrets to how women work, just ask that guy.

Goethe said “We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.” - Yeah, I wouldn’t spend a lot of time loving that blog. He seems like a bitter dork, who doesn’t see the cognitive disconnect of writing about lying manipulative sluts, while being a lying manipulative slut. Of course, he probably lives in his mom’s basement, and is just making up a lot of stuff about picking up women so his online persona seems badass. [/quote]

I dont think you two get what this story is about from his perspective.

I dont think he did at the time that he wrote it.

He is basically saying that he would like to grow up, but if all that gets him is a sloar, why bother?

He is getting laid the way he is and he does not believe the quality of women will change if he improves, so he does not. [/quote]

And clearly, getting laid by better women is the only good reason there is to grow up.[/quote]

I started to write something somewhat adult, but the truth is:

Yes, that is the only reason.

[EmilyQ]

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

BUT - If something happened to him, I’d probably go with a golden retriever and a vibrator. I’ve told that joke here before, after that DAMN Orion told me that my sexual market value is dropping like a stone with every passing year.

[/quote]

The-Solomon-Group.pdf

Proverb 28[/quote]

I had time to read more of this today. I am horror-struck. The poor writing alone is enough to upset me, but the message? My God. Do these men not realize that they are nasty, conniving sluts, too? “Brooklyn,” in Proverb 28 - am I understanding that he is married and still staggering hookups with his naked-texting sluts?

UGH. Orion, you’re killing me.[/quote]

x2, except the part about the old man who still loves his wife.

Ridiculous. And repellent. And I think he’s serious, which makes it a little bit funny. Wow, if you want to know the secrets to how women work, just ask that guy.

Goethe said “We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.” - Yeah, I wouldn’t spend a lot of time loving that blog. He seems like a bitter dork, who doesn’t see the cognitive disconnect of writing about lying manipulative sluts, while being a lying manipulative slut. Of course, he probably lives in his mom’s basement, and is just making up a lot of stuff about picking up women so his online persona seems badass. [/quote]

I dont think you two get what this story is about from his perspective.

I dont think he did at the time that he wrote it.

He is basically saying that he would like to grow up, but if all that gets him is a sloar, why bother?

He is getting laid the way he is and he does not believe the quality of women will change if he improves, so he does not. [/quote]

He gets what he deserves, because he is no better and IMO much worse than the “sloars” for his calculated and vicious approach to the matter. Showing pics around and laughing at the girls he’s planning to sleep with? I’m assuming that his technique doesn’t include honesty about his complete disdain for each and every one of them. It’s atrocious, and if the girls are grasping, conscienceless skanks, then good. They’ve all found their match.

[orion]

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

BUT - If something happened to him, I’d probably go with a golden retriever and a vibrator. I’ve told that joke here before, after that DAMN Orion told me that my sexual market value is dropping like a stone with every passing year.

[/quote]

The-Solomon-Group.pdf

Proverb 28[/quote]

I had time to read more of this today. I am horror-struck. The poor writing alone is enough to upset me, but the message? My God. Do these men not realize that they are nasty, conniving sluts, too? “Brooklyn,” in Proverb 28 - am I understanding that he is married and still staggering hookups with his naked-texting sluts?

UGH. Orion, you’re killing me.[/quote]

x2, except the part about the old man who still loves his wife.

Ridiculous. And repellent. And I think he’s serious, which makes it a little bit funny. Wow, if you want to know the secrets to how women work, just ask that guy.

Goethe said “We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.” - Yeah, I wouldn’t spend a lot of time loving that blog. He seems like a bitter dork, who doesn’t see the cognitive disconnect of writing about lying manipulative sluts, while being a lying manipulative slut. Of course, he probably lives in his mom’s basement, and is just making up a lot of stuff about picking up women so his online persona seems badass. [/quote]

I dont think you two get what this story is about from his perspective.

I dont think he did at the time that he wrote it.

He is basically saying that he would like to grow up, but if all that gets him is a sloar, why bother?

He is getting laid the way he is and he does not believe the quality of women will change if he improves, so he does not. [/quote]

He gets what he deserves, because he is no better and IMO much worse than the “sloars” for his calculated and vicious approach to the matter. Showing pics around and laughing at the girls he’s planning to sleep with? I’m assuming that his technique doesn’t include honesty about his complete disdain for each and every one of them. It’s atrocious, and if the girls are grasping, conscienceless skanks, then good. They’ve all found their match.

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You dont look at this from a male perspective.

The mean partner count for a woman 18-45 is around 4.

The average partner count is 9 and rising.

Meaning, if you get out there, you can basically assume that every woman you meet rides the carousel hard.

Women who up their partner count into the high double digits simply drown out the rest out of a mathematical necessity.

“Assume that she is a slut” might seem terribly misogynist and whatnot, but out of a statistical necessity you will probably be right.

Men react to that.

Plus, it is women who have the upper hand in the sexual market place in the formative years.

They create the men they complain about later.

[EmilyQ]

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

BUT - If something happened to him, I’d probably go with a golden retriever and a vibrator. I’ve told that joke here before, after that DAMN Orion told me that my sexual market value is dropping like a stone with every passing year.

[/quote]

The-Solomon-Group.pdf

Proverb 28[/quote]

I had time to read more of this today. I am horror-struck. The poor writing alone is enough to upset me, but the message? My God. Do these men not realize that they are nasty, conniving sluts, too? “Brooklyn,” in Proverb 28 - am I understanding that he is married and still staggering hookups with his naked-texting sluts?

UGH. Orion, you’re killing me.[/quote]

x2, except the part about the old man who still loves his wife.

Ridiculous. And repellent. And I think he’s serious, which makes it a little bit funny. Wow, if you want to know the secrets to how women work, just ask that guy.

Goethe said “We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.” - Yeah, I wouldn’t spend a lot of time loving that blog. He seems like a bitter dork, who doesn’t see the cognitive disconnect of writing about lying manipulative sluts, while being a lying manipulative slut. Of course, he probably lives in his mom’s basement, and is just making up a lot of stuff about picking up women so his online persona seems badass. [/quote]

I dont think you two get what this story is about from his perspective.

I dont think he did at the time that he wrote it.

He is basically saying that he would like to grow up, but if all that gets him is a sloar, why bother?

He is getting laid the way he is and he does not believe the quality of women will change if he improves, so he does not. [/quote]

He gets what he deserves, because he is no better and IMO much worse than the “sloars” for his calculated and vicious approach to the matter. Showing pics around and laughing at the girls he’s planning to sleep with? I’m assuming that his technique doesn’t include honesty about his complete disdain for each and every one of them. It’s atrocious, and if the girls are grasping, conscienceless skanks, then good. They’ve all found their match.

[/quote]

They create the men they complain about later. [/quote]

It goes both ways. Earnest girls giving into pressure because “if you really cared about me” and then losing faith.

But whatever; it’s complete hypocrisy for men to glory in getting NSA sex while bemoaning that women “ride the carousel.” The men of that sort riding the carousel just as hard. In fact, they ARE the carousel.

[orion]

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Powerpuff wrote:

BUT - If something happened to him, I’d probably go with a golden retriever and a vibrator. I’ve told that joke here before, after that DAMN Orion told me that my sexual market value is dropping like a stone with every passing year.

[/quote]

The-Solomon-Group.pdf

Proverb 28[/quote]

I had time to read more of this today. I am horror-struck. The poor writing alone is enough to upset me, but the message? My God. Do these men not realize that they are nasty, conniving sluts, too? “Brooklyn,” in Proverb 28 - am I understanding that he is married and still staggering hookups with his naked-texting sluts?

UGH. Orion, you’re killing me.[/quote]

x2, except the part about the old man who still loves his wife.

Ridiculous. And repellent. And I think he’s serious, which makes it a little bit funny. Wow, if you want to know the secrets to how women work, just ask that guy.

Goethe said “We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.” - Yeah, I wouldn’t spend a lot of time loving that blog. He seems like a bitter dork, who doesn’t see the cognitive disconnect of writing about lying manipulative sluts, while being a lying manipulative slut. Of course, he probably lives in his mom’s basement, and is just making up a lot of stuff about picking up women so his online persona seems badass. [/quote]

I dont think you two get what this story is about from his perspective.

I dont think he did at the time that he wrote it.

He is basically saying that he would like to grow up, but if all that gets him is a sloar, why bother?

He is getting laid the way he is and he does not believe the quality of women will change if he improves, so he does not. [/quote]

He gets what he deserves, because he is no better and IMO much worse than the “sloars” for his calculated and vicious approach to the matter. Showing pics around and laughing at the girls he’s planning to sleep with? I’m assuming that his technique doesn’t include honesty about his complete disdain for each and every one of them. It’s atrocious, and if the girls are grasping, conscienceless skanks, then good. They’ve all found their match.

[/quote]

They create the men they complain about later. [/quote]

It goes both ways. Earnest girls giving into pressure because “if you really cared about me” and then losing faith.

But whatever; it’s complete hypocrisy for men to glory in getting NSA sex while bemoaning that women “ride the carousel.” The men of that sort riding the carousel just as hard. In fact, they ARE the carousel.

[/quote]

Yes!

But, women are the gatekeepers to sex, men are the gatekeepers to commitment.

If you can have sex simply by being a douche, who failed to guard their gate?

Its the whole “Oh well, if its raining sluts I might as well get wet” dynamic.

You blame men because 100$ bills are waved in front of their faces and they try to get some?